I married an ace girl. I don't need to have sex with her to love her. Plus I get a lot of garlic bread and she can turn into a dragon to burn our enemies so that's pretty neat June 28, 2021 at 12:27AM

This is fantastic. I love it. You can't choose asexuality, so why not see the positive sides of it? June 28, 2021 at 12:26AM

Aros are part of A-spec and agender is part of trans... ? I could list a thousand other sub groups like this and randomly accusing you of things about them, but that's not really related to the point of you actively trying to erase asexual people in favor of allies. It is extremely important for both representation and validation of a-spec people that the "A" stands for them. It's horribly dismissive and discriminatory to treat the entire ace/aro spectrum being included AT ALL as equal to a single very uncommon gender that's already included indirectly also getting a direct nod. Or worse, any random cis/het person who insist they would like the privileges of allyship. June 28, 2021 at 12:25AM

I appreciate you letting me know I’m not alone. That makes me feel a lot better. This is why I love this community because when I’m feeling like I’m the only one in the world going through this, kind folks like you stop in to let me know that’s not true. June 28, 2021 at 12:25AM

I do not believe there is any correlation between period changes and figuring out your sexual identity, but if you want to hear from someone who experienced something similar, my cycles changed completely in the same time frame that I learned I’m ace. Now to be fair, I’ve gone through a lot of major life changes, faced a lot of anxiety, and I’m also getting old enough to hit peri menopause, so the changes are probably due to the above. But it is funny that I suddenly started getting much heavier periods, with first ever PMS migraines, worsened PMS symptoms, less time between cycles (changed from every 31 days to 28. Sometimes 26), and shorter cycles (three to four days instead of six to eight. I do like having fewer days of diarrhea so that change is welcome. But the others… Eesh. I hated waking up to a murder scene in my bed. It was the first time I’ve had to change pad size since I was a teenager.) All of this started about three years ago, and I learned about Anegosexuality about t...

my experience is there's a good amount of allosexual folk who don't know the meaning of asexual/aromantic OR they think their D/V is good enough to change it. June 28, 2021 at 12:22AM

I understand this completely, but I'm definitely missing the close friends part. Mostly because people are just difficult, myself included. June 28, 2021 at 12:22AM

Hey there! It seems a new thread opened up just for this a day or two ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/Acefriendships/ Good luck! June 28, 2021 at 12:22AM

ive realised that my sexual preferences change depending on how confident in my body i feel. i thought i was a lesbian for years but ive recently developed a crush on a guy. i was okay with it at first but today i was feeling really insecure and i cant stomach the thought of being with a guy. but being with a woman would still be fine. this is also evident in my porn watching habits as i hate watching straight porn 99% of the time and gay mlm porn is my comfort zone. i think this is because the women in porn are always good looking. even when watching amateur porn it makes me feel bad because i feel like they look better than me. also i hate shaving and the women are always at least partially shaved i think i just have a need to feel attractive especially to men and its really getting to me and getting in the way of relationships. any advice? Submitted June 27, 2021 at 11:31PM ive realised that my sexual preferences change depending on how confident in my body i feel. i thoug...

Could someone explain to me why every time I give a blowjob I am perfectly able to reach the bottom, but when I have to deal with a toothbrush, as soon as it enters the middle of my throat, I feel like throwing up? Submitted June 27, 2021 at 11:40PM Could someone explain to me why every time I give a blowjob I am perfectly able to reach the bottom, but when I have to deal with a toothbrush, as soon as it enters the middle of my throat, I feel like throwing up?

You're doing yoga outside without a matt and your feet get a lil dirty. You walk inside and see your man chilling on the couch reading a book. You stand there until he notices you looking at him. You click your fingers point at your feet and say "they're dirty clean them. " he drops his book as you sit down on the couch put your feet up and watch him worship you, humbling himself before you... Now excuse the erotic (possibly gross to some) scenario but I wanted to outline it and then relay my perspective. Originally this fantasy brought me a sense of shame. As a guy I want to feel powerful, strong and respectable. Of course this act doesn't lend itself to any such accolades. However my perspective has changed since- I now view this from a different angle. I feel that I retain my masculinity by simply still being the man in the relationship but a man who is willing to serve and submit ONLY to his woman. Outside of the bedroom he protects her and would put his bo...

