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28 Male. I've been off and on dating apps for the past 4 years or so with not a single date under my belt and at this point I know part of the reason why is due to my own self-sabotaging behavior. The first couple years on dating apps after I broke up with my ex in 2019 were abysmal. No matches, no likes, nothing. I'm pretty average physically, so originally I assumed I was just ugly. But eventually I realized that while I didn't have any off-putting photos on my profiles, the photos I did have were just not good enough. Knowing it would take me a lot of time and effort to get good photos, I put the apps down and didn't even bother trying to date unless I met someone cool in person (which never happened). During my pause on the apps, I made it a point to capture as many photos of myself doing things as much as I possibly could. I routinely would ask friends and family to take pictures of me. Most of the time, the pictures they took never ended up being usable, but I

I 29f did not date at all really in my teens and early 20s. I was super shy and only recently have become comfortable with male attention and dating. To this day have never had a boyfriend. I realize most ppl do not want to read a saga so feel free to move along. I did have one "partner" at the end of college. We met and I really fell for him. He love bombed me and made me feel he really cared for me too, he even offered for me to move in if I needed to at some point. But ultimately he was playing me and sleeping with several girls the whole time. I ended it with him and he was bitter and wouldn't give my stuff back. Years later, we reconnected. I was stupidly convinced he may have matured. He asked me to come out to visit him. We started seeing eachother on and off at long distance but he always told me he likes me but made an excuse to not get in a relationship. He had multiple girlfriends throughout those years. I was in love with him but ultimately had to accept he

I’m happy to provide advice as well. Had a predicament this week that I just want to get outsider perspective on Submitted April 03, 2023 at 12:11AM I’m happy to provide advice as well. Had a predicament this week that I just want to get outsider perspective on

I'm a woman and though I'm definitely not very feminine and rarely if ever wear makeup, I wouldn't consider myself agender. Gender expression doesn't have to line up with your gender. I'm not at all concerned with what a woman should look or act like, I'm just me. April 02, 2023 at 11:22PM