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/u/TheHandsomeSatanist on Saw this on insta on @nonbinberries

Having watched the show, House is amazing, but that one episode truly pissed me off as an asexual. House 'proved' that the male partner wasn't truly asexual because he had a tumour in his brain preventing him from getting an erection, and testosterone being produced, and the 'asexual' female partner was secretly cheating on him because 'a girl has needs' (which is what she said to justify cheating on him when the truth came out). That episode sucked for representation, but House as a show overall was an extremely fun watch, imo. September 09, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/paperthinhymn11 on I think I'm grey asexual? Thoughts please

You're welcome! :) September 09, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/afdc92 on Saw this on insta on @nonbinberries

Isn’t David on Schitt’s Creek Pan or bi? September 09, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/KeeganDragneel on Here's a friendly reminder that ace guys aren't urban legends, we exist! It took me 22 years to realise I am aro and ace, but I'm glad I finally figured.

I want to meet an ace prince September 09, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/UniqueNobo on Ah yes, date her even though I have no reason to or attraction to her

I did tell him that she’s not my type and he told me I’m too young to have a type September 09, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/Leebledeeble on Ah yes, date her even though I have no reason to or attraction to her

You can just say you dont like her tbh, that's what I used to do, just brush it off like they're not your type or just a friend September 09, 2020 at 11:35PM

/u/dietcokequeenn on Thought this was interesting 💜

Wow it’s almost like I’ve seen this post before! And the title looks familiar too! September 09, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/Astarate on I think I'm grey asexual? Thoughts please

Thank you! Your response helped me a lot. September 09, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/SteveHeist on Aces Wild always have some interesting comics.

Even outside of sexuality, there's a far smaller range on what's considered "appropriately masculine behavior" for men. Watch the way seemingly basic "soft topics" are handled differently, such as the fact that "I need some space" is simultaneously supposed to be a 'wait cue' if a guy's GF tells him, and a 'red flag' if the script flips. Think about how many instances of LGBT+ (especially non-gay LGBT+, like ace, bi, et cetera) is either given to an AFAB character or set up so the character acts or is represented more effeminately post-reveal (to pull gays back in, the stereotype of the fabulous gay would fit into this as well). Questioning the "way things are" is seen almost as a feminine thing to do while the "macho" thing is just to.. Be. Don't ask. Don't think. Follow the bright lights and ignore the calls of the dusk. I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to come to this realizatio...

/u/MonkeyMaster15 on ACE REPRESENTATION!!

Sex education September 09, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/romanator25 on Is it normal for Asexuals to get erections?

We don’t feel sexual attraction, unfortunately penises still work the way they do. And of course it’s even more awkward. It’s normal and just something you got to live with. September 09, 2020 at 11:25PM

/u/evp722 on Help needed!!

House MD. It’s one of my favorite shows, but I just can’t stand the episode about asexuality September 09, 2020 at 11:22PM

/u/Mixi_Magik on Saw this on insta on @nonbinberries

If yall are looking for some good trans content, My Hero Academia has two trans characters, and they are openly defended and accepted in universe. September 09, 2020 at 11:22PM

/u/Rashvarok on Are you asexual? – FAQ

Well this was veeeery helpful, I’m not 100% sure if I’m asexual, but I know that I really don’t care about sex right now and I don’t want a romantic relationship either. Not like I’ve ever really cared what other people thought about me, but it’s kinda nice to know that I’m not really the weird one September 09, 2020 at 11:22PM

/u/bodom114 on Saw this on insta on @nonbinberries

I think Supergirl has a trans woman September 09, 2020 at 11:21PM

/u/SlayerOfHellWyrm on Ah yes, date her even though I have no reason to or attraction to her

It doesn't matter, it's none of her business either. If you state you don't have an interest in dating a person, she has no right to the reason why, and she should respect that. I went through that with my own mother and while she continually pestered she learned that pushing me on it, pushed me away and she didn't want that. September 09, 2020 at 11:19PM

/u/typically_amiable on Ring tattoo healed nicely :)

Just get some numbing creme from Amazon before you get the tattoo! Diminishes it immensely. September 09, 2020 at 11:17PM

/u/UniqueNobo on self love means drawing myself with an ace flag (ง •̀_•́)ง

Stay comfy! September 09, 2020 at 11:17PM

/u/UniqueNobo on Ah yes, date her even though I have no reason to or attraction to her

It’s just too bad he would then tell my mom who would pester me even more about it September 09, 2020 at 11:16PM

/u/SlayerOfHellWyrm on Ah yes, date her even though I have no reason to or attraction to her

You can just say you don't want to date someone. It's really none of their business behind that. September 09, 2020 at 11:16PM

Not me, but a coworker. It boggles my mind how he could persist after so long without a response...

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My friend got this on Snapchat

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Wife distracted from marriage?

So my wife and I have been married 3 years and dating for close to 10 years. For the most part everything was always good. We met at work and used to spend every second together. I’ve now been on 2nd shift for 4 years and she works from home watching kids. This sucked because we weren’t always with eachother but we would still text all day long. I’ve noticed over probably the last year things have changed a lot. She has a friend (female) who used to live Nextdoor to us but they lost touch when we moved. Recently they started talking again. Within that time Period that they started talking my wife has gotten really into spirituality. This is when I feel like everything started changing. It started with just liking crystals and listening to people on Facebook. I was raised catholic but no longer am I really religious but I wasn’t a fan of it and told her how I felt. (Not only cause of religion but I just always thought it wasnt for me, the whole psychic aspect) At one point she lied to ...