Right! I wish I could help more! Thats why i need good comebacks! Lol! January 22, 2023 at 01:12AM

I know the matter of this post is not funny, but the title had me laughing hard. XD January 22, 2023 at 01:11AM

Will appreciate an advice from community. M35, almost never in my life used cologne. I guess I can do better on dating scene if I would start using one. How do I choose? I literally don’t know how to start as I am very visual, not smell-oriented person. I obviously shower often, and always shower right before the date. I was told I have very low amount of sweat (women who I was in LTR with told they were surprised I never almost smell sweat). My style is traditional (think Rodd&Gunn clothes) or sneakers/t-shirt (think Lacoste). Always pants, never shorts. I live in SoCal which is warm climate and prefer breakfast/brunch first dates. Body type is on muscular side. Submitted January 22, 2023 at 01:16AM Will appreciate an advice from community.M35, almost never in my life used cologne. I guess I can do better on dating scene if I would start using one. How do I choose? I literally don’t know how to start as I am very visual, not smell-oriented person.I obviously shower often,...

Thankfully, they'll never know I'm talking about them! January 21, 2023 at 11:53PM

So I was dating this woman & I guess this is the 1st time that I fall in love because i've never felt like this before. We were together for 4 years (they had good & bad moments), but mostly good...or at least that's how it was on my side. She ended the relationship recently and there is no hope of things ever getting fixed at this point. Now I am fully aware of that & I know that eventually I will get over her & probably stop thinking about her but I really reallly want it to happen faster. She's all I think about, every second of the god damn day. I was even approached by an attractive coworker where she invited me to go out to a bar and I literally said that I was too busy with work. I tried going to a bar before & had a drink and it just made things worse. How the hell can I get over her faster? I am already "focusing on myself", "doing things I like", yada yada but none of that shit is working. It's even making me make irr...

So I’ve had a thing for my co worker for awhile. We flirt back and fourth all the time and eat lunch together. We have a ton of playful banter and just love giving each other a hard time. He’s a major flirt though and has kinda got a rep for it. I know you shouldn’t mix work with pleasure, but i almost just want to hangout with him once to see how things go. We talk about a ton of things, but never have really talked about hanging out. He works as a bartender part time too and has asked me to stop by and get drinks though. I texted him and told him I’d stop by tonight with my friend, but she bailed and i don’t know if i should go now. I’m trying to figure out what i can text him to leave the door open for him to tell me he still wants to see me / would wanna hangout! Any suggestions? Submitted January 22, 2023 at 12:15AM So I’ve had a thing for my co worker for awhile. We flirt back and fourth all the time and eat lunch together. We have a ton of playful banter and just love giv...