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/u/spongbarbara on Do you guys know there's an aroace flag?

I thought the aroace flag was like the ace flag but green June 19, 2020 at 12:04AM

/u/Cassopeia88 on my panromantic ace ass got a pride tattoo, and I wanted to show y'all C:

That’s really nice. June 19, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/CharlNoot on Do you guys know of any asexual celebrities?

I'm not sure if this counts as a celebrity but Hansol from the Kpop group ToppDogg is Aroace! June 18, 2020 at 11:58PM

/u/doctercreeper on my panromantic ace ass got a pride tattoo, and I wanted to show y'all C:

Wanna be friends June 18, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/WhatAnRPGameR on She's Got Style, She's Got Gr'ace', She's An Aaaaccceee!

G-B, Garlic Bread!! June 18, 2020 at 11:56PM

/u/AT-TE-212 on My best friend got me these for me after missing my birthday!

Thats really rad! June 18, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/mexican_sandal on Drew a meme cus' I was bored

I love your art style! and agree cake IS WAY BETTER THAN SEX June 18, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/bittycarrot on Being asexual is not easy.

I remember i had told one of my coworkers I was asexual, and he had said something like, that would make be so much easier, or that sounds great. And I was like, no it isn't. From what I could tell, people who are not asexual, can have a problem where they are driven by sex, and the need for it. So they see that not needing sex, or not feeling sexually attracted to someone, makes their life a lot easier. And its not. Ive been in only a couple relationships, one boy accepted me, but ended up assaulting one of my friends. The other manipulated me into having sex even though it ruined my trust in him. Its hard being in a world thats driven by sex when you're one of the few that are not. You're confused and hurt and lonely. It makes it feel like you have nobody that can truly understand you. June 18, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/iminvisibru on Do you guys know of any asexual celebrities?

Anthony Padilla on youtube did a segment about talking to asexuals, and there was minecraft youtuber answering his questions that I vaguely recognised. Can't remember her name though. June 18, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/happy-happy-sad on Came out to my parents yesterday, here’s how it went. (Spoiler: Not well)

I had basically the same thing happen to me when I first came out. It’s been five years for me now, so maybe I can give you some hope. Pretty much the same thing happened: my mom says “it’s normal not to want to have sex until you’re actually in a relationship with someone you love; you’re completely normal and I don’t want to have to label yourself”, my dad sees the distress and changes the subject with a “we love you no matter what”. (Spoiler alert mom: if you think this is normal, then you may want to examine yourself.) My mom has a Master’s degree in psychology and early childhood development, so she was very adamant about how she has learned about brain chemistry and at the right time, our brains are hardwired to want to reproduce so if I’m not, that means my brain chemistry is off. Thanks, mom. But I’ve been in college for a few years now and she’s gotten much better. Every conversation, she understands a little more and I understood where she was coming from as well. Most peo...

/u/number-1-loser on my panromantic ace ass got a pride tattoo, and I wanted to show y'all C:

Me too!!! June 18, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/Anor-Vir on I am thankful that I'm aro-ace

I am glad =°w°= June 18, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/Jetaimelavallee on I tried making vegan ace cookies (the purple is bad, mixing didn't work out well)

Still looks delish tho June 18, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/Vortas00 on *Hissss*

And pizza And the nightmares of others June 18, 2020 at 11:45PM

/u/FishOfFishyness on Sounds more an ace to me

I have never played D&D, where do you play this? June 18, 2020 at 11:45PM

/u/Anor-Vir on I'm slowly losing my marriage

Have you tried telling her all of this? Sharing all your fears and concerns with her like just like you have with us right now? June 18, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/abch222 on Hi everyone, i wanna quickly tell a story of what happened today

Thanks 💜 June 18, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/KitonePeach on My best friend got me these for me after missing my birthday!

I love that set so much! I collect dice, and have wanted HeartBeat ace sets for a while now. Hoping to be able to order some soon. June 18, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/Vortas00 on Being asexual is not easy.

I get this so often! I'm lucky cause I have two younger siblings, but my parents don't understand June 18, 2020 at 11:41PM

/u/KitonePeach on My best friend got me these for me after missing my birthday!

They're made by HeartBeat Dice. I posted in another comment some links to where you can get them or the other styles of ace dice they make! They also make aro sets in the same styles, and recently added a demisexual design. They'll be adding metal sets to the site, soon, too. June 18, 2020 at 11:41PM

/u/KitonePeach on My best friend got me these for me after missing my birthday!

Like the other reply says, they're HeartBeat Dice. I'll post some links to them on their site, and on DieHard Dice's site. HeartBeat is a newer company and have kickstarters right now for other variants, so they have different styles for all pride flags! [Here's their website]( https://heartbeatdice.ecwid.com/ ), you'll find dice in three different styles -Vibrant, Opaque, and Translucent- and when they complete more designs, they'll add them here. [Here's their Kickstarter]( https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/hbdice/heartbeat-pride-dice/description ). They're currently working on metal sets, so those will be added to their main site, soon, I think. [Here's the translucent set on sale at DieHard]( https://www.dieharddice.com/products/heartbeat-dice-translucent-asexual-pride-set ), same set as OP's. [Here's the opaque set on DieHard]( https://www.dieharddice.com/products/heartbeat-dice-opaque-asexual-pride-set ) Note that those sets c...

An "Alpha" nice guy sent this to me after one date. I denied going to dinner with him and was honest I didn't feel much of a connection. More info in comments

https://ift.tt/3fA8bhG Submitted June 18, 2020 at 11:32PM https://ift.tt/3fA8bhG

Good vibes, positive energy, no expectations, go with the flow

What are your thoughts when you see these phrases on a profile or early on in the conversation? Recently, I've talked to two different guys who said they were looking for good vibes and positive energy and I swiped right bc I'm like yeah, I want all that too. What I discovered both times was that was code for "I don't want to be held accountable for my bad behavior by having a mildly uncomfortable conversation". Was that a fluke? Do you steer clear when you see this in a profile? Also what about when the other person says that they have no expectations and want to go with the flow with OLD? Shouldn't I have expectations, so I can make a decision if I'm into the person or not? Submitted June 18, 2020 at 11:36PM What are your thoughts when you see these phrases on a profile or early on in the conversation?Recently, I've talked to two different guys who said they were looking for good vibes and positive energy and I swiped right bc I'm like y...