Need ideas for less aggressive flirting
My girlfriend and I had a discussion earlier today where I expressed to her that I felt uncomfortable sometimes because I felt like she didn't like my flirting after a particularly rough shutdown. She told me that my flirting was overly aggressive (specifically too handsy) and that I needed to tone it down. We're very open as far as communication in our relationship, and this isn't the first time she's told me this, however it is the first time we've gotten to the core of it, and I aim to fix the problem, so now I come to you, Reddit.
I was wondering what kinds of things others do when flirting and making passes at their S/O that are less or complety non-physical. To the spouses on the receiving end, what works for you too? I'm looking to generate new ideas to let her know how sexy she is to me without being overly aggressive as she stated. Any help?
Submitted July 16, 2021 at 12:27AM
My girlfriend and I had a discussion earlier today where I expressed to her that I felt uncomfortable sometimes because I felt like she didn't like my flirting after a particularly rough shutdown. She told me that my flirting was overly aggressive (specifically too handsy) and that I needed to tone it down. We're very open as far as communication in our relationship, and this isn't the first time she's told me this, however it is the first time we've gotten to the core of it, and I aim to fix the problem, so now I come to you, Reddit.I was wondering what kinds of things others do when flirting and making passes at their S/O that are less or complety non-physical. To the spouses on the receiving end, what works for you too? I'm looking to generate new ideas to let her know how sexy she is to me without being overly aggressive as she stated. Any help?
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