My boyfriend wants a threesome and I told him we could. There are some things I told him needs to happen which I wouldn’t say are rules I have but more so things that need to happen if it’s going to happen. For instance I pick the girl and I want him to wear protection. For other people out there that has had threesomes or thought about it. What are things you guys did or agreed upon that made you comfortable with it? Or things that didn’t make you comfortable with it. I’m new to this and I just am worried a little bit but I want him happy. Submitted March 02, 2020 at 12:09AM My boyfriend wants a threesome and I told him we could. There are some things I told him needs to happen which I wouldn’t say are rules I have but more so things that need to happen if it’s going to happen. For instance I pick the girl and I want him to wear protection. For other people out there that has had threesomes or thought about it. What are things you guys did or agreed upon that made you comfortab...

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Tonight me and my fiance decided to spice up our sex life by getting a sex swing. I had both legs in the stirrups and he had me dangling above him, plowing away. The final thrust sent a wave of pain throughout my core and from underneath me I could see blood on his dick and his eyes were wide. He kept screaming "omg what did I do? Omg". After 5 hours at the hospital we found out that he had tilted my uterus and simultaneously split open my perineum 😂 so no sex for us for 5-7 weeks. Dont buy a sex swing! Submitted March 02, 2020 at 12:17AM Tonight me and my fiance decided to spice up our sex life by getting a sex swing. I had both legs in the stirrups and he had me dangling above him, plowing away. The final thrust sent a wave of pain throughout my core and from underneath me I could see blood on his dick and his eyes were wide. He kept screaming "omg what did I do? Omg". After 5 hours at the hospital we found out that he had tilted my uterus and simultaneous...

Like sorry my Vagina hasn’t had a dick in it yet. Whatcha gonna do bout it. On a more serious note I wish it wouldn’t matter but unfortunately it does and makes me nervous to share that with future partners Submitted March 02, 2020 at 12:19AM Like sorry my Vagina hasn’t had a dick in it yet. Whatcha gonna do bout it. On a more serious note I wish it wouldn’t matter but unfortunately it does and makes me nervous to share that with future partners

Hey, I was just wondering is it just us men that are a little disappointed in ourselves right after masturbation like “huh what was I looking at” or “huh I’m disgusting” or does this happen to women too ? Ps: English isn’t my first language so excuse me if I have made some grammar mistakes. Submitted March 02, 2020 at 12:23AM Hey, I was just wondering is it just us men that are a little disappointed in ourselves right after masturbation like “huh what was I looking at” or “huh I’m disgusting” or does this happen to women too ?Ps: English isn’t my first language so excuse me if I have made some grammar mistakes.

I’m 18 F and into the idea of sexting guys on the internet. I’ve been talking to a guy who wants to see nudes, which is fair, and I’d like to send them, but is it safe to send them through an anonymous snapchat account? By safe I mean, could it come back to me? I wouldn’t have my face or other defining things in them but, how risky is it? Feels like men do it all the time. Submitted March 02, 2020 at 12:26AM I’m 18 F and into the idea of sexting guys on the internet. I’ve been talking to a guy who wants to see nudes, which is fair, and I’d like to send them, but is it safe to send them through an anonymous snapchat account? By safe I mean, could it come back to me? I wouldn’t have my face or other defining things in them but, how risky is it? Feels like men do it all the time.

I like to see a girl taking off her clothes(quite slowly). It's a turn on, and I get excited anticipating what's to come. But some girls have a quick way to pull off all their clothes which just ruins that step. Actually I like to lust the whole day knowing I'm going to get something but when the clothes begin to come off your body knows the action is very soon so there's a feeling like when you've been holding in your pee and finally get near the restroom and it gets harder to hold in. I was getting a massage about 2 weeks ago and she began to strip. I started nibbling my thumbnail admiring her. She stripped down to her bra and panties. Then she took off her bra. I'm not a boob man. Then I asked her to grind on me. She sat on my lap and rubbed her breasts on me. She began grinding her panties on my pipe, then she pulled her panties to the side and began grinding on me :P *claps* It got me so aroused. I wanted to put it in so bad. I didn't want her to tak...

I’m in a long distance relationship, and occasionally we’d mastubate together when calling. Tonight we did that and afterwards she got really guilty for taking so long. I told her I don’t mind and love seeing her pleasure herself even if I’m already finished, but she still feels bad about it. I don’t know how to comfort her about it. Submitted March 02, 2020 at 12:28AM I’m in a long distance relationship, and occasionally we’d mastubate together when calling. Tonight we did that and afterwards she got really guilty for taking so long. I told her I don’t mind and love seeing her pleasure herself even if I’m already finished, but she still feels bad about it. I don’t know how to comfort her about it.

So I started talking to this girl about 3 weeks ago and now she’s showing very strong interest in having sex with me. As funny or stupid as this may sound, should I tell her that my dick is small beforehand or no? Just so she doesn’t get her hopes up. Submitted March 02, 2020 at 12:28AM So I started talking to this girl about 3 weeks ago and now she’s showing very strong interest in having sex with me. As funny or stupid as this may sound, should I tell her that my dick is small beforehand or no? Just so she doesn’t get her hopes up.

