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What to text crush?

So I (20M) want to text my crush, but don’t know what to ask to start a conversation because I haven’t texted her over Christmas break. I’m thinking of asking her how her break has been so far or asking her if she’s seen this tv show I’m watching because this character reminds me of her. What should I text her? Submitted December 30, 2021 at 02:09AM So I (20M) want to text my crush, but don’t know what to ask to start a conversation because I haven’t texted her over Christmas break. I’m thinking of asking her how her break has been so far or asking her if she’s seen this tv show I’m watching because this character reminds me of her. What should I text her?

Would you still date a girl if she said "you have the ugliest penis"

Or not? Submitted December 30, 2021 at 02:14AM Or not?

/u/IsansP on An Allosexual perspective on "what is sexual attraction?"

Saaaame!! I think this is aego? Not sure, but same. December 30, 2021 at 12:30AM

Guy I used to date wished me a merry Christmas then ghosted me?? Why?

Guy I used to date was falling for me but I didn’t feel the same so things ended a couple of months back but we remained friends and we was texting last week and he took a couple of days to respond to one of my messages but he came back asking me a question and seeing how I was but I basically cut him off I know what slow responses mean I don’t have time for that especially since we aren’t dating anymore… then he text me again on Christmas to say merry Christmas (why would he do this?) so I just said the same back and he never replied? What is this all about??? Why text merry Christmas and not even acknowledge me saying it back or try to continue a conversation? TL;DR! Why would a guy I used to date text me merry Christmas so I reply with the same and then he ghosts me? Male aged 30 female aged 28 Submitted December 30, 2021 at 01:10AM Guy I used to date was falling for me but I didn’t feel the same so things ended a couple of months back but we remained friends and we was text...

Wanna date a girl F21 M18

Hi so I’m really interested in a girl we been talking only small and we met in school could I try to date her atleast 18 years old I am Submitted December 30, 2021 at 01:11AM Hi so I’m really interested in a girl we been talking only small and we met in school could I try to date her atleast 18 years old I am

/u/d33r-in-headlights on Vent about Christian views on asexuality

Well, I’d rather not “fuck them”, actually. ;) Wish my family wasn’t so wound up and conservative. My father always has to make a comment about how “we don’t approve of this” if two characters of the same sex... gasp kiss in a tv show. December 30, 2021 at 12:29AM

Question about boundaries. Please help this anxious dude

First hey I hope you’re day is going well and thanks for taking a minute to read this. So 2019, Christmas party, I met this chick while out smoking a cig. I could use any number of adjectives to describe her but that’s irrelevant, we’ve all had love at first sight enough to know it isn’t that special. She’s gorgeous, artistic, sarcastic and incredibly witty. Anyways we only talked for a minute before going back to the party. I followed her on IG the next day, no accept. Fast forward to today, or a couple weeks ago (thanks for sticking with me through the expected run on sentences and lack of pizazz) She randomly accepts my request, and we start to DM. Pretty innocent, she told me she almost immediately started dating someone from that party, an old friend of mine actually, and that they’d very recently broke up. I said we should get drinks and she said she wasn’t looking to date right now, idk where the convo went from there, rejection from someone in that position doesn’t make me f...

Hi! M17 looking for some advice.

Hi there! Six months ago, I've finally gathered all my courage to ask a girl, that I've known for 12 years, out for the first time. We knew each other, bot not on a truly personal level. One time, we were supposed to go to a cinema with our friend group, but to our surprise, no one had the time to come. We both wanted to see the movie really badly, but we thought that the meeting with our friends got canceled. So I went and send her this: "Hey, it might seem weird, because I've never done this before, but don't you wanna go see the cinema with me? I know that it's not with our friend group, but I'd love to go. Wanna join me?". And she somehow agreed. It was by far the most random thing that happened to me. We both ended up really enjoying that movie and our time together. It was really heartwarming. Then I asked her out again. We went out for a walk this time. And again and again. Yesterday, we've been on around 15-20 unofficial dates/walks/coffe...

How to handle first date with someone you hook up with previously?

I matched with girl who I had a fling with about 8 yrs ago. We were surprised to have connect again and have been talking for a few weeks. She seems more mature and looking for something more serious. We only went over each other’s places and never been on a real date, we are essentially strangers. Should I start over and be formal like dating someone new? Or should to sort of pick up where things left off and be more flirtatious and comfortable around her. I usually waited at few dates before hooking up with someone, so this situation is a bit awkward for me. Submitted December 30, 2021 at 12:11AM I matched with girl who I had a fling with about 8 yrs ago. We were surprised to have connect again and have been talking for a few weeks. She seems more mature and looking for something more serious. We only went over each other’s places and never been on a real date, we are essentially strangers. Should I start over and be formal like dating someone new? Or should to sort of pick up...

I’m 25f and he’s 31m. He told me “I don’t want you to think I’m leading you on, but I want to take things slow. I just moved here and I’m busy with my job. Relationships come with effort too. Also, you can do what you want, so that’s cool”. How would you interpret this?

I had been seeing this guy for almost two months when he said this to me. We never agreed to be in a committed relationship, but we sure acted like it. We would go on dates, hold hands and kiss in public, spend every weekend together, and hooked up a lot. All of a sudden, he tells me what is mentioned above in the title. I won’t lie, I kind of got mad and started to believe that he really was playing me. With that in mind, I hooked up with someone else that I met on Hinge. I recognize that this was likely just protest behavior on my part, and I didn’t really like the Hinge guy. Anyways, he found out and got really mad. He told me that he genuinely liked me and that I played him. He pulled that “we were working towards a relationship” argument at this point. He also called me all kinds of other names like “fake” and trashy. If you were in my shoes, would you believe him? Would you believe he genuinely wanted to date you? OR would you not believe a word he says and run? Submitted De...

Should I ask this girl over snap or in person

We have been friends for half a year and she posted something on her snap story saying 2021s almost over if you want to say anything to anybody then repost this. i reposted to see if she would say anything to me and she asked me first. i was thinking of asking her out over snap right then but thought I would wait and post to see if I should over snap or wait a couple for school for in person. I lied and said its a tough question and I would let her know soon Submitted December 30, 2021 at 12:13AM We have been friends for half a year and she posted something on her snap story saying 2021s almost over if you want to say anything to anybody then repost this. i reposted to see if she would say anything to me and she asked me first. i was thinking of asking her out over snap right then but thought I would wait and post to see if I should over snap or wait a couple for school for in person. I lied and said its a tough question and I would let her know soon