I was about to say the same thing. “Yeah, but I am gay, so…” lmao July 16, 2021 at 12:38AM

As a teenager, all the time! Mostly because of my short hair or when they found out I didn’t have a boyfriend and wasn’t interested in getting one. Never bothered me much though. July 16, 2021 at 12:37AM

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The subtlety was a big reason I picked them! I haven't gotten the jewelry from the first shop yet (longer shipping period) but I can say the second one I like a lot and it's not expensive, too! I'm glad you liked them! July 16, 2021 at 12:34AM

Yep. Apparently it's easier to believe that I'm a closeted lesbian rather than just not interested. July 16, 2021 at 12:34AM

I got asked if I was a lesbian a lot in highschool. I'm biromantic so it's not a horrible guess. July 16, 2021 at 12:33AM

(1) consider if you were subconsciously flirting. Grayaces exist. (2) Be aware of fair weather friends. Imagine coming out to each close person, and try to predict what the outcome would be. (3) A counterbalance to pt 2: only come out to ppl if you think it will help the relationship. July 16, 2021 at 12:33AM

IDK, it sounds no dumber than humanity, as a whole, to me. And my friend in the field keeps telling me that sexual selection makes a huge mess of otherwise logical evolution paths. July 16, 2021 at 12:31AM

My feelings aren't hurt, but thanks for your concern. However, you're coming into a space where asking for that validation should be okay, and complaining about it? Maybe I'm not the fragile one. Have a good day! July 16, 2021 at 12:30AM

Exactly my thoughts. I also feel like it'd be kind of shitty to take that away from the consumers, especially LGBT ones themselves, who have no control over those laws. For many consumers, not even just LGBT ones, it's probably a safe space for them. Fallout 76 does have a nonbinary character named Burke, and I honestly think they're great representation, especially with the dialogue I've read from a raider from the same group who explains why he refers to Burke as "they." I'm certain there are many trans and nonbinary folks in countries where LGBT people are illegal and/or looked down upon, and I'm sure that there are many enbies in those countries who have encountered Burke and loved the representation. Sorry for the rambling haha. July 16, 2021 at 12:27AM

So my girlfriend and I are both virgins, but we’ve done some sexual things a few times. The first time, I rubbed her clit to orgasm after a lot of foreplay. When she was done, she just rolled over and wanted to cuddle, losing all interest in sex. I was still horny since I hadn’t cum yet, but I was honestly just happy that I managed to make her cum since that’s what I was nervous about, so I let it be. The second time, I made her cum again, and again she was just done afterward. But this time I told her that I wanted to cum and asked if she could jerk me off, but she said “I don’t think I’m ready to touch a penis yet.” I was kinda surprised, but I didn’t want to pressure her to do something she didn’t feel comfortable with. So then I suggested that we could dry hump with clothes on, and she said she didn’t want to because she was afraid of semen leaking through the clothes and getting her pregnant. Then on the third time, she said that she’d be willing to rub my dick but only on the

I did a search but couldn’t readily find this topic on the sub, my bad if this comes up a lot and I just did a poor job searching. I was just wondering if there are certain kinds of exercises (like ab workouts, maybe quads or glutes or something) that are highly recommended for stronger or easier female orgasms? Or if maybe stretching certain muscle groups is recommended too? And then finally, are there certain kinds of exercises that help with cowgirl (ya girl gets tired super easily on top and just generally isn’t good at that position)? Basically, I’m wondering what is helpful for women to incorporate into their workouts as far as sexual pleasure goes, particularly when it comes to stronger/easier orgasms Submitted July 15, 2021 at 11:34PM I did a search but couldn’t readily find this topic on the sub, my bad if this comes up a lot and I just did a poor job searching.I was just wondering if there are certain kinds of exercises (like ab workouts, maybe quads or glutes or som

So, we had another conversation. This time I was completely sober. I told her that I had certain kinks and desires, but that I wanted to respect her. She was open and honest too about where she was on everything. It was honestly a really good discussion. We came out of it in a really good place. I think we’re going to try and explore more of who we are and what we like together. Maybe try some role play. And see where that takes us. She agreed that she didn’t want us to plateau. She said that she’s intimidated because she doesn’t want to do something wrong and ruin the experience and make me think, “Well that wasn’t what I thought it was.” And I told her the only way I’d think those words is because whatever happens is so much better than I imagined. So, I think we’re in a good place to move forward together. Submitted July 15, 2021 at 11:46PM So, we had another conversation. This time I was completely sober. I told her that I had certain kinks and desires, but that I wanted to

To start, we're a pretty introverted couple - got together last year but have known each other longer. My current living situation began with getting a 2BR with a friend of a friend, didn't know him that well. We didn't have common interests much but it didn't matter much as we do our own thing (he's a black athlete, i'm a white homebody). As my gf and I got closer she's been around more and, after agreeing with roommate that i'd pay extra for her to live here too, we all seem to be on the same page. Once I got a tv in the living room though, there has been more common socializing between us three for several months, and it's all been positive. But about the last month or so I could notice him being more bold, whether to show off or one up me to get attention. At first I didn't care much cause i'm not insecure about it, and she didn't entertain it much. But some actions made me think twice such as wearing way undersized shirts (which fo

