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/u/AIntroverted_Gremlin on G O D S

Me, an asexual, i agree May 28, 2022 at 12:57AM

Early 20s losing all hope for dating and that's hurting my life in most other aspects

So I'm in my early 20s (M) and never had a relationship, dated, had sex, anything other than kiss and cuddle just one time when I was 18. I've been told I'm good looking. I'm fit, I play guitar, passionate about music and art, I can cook, take care of myself and my apartment perfectly fine, I have some medical problems that I deal with myself, you get the idea. Most people are very surprised or often don't believe me when I tell them about my lack of experience. -----Don't read past this if you don't want to it's mostly a rant I was kinda one of the popular kids back in middle and high school and more so in college. Both me and my brother were quite well known in high school and we partied/did drugs etc. He could get plenty of girls while I never could. In college I smoked a lot of weed, partied a lot, made a lot of acquaintances but only a couple friends. Girls fairly frequently (for my standards) would talk to me in college but it always felt like ...

I am the “new woman” in his life and I feel so inadequate

A month ago, I started dating a new guy after getting out of a nine year relationship. I don’t have kids and have never dated someone with kids. I met a guy online and we seriously hit it off immediately! He is 6 years older than me and he has two kids (3 & 6), and he lives an hour away from me and he’s at the tail end of a divorce. He was everything I was missing. Our first date was amazing… picnic by the river, serenading me with his guitar, and dancing with my unexpectedly in his living room. I was swept off my feet right away. A week into us dating, his ex showed up at his apartment with the boys, and said, “I had something come up and I need you to take them.” I was sitting there… anxious as all hell because what do I do? Just look at the boys and be like okkkk you don’t know me but I have to go…? So I stayed and met them. It was overwhelming, but it was good! I definitely overthought it! So most weekends I’ve been staying here with him. He has the kids every other weekend an...

/u/Desperate-Process-99 on "So do you get a lot of girls?" "We're not that kind of band, we just really want to play D&D." I know none of the members are asexual, but this is giving me a lot of ace vibes. And as both asexual and an MCR fan, this brings me a lot of joy.

Ohmygod I remember that! My favorite part was when the interviewer was like, "What do you want to say to the viewers that were just jerking off?" Or something wild like that and Gerard just shouts, "Your MOM'S COMING" I need to watch that shit again lmao May 27, 2022 at 11:59PM

As a man,is it ok to tell my partner I Won't tolerate any kind of emotional, mental or physical abuse?

I am a victim of abuse from my family.Was always beaten in childhood and was insulted, belittled and made fun of in my teenage years.So as a young adult,I moved to another continent to get away from my family.And after a lot of therapy and self reflection, I am now in a position where I am emotionally stable.And promised myself I will never be in that kind of situation again. So when it comes to dating and relationships, I always tell my partner we can have arguments and constructive criticisms.But any kind of name calling,insults or throwing hands is out of bounds and I break it off immediately .My friends tell me I am being too much high strung and every girl I date has to be walking a tight rope. So is it too much to ask someone to respect my boundaries while I respect theirs? Submitted May 27, 2022 at 06:52AM I am a victim of abuse from my family.Was always beaten in childhood and was insulted, belittled and made fun of in my teenage years.So as a young adult,I moved to an...