I actually thought I was demi until I worked out the difference between sexual and romantic attraction. It was then that I realized I was asexual, but definitely experienced romantic attraction, and wasn't averse to engaging in sexual acts with someone I was romantically attracted to. Demisexuality is definitely a real and valid sexuality, but at some point it became clear to me that that wasn't what I was experiencing. It was actually pretty liberating to figure that out. If my comment helped you figure anything out, or helps you feel liberated in your identity, that is really cool and I'm glad I could help with that! July 01, 2021 at 12:03AM

Thought that was gonna get political lol I am pleased surprised also... what?? Why would they ban Vegemite that's so abstract? June 30, 2021 at 11:59PM

r/holup June 30, 2021 at 11:59PM

We do need a safety net. So we need social security and unemployment benefits and free public healthcare. Also I DON'T know if you know this but the FIRST law we need to repeal is the one pauses for an actual sob, eyes prickling with tears the Danish law banning Vegemite. I AM NOT GONNA LIVE IN ANY ACE COUNTRY THAT MAKES VEGEMITE ILLEGAL. NAW. June 30, 2021 at 11:57PM

r/AreTheAllosOk I'll decide to believe that this out of context and that the couple is playing, and it's completely consensual. June 30, 2021 at 11:57PM

Why can’t the world make ads like this: “garlic bread is the foundation of all happiness! Visit gloriousgarlicbread.com to get your own slice of happiness today!” June 30, 2021 at 11:55PM

Don't forget, ace includes demi and grey ace too. We are a diverse group of individuals! June 30, 2021 at 11:54PM

Oh for sure. They can care about it, and find it important. But it's sort of like thinking money will bring you happiness. Obtaining good sex rarely actually improves anyone's relationship or family life. June 30, 2021 at 11:49PM

I keep thinking about getting a ring but jewelry just isn't my thing. Id want a nice ring but I don't want to spend the money on something I'm not likely gonna wear. Idk June 30, 2021 at 11:49PM

I’m done with people saying ‘I’m so sorry for you :’(‘ whenever I tell them I’m ace. I’m not sorry. I’m me. Keep your pity. June 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

They're not, are they? Are they?? That's so hard to wrap my head around......I mean tell me what's attractive about a dick. Fucking wrinkly ass elongated flesh-toned rasin. What is appealing there. I could see maybe it triggers something instinctual in the brain that causes arousal, but legit attraction? (No offense to allos, I just find it funny. Like how) June 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

You might have helped me a lot with your comment. I think of sex in more of a romantic way that no one else seems to but it kinda doesn’t make sense when it comes out. It sounds like a Demi thing but based off of descriptions of sexual attraction, I have clearly never experienced that before. June 30, 2021 at 11:47PM

Yeah he's a trash character, I try to ignore him :/. June 30, 2021 at 11:47PM

Not having a celebrity celebrity crush, and if people ask, I'll say "I guess if I had to pick one, it'll be Frank Sinatra" or any other one of my favorite musician/artist. Doesn't help that I really like old music XD June 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

I'm closeted and hate myself, but I did get support online, so I guess it counts. June 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

Absolutely agree. Though you have to deal with Mineta, who’s the perviest perv of all. If you can deal with his presence though, it’s a great show! June 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

yup, I could write even more about trying to fit a hetero standard (while not really knowing anything or having any concrete ideas of what I wanted) than I did in my other comment. June 30, 2021 at 11:45PM

Waitaminut June 30, 2021 at 11:45PM

I'm not really a jewelry person June 30, 2021 at 11:43PM

It’s propaganda. “Stronger families”, as in the outcome of more sex would naturally lead to more members of the family, and that’s of course would make the “stronger”. They just want people to breed. June 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

A former friend of mine once told me he was demi and explained it, and I asked the stupid question every demi person has heard way too often: "Wait, that isn't the case for everyone?" I don't currently want to label myself as anything more concrete than ace, because I lack experience in almost every aspect. Might be demi, but I never had a relationship so how would I know. Might be a-, or bi-, or heteroromantic, but have no concrete evidence beyond having met people on my life, of different genders, who I'd have wanted to cuddle me. I try to focus on other, easier to navigate aspects of my life as much as I can June 30, 2021 at 11:40PM

And a big penis, remember last year when Batman showed his penis in a totally nonsexual way (he was getting out of his Batsuit in the semi-dark, totally tasteful even to this ace) and everyone was screaming that he had a tiny dick (it was average and flaccid) or that he had a huge dick (same point as above). Like...the man is having a vulnerable moment, can you creatures not focus on the size of his organ? Besides, some men grow a lot with arousal, flaccid size doesn't mean erect size, if that matters so much! People. June 30, 2021 at 11:40PM

Personally I found Chapters 182/214 and possibly 161.5 textual evidence against Saiki being Aro June 30, 2021 at 11:40PM