I do think so, yes. Especially in regards to expecting Me to participate or observe or discuss other people’s sex lives or present/future/past sexual experiences. But I’m not gonna think or imply the people Themselves who want to/like to/choose to have sex are icky. I’m well aware my views on sex are atypical. It’s a fine line. People want a particular forum or real life place to be sex positive or sex negative? Neither fits me. I’d rather it be sex never mentioned and not a factor in any discussion that didn’t deliberately start out being about sex, but people seem to view that as sex negative. I’ve been told to my face that me not wanting to be hit on by strangers when minding my own business on a bus or at work is also sex negative. Uh, no. That’s called a personal boundary and also self preservation. Mostly I just wander off in person or virtually when a discussion about that new barbeque place or somebody’s trip to the Grand Canyon turns into speculation or confirmation of ...

Just got my wisdom teeth pulled out today, all four. It is really painful. But, I [19M] was introduced to this very young woman who was fucking gorgeous. I have had two gfs already in my past teenage life and am not bad at talking to girls. But holy heck, I can't stop thinking about her and have never felt this way over someone. I literally froze when she first came out to see me and bring me in for the procedure. [She was just a nurse and not the surgeon.] I didn't remember her name but I do remember lots of touch, a good conversation, and her eyes. It felt like a movie. Reddit, I don't want to seem like a simp or a loser. This is my first post on this subreddit and I had to tell someone because I have been holding this in. I will go back in 2 weeks for a checkup and will hopefully see her again, should I shoot my shot? [ you only live once right?] Submitted May 27, 2022 at 12:01AM Just got my wisdom teeth pulled out today, all four. It is really painful.But, I [1...

I'm (31F) seeing a guy (28M) since last November. We're not in a relationship but we are exclusive. Last December he went in vacations with his friend. We lived a situation that have hurt me deeply. We talked all the time the whole time he was in vacations, texting in the day and talking in the phone at night. He met a British girl on the hotel for less than 48 hours and he sent me a Pic of him with her. When he was coming back to his city he was so sad, and as we were talking he told me he kinda had a crush on that girl and they kissed. I felt so brokenhearted. I still feel hurt about that but time and multiple conversations with him made me heal most of it. The thing is, he just told me he is going in vacations for a month to the Caribbean in September. Since he told me about that I have been so anxious. The Caribbean it's a party place for a guy that goes alone and I'm so scared this gonna happen again. These six months we have developed a deep bond and he is alwa...

I (F) asked the guy I like to let someone take a photo of us and he put his hand on my waist, where the ribs are, basically under the boob. I noticed he otherwise always puts his hand on everybody else's (girls included) shoulder when he takes a photo. What does it mean? Does it mean he is more comfortable with me than with others? Can I consider this sort of a flirt? Submitted May 26, 2022 at 03:47PM I (F) asked the guy I like to let someone take a photo of us and he put his hand on my waist, where the ribs are, basically under the boob.I noticed he otherwise always puts his hand on everybody else's (girls included) shoulder when he takes a photo.What does it mean? Does it mean he is more comfortable with me than with others? Can I consider this sort of a flirt?

Essentially the title, but more details here. I’ll name the friend that likes me Michael & the person I’m with Jack for clarity, though names are obviously fake. I’ve been friends with Jack for 4 years. We weren’t that close but would meet up / play games throughout the years. Last year, he introduced me to Michael and we became close friends in the last few months. Michael is one of the kindest people I know, he’s helped me through a lot. It became really obvious the last few months that he likes me (says he misses me, calls me cute, etc.) though he hasn’t said anything. Jack & I recently found out we’re more compatible than we thought and are currently discussing the potential of dating. Main thing holding us back is distance. Jack & Michael go to the same uni, which is how they met, and they’re decent friends. My question is - how do I tell Michael I’m with Jack, if we decide to date? I think Michael would be crushed - he’s told me it takes a long time for him to get...

Only known her like 5 weeks. And I honestly don’t think her getting off the pill is the difference in behavior. I’ve been around long enough to tell when a girl is losing interest. She used to respond within minutes and she’s rejected my last three invites to hang out, today I invited her to hang and she says her mood is still a mess from getting off the pill. We do have plans to go out Saturday, but honestly I’m thinking of just canceling cause she’s been acting this way all week, and I’m just over it. I’m the type of person that gets anxious quick in situations like this and I’ve been feeling it, and to stop the feeling I’m really just thinking of telling her I don’t think things are working out and we should move on. Submitted May 27, 2022 at 12:13AM Only known her like 5 weeks. And I honestly don’t think her getting off the pill is the difference in behavior. I’ve been around long enough to tell when a girl is losing interest.She used to respond within minutes and she’s re...

me (f19) and my friend/ex (m18) have been friends for about 3 years now on and off. we both have had feeling for each other on and off as well as we kept slipping in and out of relationships because we never got the timing right. well in december him and i started dating and it was perfect until he broke up with me to have time for himself. i am still completely head over heels for him, but hes very distant emotionally but we have mutual friends and he’s consistently nice to me and talks to me when we are all hanging out. the situation sucks honestly, its hard for me to move on when we both have mutual friends, ive even gone on a couple tinder dates here and there but its always him on my mind at the end of the day. does anyone have any advice on how to better the situation in any way? i dont want to ghost all my friends but idk it sucks seeing him and him being so emotionally detached from me. Submitted May 27, 2022 at 12:14AM me (f19) and my friend/ex (m18) have been friends f...