A couples of friends and I are thinking to start a kind of new idea where we do erotic records , we don't know if there are guys interested taking on account that guys are more visuals but we think maybe we can produce some audios and put maybe some pics to imagination . Do you think could be a good idea ? We are latinas and our English it's not good , that could be erotic? Submitted June 27, 2021 at 11:58PM A couples of friends and I are thinking to start a kind of new idea where we do erotic records , we don't know if there are guys interested taking on account that guys are more visuals but we think maybe we can produce some audios and put maybe some pics to imagination . Do you think could be a good idea ? We are latinas and our English it's not good , that could be erotic?

Went on a vacation with my friend and his wife this weekend. Been friends with both then quite awhile. We got a hotel room and bar hopped downtown. Eventually end back at the room and keep drinking. My friend and his wife get ready to go to bed around 3AM, I'm still up. My friend texts me from the next bed over: "Hey, odd question. Do you want your dick sucked? Wife is real horny. It'll be just between us." I was too drunk to notice my phone going off at first. I replied a few minutes later: "Everything good homie?" Friend says: "Yeah sorry about that big time man totally my bad, hopefully we can just forget about that." I tell him no worries and that I say stupid stuff while drunk all the time. Not gonna lie, I would've been down for it if he was serious. Not sure if he back tracked because he was drunk and embarrassed or didn't think I'd be for it. I didn't bring it up the next morning to either. Chances of this happening...

Since my therapist refuse to talk about it I have to do it here. My therapist say that the subject is too horrible for her and that she don't want to hear about it anymore. So, a little trigger warning. Please don't remove this post because my therapist don't want to help me with it. Oh and please read all. First of all, I don't get turned on by real humans at all. Only cartoon characters turn me on but only characters who don't look too human like. Anime is too realistic and don't do it for me. I mean characters with big cartoon eyes, tall skinny bodies and stuff like that. That isn't the problem.... The problem is that I get turned on by characters who treat other characters like trash. Who kill, cut open other characters brains, cut out their eyes, take out their organs and are abusive to them. I get off to pictures of the character taking out brains, eyes and stuff. The thing is that I can only get off to it if it's a abusive relationship. If they ...

Ok so I’m really worried this started on Wednesday and I don’t know what to do or if there is anything I can do. I’ve been talking to this girl for a while now but on Wednesday it started to get a bit more intimate. First off I should probably explain that we only talk over text because of covid and just other reasons that get in the way. But what I mean by “more intimate” is that we’ve spoke about basically how we want to be together and go we both want to just sit down together and just hug for a while. Here’s the problem, I’m not horny or thinking about sex but for some reason just the mere thought of her or when I’m texting her I start leaking a little bit. I don’t know if there’s a medical problem or if this can be fixed but I’m really worried. Any help is appreciated thank you in advance. Submitted June 27, 2021 at 11:59PM Ok so I’m really worried this started on Wednesday and I don’t know what to do or if there is anything I can do. I’ve been talking to this girl for a wh...

F25. Like the title says, I never get wet naturally. No matter how much I am turned on or how long foreplay has been happening I just don’t seem to produce anything that you can feel outside of my vagina. I have always had this problem and was wondering if I could do anything to remedy it. As a side note that could be related, I am overweight and was wondering if that could be it? I also have pretty large labia minora and have always wondered if that could somehow be part of the “problem” too. Any insight would be appreciated. Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:00AM F25. Like the title says, I never get wet naturally. No matter how much I am turned on or how long foreplay has been happening I just don’t seem to produce anything that you can feel outside of my vagina. I have always had this problem and was wondering if I could do anything to remedy it. As a side note that could be related, I am overweight and was wondering if that could be it? I also have pretty large labia minora and...

