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They need a little help

My friend (Mac) (16F) is in a trouble with her bf (Luc) (16M), well, Luc is overreacting about a screenshot that Bruna (16F) (her friend) sent to him, about a "virtual marriage" (it's an irony, joke.) With Mac in a website, so he got mad about it because Mac is bisexual, so he's afraid and jealous about this "virtual marriage", they argued the whole day and now they're not speaking with each other and we need an advice and opnion about it. Well, it's just that, not a big deal, but they just need a help, so, tell me your opinion :) Ps: the names are fake and also, any mistake, my apology, I'm not a native speaker. Pss: this couple started to date after 7 days that they met each other, now they're 24 days, but, anyway. Submitted August 02, 2020 at 11:53PM My friend (Mac) (16F) is in a trouble with her bf (Luc) (16M), well, Luc is overreacting about a screenshot that Bruna (16F) (her friend) sent to him, about a "virtual marriage...

21M and still single, is there something wrong with me?

As the title might suggest, I am a 21 year old who has never been in a relationship, and not for lack of trying. At this point I don't know what I'm doing wrong, or what the holdup is. I've tried to be as true to myself as possible while following the common bits of advice, but nothing seems to be working and I'm getting scared. Does anyone have any pieces of advice for a brother truly struggling with the basics? Submitted August 03, 2020 at 12:02AM As the title might suggest, I am a 21 year old who has never been in a relationship, and not for lack of trying. At this point I don't know what I'm doing wrong, or what the holdup is. I've tried to be as true to myself as possible while following the common bits of advice, but nothing seems to be working and I'm getting scared. Does anyone have any pieces of advice for a brother truly struggling with the basics?

/u/ragtimeholly on I'm new to the idea of asexuality and want to see if anyone else like me exists

So I basically stopped at the third paragraph because you appear to be describing sexual attraction. If you see/meet women and feel mildly aroused and fantasize about having sex with that particular woman that's sexual attraction. It sounds like you are sexually attracted to females, which means you're not asexual, but you may be biromantic if you are romantically attracted to men and women. While some aces feel libido/ desire to have sex we can't feel sexual attraction but if you find it only happens very rarely or only after developing deep emotional bonds you could be on the spectrum (greysexual and demisexual respectively.) Most of what you described otherwise is pure libido (kinks etc) and yeah def add an nsfw flair for that as some aces are sex repulsed and feel sick at the mention of specific acts of sex. I'm not repulsed and I'm pretty open about sex talk but even I had to skim past a lot of details lol It could be that sex just isn't super physica...

/u/i_have_no_heart on I’m 31 and it just hit me like a ton of bricks

Welcome home, sugarcube. It's never too late to accept yourself. August 03, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/shadowshian on Dear Everyone, stop gatekeeping aces who...

Feel like anyone intending on gatekeeping should stop count to ten and ask themselves "why and what in bleeding hells gives them the right to do so?" August 03, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/Nathandaboss0613 on So babies...

Adoption!!! August 03, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/Nathandaboss0613 on I found an ace dragon at a gem shop in a petrified forest! But mostly: Ace Dragon!! (ish) (it sorta has non-binary colors if you squint which I also identify with) (loooong titles lmao)

That DOES sound cool. Were you in southern U.S.? August 03, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/Skairipa_Lightbourne on I found an ace dragon at a gem shop in a petrified forest! But mostly: Ace Dragon!! (ish) (it sorta has non-binary colors if you squint which I also identify with) (loooong titles lmao)

Uhh... blazing hot endless desert with a couple rock-logs. We were being cooked alive. Although the rock petrification is done by lava literally seeping into the tree pores, so that’s cool I guess August 03, 2020

/u/Nathandaboss0613 on Oc

Yes we have a Kindbond with a dragon August 02, 2020 at 11:58PM

/u/Nathandaboss0613 on I found an ace dragon at a gem shop in a petrified forest! But mostly: Ace Dragon!! (ish) (it sorta has non-binary colors if you squint which I also identify with) (loooong titles lmao)

Please, go on about this petrified forest August 02, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/lannadelarosa on I keep seeing people ask if they're really ace if they feel attracted to people in any way other than sexually, so here's a simple description of the different kinds of Attraction for all of you out there who are confused. Hope this helps! 💜

Thank you very much. A large part of what threw me off the path from my long journey to identifying on the asexual spectrum was that I experienced a variety of attractions, which I assumed would automatically be sexual in nature, while so many descriptions of asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction. At the end of the day, I have certainly experienced all those listed forms of attractions at some point except the sexual attraction. August 02, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/Nathandaboss0613 on Im not out yet, But I still want to get an ace ring. Should I get one?

No one's gonna know except for aces and ace allies so it's up to you August 02, 2020 at 11:56PM

/u/LordSupergreat on An ace themed bedroom idea!

The bedroom may perhaps be the most ironic place to decorate with ace colors. August 02, 2020 at 11:56PM

/u/Blackthornbitch on This sub is a godsend

I figured out im aegosexual recently because of this sub, and so I'm super thankful for it. This sub is awesome and super welcoming, and a place where I can feel less alone. August 02, 2020 at 11:56PM

/u/DisastrousAce on I'm new to the idea of asexuality and want to see if anyone else like me exists

Please put NSFW flairs on posts like this August 02, 2020 at 11:40PM

/u/DisastrousAce on A little unsure what I can call myself.

Im not sure about most of this im not really that smart but anyone who is anywhere on the a spec is lgbtq no matter what people say August 02, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/EmptyGingerJoke on Recently came out as ace to my friend so she made these for me as a birthday present!

No, raccoons are just my favorite animal. August 02, 2020 at 11:26PM

/u/CamCorinthian on I bet we can find a really simple solution 🤔

Ohh god I didn’t read it . That’s my definition of hell 😔 August 02, 2020 at 11:17PM

/u/Hunab-Ku13 on I bet we can find a really simple solution 🤔

Don't you see? Apparently this is for THEATER! You can't fast-forward live-action acting! This is even worse than you thought! August 02, 2020 at 11:16PM

/u/Skairipa_Lightbourne on Tell us what aegosexuality is like for you

Aegosexuality for me is being hella confused at everything love and sex related my parents say (i’m greyro btw) but still occasionally thinking about sex and sometimes thinking that I really want to try it although that feeling always fades after like an hour. I also read a ton a fanfic, but it’s usually fluffy adorable stuff and only smut when my sex drive is jumping over mountains. August 02, 2020 at 11:14PM

/u/Stockso on I identified as gay for years, but now know I'm asexual

Welcome, garlic bread is on the left and cake on the right. In the next room we have all your favourite films without the sex scenes in them. Enjoy August 02, 2020 at 11:10PM

I found out I was sadly friends with a nice guy :/

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I want to leave my wife

Hello all, I've been feeling very angry lately with my wife, get irritated at simple thing, raising voice, storming out. This isn't me. But I feel the worst of me is getting out. What triggered it lately is she agreed to host her sister for 10 days in our 1 bedroom apartment. Her sister doesn't talk to me and shows no interest in getting to know each other, she has said behind our backs that this visitation was a nightmare. I can't stand hosting someone who feels like this. But my wife is asked me to be patient until her sister leaves, but I can't. Our sex life is nonexistent, mainly because I have low testosterone and she insists I see someone. I feel I don't want to act the way I've been acting, or treat my wife that way. So I and she are better off not being together. Any thoughts or advice? Submitted August 03, 2020 at 12:00AM Hello all,I've been feeling very angry lately with my wife, get irritated at simple thing, raising voice, storming...