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How to even be friends?

I’d like to ask my neighbor to hang out and get to know him (in hopes of dating), but I don’t even have a jumping off point. We live in two separate houses, so no hallway banter. Haven’t even been able to wave him down outside to chat because of Midwest winter. Do I just walk over, ring the doorbell, and invite him out on a Friday night? Pretend I got a piece of his mail on accident? Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:04AM I’d like to ask my neighbor to hang out and get to know him (in hopes of dating), but I don’t even have a jumping off point. We live in two separate houses, so no hallway banter. Haven’t even been able to wave him down outside to chat because of Midwest winter. Do I just walk over, ring the doorbell, and invite him out on a Friday night? Pretend I got a piece of his mail on accident?

I find it harder and harder to see if men are gay or hetero

I notice that often I have a hard time identifying gay men, besides the very obvious homosexual guys. I notice a lot of guys that i thought were gay appear to.be heterosexual and sometimes the other way round. Of course there are gay men that are VERY noticeable gay by their way of talking or behaving and walking. But there are so many guys that have feminine characteristics and you would perhaps think they are gay but then it is not the case and are just very very hetero. Do more women have this 'problem'? More then once i had a whole conversation with a guy and then suddenly they asked me out, and i was like 'oh but all the time I thought you were into men'. Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:26AM I notice that often I have a hard time identifying gay men, besides the very obvious homosexual guys. I notice a lot of guys that i thought were gay appear to.be heterosexual and sometimes the other way round. Of course there are gay men that are VERY noticeable gay by t...

Did I shoot myself in the foot?

I matched with this girl on an app last night and straight away started messaging. We were going back and forth instantaneously, both of us with long, detailed messages. I thought we were vibing pretty well, had similar interests etc. She was curious and inquisitive about me also. In her last message she apologised for having to send multiple shorter messages rather than one massive one because her phone was playing up on the app. So when I messaged back I included my actual phone number if she was keen to continue texting on there. Since then... silence. Now I’m worried I may have asked for the phone number too soon. Would it be lame to message her again tonight if she hasn’t messaged me? Maybe even acknowledge i asked for her number too soon and hope it wasn’t a big deal? I realise that asking for a number may be too forward for early on messaging but I wasn’t really thinking straight. Normally i don’t care about ghosting but for some reason I really liked what I saw of this pers...

I Can't Make My Girlfriend Cum

Hey what's up everyone. I come here today with a heavy heart, full of insecurity and self-doubt. I (27M) cannot get my girlfriend (25F) to cum. We are each other's first relationship. It feels like we are in sync in other areas of our relationship, but for some reason there is this disconnect when it comes to sex. It seems like we've tried every combination of going down on her, fingering, and clit playing for at least 30 minutes. Sometimes I feel like she is getting there by the way she squirms but it just fades away, then I see this sad look on her face and she gives up. It makes my heart sink knowing I can't please her. I went and bought her some lube and a vibrator which doesn't seem to be helping at all. We have talked about it and she says she can get herself off from masturbation and reassures me that it's not anything to do with me or my fault, but I can't get the thought out of my head. I'm a pretty self-secure person, however this is making m...

Picking up my wife from the airport

I’m picking up my wife from the airport tomorrow. What should we do? Submitted March 09, 2020 at 11:51PM I’m picking up my wife from the airport tomorrow. What should we do?

New girlfriend appreciate my oral but doesn’t love it

I have a new girlfriend since a month and she doesn’t love how I eat her out.. I have been sexually active for 6 years now and with the years I got very positive reviews.. So she told me she never cum with a partner before and the only way she can cum is with a vibrator alone.. I was pretty confident that I’ll be the first with all the techniques I learn but It was a flop! We tried stuff for a month and it just doesn’t work. She told me it always like that, intercourses feels very good for her but the rest not so much and it never ends with an orgasm.. So it’s my first time it happens to me and I wonder what I can do? She told me she’s used to it and like it that way but I’d feel more special if the first is with me Submitted March 09, 2020 at 11:52PM I have a new girlfriend since a month and she doesn’t love how I eat her out..I have been sexually active for 6 years now and with the years I got very positive reviews..So she told me she never cum with a partner before and th...