Would you date/sleep with someone that has hsv 1 or 2? How much does it matter to you? Especially if it’s dormant Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:02AM Would you date/sleep with someone that has hsv 1 or 2? How much does it matter to you? Especially if it’s dormant

So, this is weird. I know. My guy friend and I hooked up after years of being BFF’s. I know this sounds awful, and I know there are some judgy people out there but oh well. I need honesty. We are both involved w others too. So, I guess you could say we are each other’s “side pieces”. Well, after a planned day of just all day spending the day together and having sex and talking and etc. he got post nut syndrome. He’s been distant but we still talk everyday. He’s just not reciprocating the flirting, and initiating sex, etc... we are planning to see each other soon just to hang out and I really want to be with him again. To all the guys...how do I initiate...how do turn him on...what do I do? Do I dress up, flirt, touch him? I don’t want to make him uncomfortable, but I want him to know what he’s missing. He’s always been incredibly into me, for years and now I feel like he’s over it, even though he continues to tell me he’s still really attracted to me, yet he’s been distant. He claims ...

So we met three years ago at my former job. He said he’s had a crush on my for a while and he wanted to meet and do it for a while. Well I’m a virgin and nervous to do it with someone. Plus I have a crush on my high school crush (we don’t talk, it’s just a crush I can’t get over), and what I’m basically saying is idk if I have feelings for my colleague. I’m on the fence about losing my virginity to someone I’m 50/50 about, I keep putting it off about hanging out and when he compliments me. Plus he has two kids and I’m just not into that. I don’t mind kids, it’s just that I don’t want them, nor do I want to get involved with someone in that situation. I’ve never dated anybody either so I’ve been thinking about this for a while and I don’t know. Sometimes I get horny and flip flop but I know that I shouldn’t get into a relationship of any kind just for sex. Agh! Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:07AM So we met three years ago at my former job. He said he’s had a crush on my for a whil...

I am 7 months pregnant with my first baby. I am lactating already and my husband wants to do some things sexually with my milk. Has anyone ever done this and if so tips? Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:13AM I am 7 months pregnant with my first baby. I am lactating already and my husband wants to do some things sexually with my milk. Has anyone ever done this and if so tips?

Hi. I’ve been thinking about it lately. I am not against being in a committed relationship, but I am wanting to have fun. Wanted some honest opinions. What are the best casual sex/hook up apps or websites? No scams, no bots, just genuine people? BTW I am a young guy in college. Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:16AM Hi. I’ve been thinking about it lately. I am not against being in a committed relationship, but I am wanting to have fun. Wanted some honest opinions. What are the best casual sex/hook up apps or websites? No scams, no bots, just genuine people? BTW I am a young guy in college.

can sperm be transferred to a vagina causing pregnancy from taking off a used condom and then wiping the penis with a wet towel, then after all that using sanitizer to "kill" the remaining of the sperm on hand, then applying the new condom correctly? Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:19AM can sperm be transferred to a vagina causing pregnancy from taking off a used condom and then wiping the penis with a wet towel, then after all that using sanitizer to "kill" the remaining of the sperm on hand, then applying the new condom correctly?

I was sitting on my boyfriends lap at the cinema and we kissed. I had my first kiss a week ago and kissed one more after that day. I was a mess. My boyfriend was so good but I wasn’t. I leaned the wrong way and was just painfully a mess. I almost cried from embarrassment and I am just as I type this. I pulled away from the kiss and immediately apologised and covered my face with my hands. My boyfriend reacted completely fine and understood. He did say we weren’t in the right position and there was people around. I’m just so embarrassed, how on earth did I mess up on my 3rd kiss. And to think I thought my first and second kiss was bad... After he offered to kiss when we were at a cafe afterwards but I was so embarrassed and said no because there’s people around. I’m scared to kiss again. I feel like I can never get it right. Please give me advice Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:22AM I was sitting on my boyfriends lap at the cinema and we kissed. I had my first kiss a week ago an...