Hello all, I am 18M So recently I have been wanting to buy and read "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner as I have seen it recommended on this sub quite a few times before for guys who want to know how to pleasure their partner. However I dont really like reading, and dont want to pay for a book that I just cant get into. If a book really catches my interest I will likely enjoy reading it, but very few ever have (wow I sound like such an intellectual lol). Its only got 219 pages which is relatively short which helps but I was wondering if anyone would be able to tell me if its engaging enough that it might keep a impatient person's attention, its a subject I am really interested in so should really be great, but just dont wanna chance it. And I know I could just get the audio book, but since its very informational Id rather have the physical copy so I can refer to it when needed (not refer to it during the act dont worry lol). Submitted July 16, 2021 at 12:05AM Hell

Hello there I convinced my bf to try anal for the first time when he comes back from a trip (he returns tomorrow) and im very worried about what kind of precautions I need to take, because I don’t want any “incidents” happening Submitted July 16, 2021 at 12:08AM Hello thereI convinced my bf to try anal for the first time when he comes back from a trip (he returns tomorrow) and im very worried about what kind of precautions I need to take, because I don’t want any “incidents” happening

So I really enjoy the anticipation and the contact and the teasing... but settle an argument for me? How long is it before you think "Just get on with it"? Submitted July 16, 2021 at 12:08AM So I really enjoy the anticipation and the contact and the teasing... but settle an argument for me? How long is it before you think "Just get on with it"?

Ask me any sexual questions and I'd love to answer. Think of me as the ordinary guy you see at the grocery store and see what I'm thinking 🤔😏 and I'd love to see your answers to your own questions! I'll respond to as many as I can! Submitted July 16, 2021 at 12:09AM Ask me any sexual questions and I'd love to answer. Think of me as the ordinary guy you see at the grocery store and see what I'm thinking 🤔😏 and I'd love to see your answers to your own questions! I'll respond to as many as I can!

Recently I stopped masturbating as much and I’ve learned to control my urges a bit better. If I get an urge now most of the time I will try to do something productive instead. But, it seems like I never get horny now. I miss the feeling of being horny and having a sex drive. Did I ruin my libido by denying myself self indulgence? I was trying to do something to help me but I feel like it’s slowly killing my sex drive. If I don’t use it will I lose it? Submitted July 16, 2021 at 12:15AM Recently I stopped masturbating as much and I’ve learned to control my urges a bit better. If I get an urge now most of the time I will try to do something productive instead. But, it seems like I never get horny now. I miss the feeling of being horny and having a sex drive. Did I ruin my libido by denying myself self indulgence? I was trying to do something to help me but I feel like it’s slowly killing my sex drive. If I don’t use it will I lose it?

I (21f) recently started hooking up with one of my long time friends (22m). A few days ago, I woke up the morning after we had sex to period-like spotting and light cramps. I’ve been on birth control for a while, so my mind immediately jumped to STIs, especially chlamydia or gonorrhea. I know this could potentially be a few different things, but I definitely could have been safer in my sexual past, and until now, I’ve never had any serious issues. I’ve already scheduled an STI screening, so I know there’s nothing I can really do until then, but this is just causing an insane amount of anxiety. I’m just so scared. I’m worried for my health, and I feel so fucking stupid and ashamed that I’m in this position at all. If I test positive for something, I’m also dreading the conversation I know I’ll have to have with the guy I’m seeing… I feel like he just won’t want to see me again (which is fully understandable), and that thought makes me so sad. Anyways, I wanted to post on this sub to a

My girlfriend and I had a discussion earlier today where I expressed to her that I felt uncomfortable sometimes because I felt like she didn't like my flirting after a particularly rough shutdown. She told me that my flirting was overly aggressive (specifically too handsy) and that I needed to tone it down. We're very open as far as communication in our relationship, and this isn't the first time she's told me this, however it is the first time we've gotten to the core of it, and I aim to fix the problem, so now I come to you, Reddit. I was wondering what kinds of things others do when flirting and making passes at their S/O that are less or complety non-physical. To the spouses on the receiving end, what works for you too? I'm looking to generate new ideas to let her know how sexy she is to me without being overly aggressive as she stated. Any help? Submitted July 16, 2021 at 12:27AM My girlfriend and I had a discussion earlier today where I expressed t

I know people will say that only I can determine that, but sometimes I feel that maybe I’m too accommodating or something. I have always had an easy time masturbating and orgasming myself, but it just hasn’t happened with my bf yet. Most of the time my bf wants me to orgasm before piv, but I just get too impatient and don’t want to spend like 12 minutes trying to get off. I just want the dick. Feels nicer than everything else and nicer than an orgasm. When I scroll through this sub and see how many women say that orgasming during sex is a must for a long term relationship, I get a little worried. I haven’t given up in mine, I just enjoy what we have going on right now. Submitted July 16, 2021 at 12:30AM I know people will say that only I can determine that, but sometimes I feel that maybe I’m too accommodating or something.I have always had an easy time masturbating and orgasming myself, but it just hasn’t happened with my bf yet. Most of the time my bf wants me to orgasm befo