Sex never feels good for me

To preface, I have a medium to high sex drive so my libido isn’t the issue. I get horny and enjoy sex in theory, but the actual act is where it loses me. Clitoral stimulation tickles for some reason, while penetration just feels like uncomfortable friction. Getting eaten out feels really odd and unenjoyable. After time, having sex becomes repetitive to me and it caused tension in my past relationship. I also masturbate frequently but the only method I enjoy is laying down on my side and squeezing my legs tightly together until I cum. Sex toys don’t do it for me. Any ideas on what is happening and how I can fix it? I’m worried that I won’t be able to sustain a relationship in the future if I don’t resolve this, as consistent sex is important to most people. Submitted March 09, 2020 at 11:52PM To preface, I have a medium to high sex drive so my libido isn’t the issue. I get horny and enjoy sex in theory, but the actual act is where it loses me. Clitoral stimulation tickles for s...

I've been using prostitutes since I was 18

I am now 28, from the UK if anyone cares. I have been visiting prostitutes since I was 19. It started when I was I college and everyone around me was talking (bragging) about how many girls they'd had sex with or, for some, the fact that they'd had sex at all. So I did some research and found out about a brothel in my local town (small city really). And I went there. It was a bit dingy, and all I had was a massage with a "happy ending". But I was the first kind of sexual contact I'd ever had with a woman in my life. Before this the only sexual activity I'd ever partaken in was receiving oral and anal sex from a man I'd met on the internet. I thought I was gay, I'm not. I visited the same establishment a few months where I lost my "true" virginity to a young woman from Taiwan. Since then I've visited probably over 20 different women who sell sex. I've visited women who've indulged my crossdressing fantasies, I've visited ...

How do I approach sucking the guy I likes cock while he plays a video game?

He and I are best friends and last night I told him how I think about doing it to him sometimes. He said, “Wow I wish a girl would do that for me. I used to try to get my ex to do it but she always said no because she thought it was a dumb idea.” He’s kinda shy and since we are friends he’d never ask me to do it for him. But I want to do it for him. So how do I approach? Submitted March 09, 2020 at 11:55PM He and I are best friends and last night I told him how I think about doing it to him sometimes. He said, “Wow I wish a girl would do that for me. I used to try to get my ex to do it but she always said no because she thought it was a dumb idea.”He’s kinda shy and since we are friends he’d never ask me to do it for him. But I want to do it for him.So how do I approach?

How do I politely ask my partner to get an STD screening done?

We’ve been together for a bit now, and he’s been with 2 other people. I was last screened about 2 years ago and I was clean then. (That was when we started our relationship). I asked him back then if he was clean to which he said yes. I just took his word for it. We hadn’t become sexually active since recently and I asked him again and he gave me the same answer. I want to ask him to get tested, since I’m getting tested again this week. How do I ask him politely to get a test done? Submitted March 09, 2020 at 11:56PM We’ve been together for a bit now, and he’s been with 2 other people. I was last screened about 2 years ago and I was clean then. (That was when we started our relationship). I asked him back then if he was clean to which he said yes. I just took his word for it. We hadn’t become sexually active since recently and I asked him again and he gave me the same answer. I want to ask him to get tested, since I’m getting tested again this week. How do I ask him politely to ...

Hypospermia is killing me

I produce extremly small amount of semen naturally, its so low that orgasming can feel extremely uncomfortable and even kinda painfull All doctors ive spoken too have allways given me the same answer "We're sorry but there's nothing we can do, here is your bill" I've taken Semenax and have been put on Efexor experimentally to see if it could work, but nothing so far. This has taken an enormous toll on my mental health, im a 20 year old man, and i can't fucking cum. Even if i go without cummig for a week or to, it's just a drop slowly dripping out. There just is no payoff for sex or masturbation, if orgasming aint painful it still just fucking sucks, there isn't any high pleasure, just dissapointment :( Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:00AM I produce extremly small amount of semen naturally, its so low that orgasming can feel extremely uncomfortable and even kinda painfullAll doctors ive spoken too have allways given me the same answer "We...

Dead fish syndrome while getting titty fucked. Wtf am I supposed to do? HELP!

Alright so recently I (a 32C cup) have gotten into titty fucking. I never used to be into it for many reasons, but now it's something I want to explore. The only thing is, have no idea what to do during the act. My hands are busy pushing my tiny titties together, but wtf do you do with your head and mouth?!?!?! I mean, you have the option of giving head at the same time, but with a guy doing the thrusting, you can't really keep a good suction going. Plus bending your head at that angle is just fucking uncomfortable even with pillows. But if you're not sucking him off then not only are you getting a dick jammed into your chin and nose with every other thrust, but you have nothing to do with your face. Where am I supposed to look?? What should my expressions even be?? This is for him not me I'm not moaning over here about to cum so.... I'm just kinda chillin. I know there's different positions for this to happen besides the woman lying down and the man straddl...

I am going to have sex with a guy that is much more hotter than me in a few hours, how do I calm my nerves?

