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/u/seaminglydreaming on Those of us who have done the deed, is sex all its cracked up to be?

Not for me. I didn't realize I was ace until well after I became sexually active, and realized I had mostly been doing it to keep my partners interested. I didn't have the healthiest relationship with it TBH (it made me feel used) but once I came to terms with being ace it helped me reclaim a lot of my autonomy. March 05, 2023 at 12:21AM

/u/amateurbitch on Those of us who have done the deed, is sex all its cracked up to be?

one time asked a dude "are you done yet". 100% feel this 😂😂 March 05, 2023 at 12:21AM

Casual partner is always late

It’s nuts considering she was in the military less than a month ago. I’m not really into the hookup scene but I haven’t found anyone wanting to commit and things were getting kind of lonely, so… yeah. She’s forever asking me if I’m dtf and can I come over or can she see me but then takes 10,000 years to reply, or will say she’s showering and then change her mind afterward, or wants to come “late” (meaning not 12-2 like a normal person, but 5 am I soon found out.) We’ve only had one encounter despite her setting multiple dates and times and I’m tired of always being ready just for her to never follow through. The only time she came over here was at 4:30 am on a Saturday (and I’m never letting her do that again.) I just couldn’t sleep that night so I said sure. This may have been what made her think this was cool to continually do and I own that but I’ve also communicated directly that I value punctuality regardless of the type of relationship it is. To make matters worse, she drops o...

/u/1giantsleep4mankind on Comment I made on a post on r/SuddenlyGay - maybe some og you guys could tell me if I’m misunderstanding something?

Ah I didn't mean that all people who enjoy sex are grey. I was just using it as an example, along with being sex-favourable asexual as another example. Also wasn't meaning you specifically, I meant "could one be homogreysexual etc". Yeah I don't know all the types of aceness either. March 04, 2023 at 11:23PM

/u/CaughttheDarkness on weird experience I had

Why did you hang out with this guy in the first place? March 04, 2023 at 11:22PM

/u/The-Pencil-King on Comment I made on a post on r/SuddenlyGay - maybe some og you guys could tell me if I’m misunderstanding something?

Well you can simply like the feeling. Attraction or not, sex may just feel good. Is someone attracted to a sex toy? Usually no, but it feels good regardless. You don’t necessarily need to find someone attractive to have or enjoy sex. March 04, 2023 at 11:20PM