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This girl is really confusing me

This is kind of long one due to the need for context, sorry! So this girl (20f) and I (22m) met in a photography class. I wanted to get to know her (we’ll call her Sadie) more cause I was interested, hence why I’m typing this now. We got an assignment that Sadie started falling behind in, where we had to take a photo each day with a film camera. So I offered to take her to this farm to get photos of the different animals, as a way to get to know her outside of class. We seem to hit it off and at one point Sadie mentions she used to bake, but hasn’t lately since she doesn’t have someone to bake for. As a broke college student I joked that she could always bake stuff for me if she needed a reason to bake, which she laughed at. About a week goes by and we meet up again for another assignment for landscape photos. Sadie had said prior that she wanted to hike one of the local trails but none of her friends were up for it. I said I had done a couple and offered to take her up one to get sun...

/u/Corgiverse on would you/do you get naked with your partner as a form of intimacy?

This is the truth. I see so many naked people on a weekly basis that it’s just like “oh look. Another ass” (I’m a nurse) October 22, 2022 at 12:16AM

I’ve had a crush on him for years. Last night I slept in his bed.

The night before that, he slept in mine. Anyway, I’ve been acquaintances with this guy in my town who’s involved in the tattoo/piercing scene, has phenomenal taste in music and is just absolutely breathtaking beautiful for a few years. I saw him on tinder the other day and absolutely slid his dms on social media. Just a dorky, “hey I saw your mug on tinder” which sparked a really great conversation All of a sudden, we’ve hung out a few times in the last 72hrs and I’m so into him. He’s lovely and kind and gentle, and even let me catch a glimpse of his dominant side which I really look for in a sexual (or potentially sexual) partner. I’m just…headlocked. I’m in a little bit of shock that we’re hanging out I think, so I’m trying to keep my cool. Just needed to get this off my chest. Submitted October 21, 2022 at 11:56PM The night before that, he slept in mine.Anyway, I’ve been acquaintances with this guy in my town who’s involved in the tattoo/piercing scene, has phenomenal tas...

Why is finding love so hard?

That is all. Submitted October 22, 2022 at 12:00AM That is all.

I need some feedback

So I(14m, can give better description if wanted) have been going on daily runs(for my mental and physical health) and the past 2 days i have seen the same group of 2 girls(somewhere around my age, again, can give better description if wanted) and, OH. MY. GOD. they are absolutely stunning, I have never seen a girl my age that is so beautiful, and they have the cutest giggles I have ever heard. They are leaps and bounds out of my league. But I want to go up ant try to talk to them in some way, shape, or form. But the 2 times I've tried I got like a crippling panic attack thing(I don't even know how to describe it), and they are LITERALLY all I can think about, even when I try to take my mind off of them, I just can't seem to do it. I want something to happen but I don't know how to get something to happen. So what do I do? Submitted October 22, 2022 at 12:05AM So I(14m, can give better description if wanted) have been going on daily runs(for my mental and physi...

I put my number on a piece of paper & gave to a girl, did I fumble

This was my first time ever approaching a random girl, I was on the train nd i noticed her and i thought she was really cute. I'd never tried to talk up a random girl cuz I'm shy and I was too nervous to strike up a conversation. But i told myself I have to figure out a way to go for it. So i took out a lil piece of paper and put my number in it and I planned to give it to her once I got up for my stop (in hopes she wasnt getting off b4 me lol) Coincidentally enough, we had the same stop! which mightve screwed things up cuz we were walking the same way.. and so I kinda panicked and went up to her and just gave it to her and said "you dropped this" LOL. Yes, it was really awkward, and i just walked away after 🤦‍♂️ I feel like I couldve made better use of the opportunity to try and have and actual convo but I didn't :/ Unsurprisingly she hasn't texted me or anything yet and I highly doubt she will, What are your guys thoughts on this kinda approach? I feel ...

Guy said he didn't want to talk to me anymore

So this guy at work let me know he was interested in me and he was very straight up. No shyness there. He gave me his number and we started texting. He asked me if I thought he was attractive and I told him I didn't know him well enough to answer that (I have only seen him once as he works in a different building). But I told him I would be open to getting to know him. He got very very upset that I wouldn't say if he was attractive. And basically said "this isn't going to work out". It was bizarre that he got that upset knowing I've only seen him once. Submitted October 22, 2022 at 12:16AM So this guy at work let me know he was interested in me and he was very straight up. No shyness there. He gave me his number and we started texting. He asked me if I thought he was attractive and I told him I didn't know him well enough to answer that (I have only seen him once as he works in a different building). But I told him I would be open to getting to know...