My bf [22m] and i [27f] have come across a pickle in our relationship- I cry almost every time we have sex. Obviously this has put a damper on our relationship. My therapist suggested we just do what feels good and start from there. Seems like a duh? But I really had to think about it. So we tried it, but without the penetrative sex part. Oh my god was it the most glorious making out/oral I’ve ever had in my life. Everything I’ve dreamed of. I didn’t cum but it felt so good and I was so proud. Submitted March 02, 2020 at 12:29AM My bf [22m] and i [27f] have come across a pickle in our relationship- I cry almost every time we have sex. Obviously this has put a damper on our relationship. My therapist suggested we just do what feels good and start from there. Seems like a duh? But I really had to think about it. So we tried it, but without the penetrative sex part.Oh my god was it the most glorious making out/oral I’ve ever had in my life. Everything I’ve dreamed of. I didn’t cum...

I’ve been really ill this weekend (maybe coronavirus, maybe not) and you’ve made me feeling like shit a little easier with your stupid jokes, our intellectual conversations over cigarettes, the smell of your shampoo when I’m cuddling you and just being in your presence. I just can’t get enough of loving and being loved by you. I do believe you’re my soulmate. Submitted March 01, 2020 at 11:52PM I’ve been really ill this weekend (maybe coronavirus, maybe not) and you’ve made me feeling like shit a little easier with your stupid jokes, our intellectual conversations over cigarettes, the smell of your shampoo when I’m cuddling you and just being in your presence. I just can’t get enough of loving and being loved by you. I do believe you’re my soulmate.

Saw a cute girl on the street today. I asked her for her phone number and she said no. I was so happy. I've never done anything like this before. I could've made a million excuses not to talk to her. But I didn't. She was so pretty. I walked up to her and she had her earphones on -that could've been an excuse- so I poked her. "Hi" , I said, "Hi", she replied. I introduced myself then asked her what her name was. She didn't tell me, instead she asked "Why?" with a confused smile. "Can I have your phone number?" I asked, she said "No" - still couldn't wipe that cute smile- "OK, thanks!", I replied. And we both continued on our ways. I carried on walking. I had a smile on my face that I couldn't immediately explain. Submitted March 01, 2020 at 11:54PM Saw a cute girl on the street today. I asked her for her phone number and she said no. I was so happy.I've never done anything like this be...

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Have you considered an open relationship or a poly amorous relationship? I'm a biromantic ace myself, and I'm not sex averse just not attracted so I would be willing to help my partner with whatever they need so long as that's a two way road. I understand its different for you, and that maybe other options need to be explored. So long as there is trust honesty and respect in the sanctity of you relationship, perhaps she could satisfy her needs with someone else? March 02, 2020 at 12:18AM

I never wanted to have sex, really, I just felt kind of pressured into it I guess? March 02, 2020 at 12:15AM

I simply said to my friends that I am asexual and that I do not experience sexual attraction towards anyone. They pretty much know about what it is and the spectrum within asexuality, so I did not have to explain it to them. But one of my friends refused to believe me because I come across as she said, "a very sexual person". as for the colors, it is explained by the awesome ppl on the replies. it represents a whole spectrum. March 02, 2020 at 12:14AM

It'll get easier when you get older. I'm 22. Plus, who cares if you "shove it in other people's faces". Be proud of you. At some point you get to the realisation that validation from others isn't everything if you're able to validate yourself. Good luck! March 02, 2020 at 12:07AM

Lucky!! My mum doesn't want me to hang up my flag on my wall or wear a pin on my blazer..she thinks its shoving it in peoples faces,shw said to wait until im 18 or 20 amd if i still feel like this..shell support me. But i dont understand why she cant support me now.. March 02, 2020 at 12:02AM

Chastity is different from asexuality March 01, 2020 at 11:56PM

It’s a hive of high functioning hormones on that subreddit. I’m just impressed they knew what an aro-ace is. March 01, 2020 at 11:53PM

I had a breakdown tonight. I’m 7 months postpartum and things have settled down for the most part with my baby. She had pretty bad reflux, so we had a tough time for a few months, but gradually things got better and it’s been good for the most part, until tonight. She was crying for the better part of the day, very fussy and seemed like she was in pain. Her crying gives me very bad anxiety, plus I’m pretty much in charge of taking care of the baby, feeding, naps etc. so I was extremely exhausted. I felt super dizzy when I went to bed and asked my husband about it, he said my blood pressures probably dropped because I’m tired. About an hour later I woke up and felt like I was having a panic attack. Baby woke up at the same time and I woke up my husband to get her because I was unable. He was upset, he went and put her down and come out of her room. I was crying at that point from the panic attack and he was acting so angry, this made me even more upset and I started crying louder and l...

I’m writing on here for some advice. I have been married for 10 years almost. I’m 28 so obviously I got married young. Surprisingly most of our issues have started more recently and don’t have much to do with age. Things started getting tense about 5 years into our marriage when we were trying to have a baby for a while. It’s stressful knowing it’s all because of your pcos and no fault of your husband. Looking back I think I should’ve left him before I had kids due to his anger issues. I.E: punching walls, breaking my waterglobe & also pushing me into a table. He said pushing me into the table was an accident and he didn’t think I’d fall. But it’s almost too late. Anyway, We tried for 7 years and then our precious son was stillborn. For a while we were pretty strong. He said we needed each other to get through it and I believed that. His death truly broke me. When I occasionally cry (mostly now from hormones and missing him even more as the family grows) now he just sits there and...