We met online. He is athletic and super hot (we are talking a model) I am an average looking girl with some chub on my stomach. I am worried he will think I am ugly or fat and reject me when he meets me. I sent him a topless pic but he thought it was hot however it doesn't show my stomach rolls when I sit. I am feeling self conscious. This guy is so hot and I am worried he will use it to take advantage of me sexually. Or that he will think I am ugly. Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:01AM We met online. He is athletic and super hot (we are talking a model) I am an average looking girl with some chub on my stomach. I am worried he will think I am ugly or fat and reject me when he meets me. I sent him a topless pic but he thought it was hot however it doesn't show my stomach rolls when I sit. I am feeling self conscious. This guy is so hot and I am worried he will use it to take advantage of me sexually. Or that he will think I am ugly.

My gf received unsolicited dick video, he knows her address, what can we do?

She was harassed in the past, kinda worried story may repeat itself. Does it make sense to report him to the police? We have his name and proof material. We are in Toronto if that matters Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:02AM She was harassed in the past, kinda worried story may repeat itself. Does it make sense to report him to the police? We have his name and proof material. We are in Toronto if that matters

Are sex tapes worth making?

Want it to stay private, but the idea kinda turns me on. Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:02AM Want it to stay private, but the idea kinda turns me on.

My orgasms from masturbation and penetration feel different?

During penetration I don’t get the eyes rolling back into the head, contractions/spasms, or anything, but I get this weird really good feeling almost like being intoxicated?? Am I actually having an orgasm? I’m so confused, does anyone else feel like this? Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:02AM During penetration I don’t get the eyes rolling back into the head, contractions/spasms, or anything, but I get this weird really good feeling almost like being intoxicated?? Am I actually having an orgasm? I’m so confused, does anyone else feel like this?

How can I torture my penis?

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What is the wildest thing you've done in terms of sex?

As the question says! If you a freak... what is one of the wildest things you've did? Do tell! Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:04AM As the question says! If you a freak... what is one of the wildest things you've did? Do tell!

What does sex feel like the first time for a man?

Virgin here. Curious as to how exactly it feels compared to masturbation, I’ve heard it’s very different. The more details the better, thanks! Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:06AM Virgin here. Curious as to how exactly it feels compared to masturbation, I’ve heard it’s very different. The more details the better, thanks!

How to keep a partner satisfied enough so that they will not cheat?

My girlfriend (27F) and I (20F) had a kind of rough patch because I suspected that she was cheating on me. I never found conclusive proof like tests or pictures but I don’t want to lose her. I read somewhere that if you “ drain someone’s balls” metaphorically they will not want to to cheat. I also know that a routine sex life can bring somebody to cheat. But sometimes it’s hard to tell when somebody is horny- even if they’re in the best mood they still might not fells up to it. I have tried to spice up our sex life by initiating sex with my girlfriend in a closet or in the backseat of a car and letting her explore her fetish of hurting me during sex. Sometimes she is really into it and we’d have a great time cuddling afterwards. But sometimes she laughs and says that I’m so desperate. And then she’ll act like she’s doing me a favor for letting me pleasure her and just lay there and move me around. What really hurts is when she’s even on her phone sometimes and gets really cold if I...

is there a pill you can take to cum faster?

i take citalopram, which is an anti-anxiety med that makes it sooo much harder to finish. before taking this med, i could cum so quick and now it takes at least 30 minutes. is there any type of medication to counteract the effects of this medication?? Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:15AM i take citalopram, which is an anti-anxiety med that makes it sooo much harder to finish. before taking this med, i could cum so quick and now it takes at least 30 minutes. is there any type of medication to counteract the effects of this medication??

Why do spouses swap and share?

Not judging just asking. Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:16AM Not judging just asking.

labia concerns? does it stretch as u start having sex?

so im 17 and i have a hanging labia. when i was younger i definetly didnt! but i started puberty very early and i think when i was younger i pulled on them a lot out of curiosity. i even remember my mother being rlly concerned for me when i was like 11? and taking me to the doctor, who, ofc, told me its fine. im a virgin but will be going into college in the fall and ive been having more issues about my body than usual, probs bc i assume ill have sex in the next yr or so. ik all vaginas and labias are beautiful blah blah but im also scared that they will stretch if i ever have sex (like...oral?) can this happen? id imagine it would happen when ur younger and still developing but id like it if it didnt happen to me now. i dont touch my labia ever bc im scared itll stretch, which i 90% feel like it will if i tugged on it. a lot. is there a way to prevent this? Submitted March 10, 2020 at 12:17AM so im 17 and i have a hanging labia. when i was younger i definetly didnt! but i sta...