It’s nuts considering she was in the military less than a month ago. I’m not really into the hookup scene but I haven’t found anyone wanting to commit and things were getting kind of lonely, so… yeah. She’s forever asking me if I’m dtf and can I come over or can she see me but then takes 10,000 years to reply, or will say she’s showering and then change her mind afterward, or wants to come “late” (meaning not 12-2 like a normal person, but 5 am I soon found out.) We’ve only had one encounter despite her setting multiple dates and times and I’m tired of always being ready just for her to never follow through. The only time she came over here was at 4:30 am on a Saturday (and I’m never letting her do that again.) I just couldn’t sleep that night so I said sure. This may have been what made her think this was cool to continually do and I own that but I’ve also communicated directly that I value punctuality regardless of the type of relationship it is. To make matters worse, she drops o
