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Inlove

Currently really falling for this 17 year old F but I’m 22 M and I know it can seem wrong but I’m so inlove. She’s beautiful Submitted January 15, 2023 at 01:07AM Currently really falling for this 17 year old F but I’m 22 M and I know it can seem wrong but I’m so inlove. She’s beautiful

/u/Clareustration on What moment made you realized you were asexual?

I was at my friends house and we were talking about people we find attractive. He kept saying “god I would smash this woman if I had the chance!” I thought he was joking until he kept repeating it. Smash or pass never made sense to me as well. I thought smash was “yeah I’d date them” January 15, 2023 at 12:30AM

/u/KMFCM on DMX has spoken

......i have that song where he's just naming one girl after another in my head now. 🤣 ("About three kims" 😅😂🤣) (probably exaggerating, but you know) January 15, 2023 at 12:30AM

Does it mean anything that my ex gf wants to meet in person vs over the phone?

I asked her to meet me in person to talk, and I said or I could call her and we could talk if that’s easier for her. She said meeting in person works. Does this mean anything or am I grasping at straws?? Submitted January 14, 2023 at 11:43PM I asked her to meet me in person to talk, and I said or I could call her and we could talk if that’s easier for her. She said meeting in person works. Does this mean anything or am I grasping at straws??

He broke up with me and yet still wants us to be more than friends, just not in a relationship. Should I welcome that?

The relationship, 31/M, 34/F started as study partners and we talked online for several months. We met personally after 4 months and things became intimate right then and there. We didn’t realize we already were falling for each other that time. After several weeks, he decided to ask me if I was ok to be in this relationship as he already thought I felt the same way that we were already a couple. I honestly thought we were moving too fast but he was already saying he’s not planning to meet anyone else but me so I agreed. We were back to being in a long distance relationship as I had to go back to my country. Moving forward to this month, I got back and met with him. He stayed with me for a week and we got to know each other well. Unfortunately, there are differences in personalities and perspectives, made us fight a lot and have misunderstandings. Yesterday, he asked for some time to think if this is going to work in the future as we were both starting to settle down in a foreign cou...

Is she being friendly or trying to flirt?

I had a coworker bump into me, out of nowhere, with her shoulder while I was filling a shelf. She had never done this in the past when I used to work there before. We started talking, and I am not sure what exactly she said. I think it was something like “Do you cause trouble?” I said not outside but I do at work. She tells me she does it at work and outside. I’m not sure what she meant by this. She started listing what she does as her hobby without me asking. She then went back to whatever she does there. I was going to test the waters but I never really got a chance again today. I’m probably overthinking this and she could be just acting friendly. The only reason I ask this is due to just she was asking those questions. I don’t know. I’m okay either way. I'm not really good at telling the differences. Submitted January 14, 2023 at 11:57PM I had a coworker bump into me, out of nowhere, with her shoulder while I was filling a shelf. She had never done this in the past when ...

I'm so confused about this breakup

We had only dated for 5 weeks, but it was quite intense with lots of long calls, texting and meeting up, being intimate etc. A week ago she told me her ex wants her back and now she's confused and can't lead me on. She also said multiple times i should continue dating, which tells me she doesn't really want me. I'm feeling absolutely heartbroken, like the worst pain ever, but maybe i'm over reacting? I did have a few gut-feeling signs that might not mean anything, or maybe they do, i dont know. The 2nd date we had at my place i actually felt bad anxiety when she took a long time to leave after our date, but maybe i was just tired. Also after a few weeks of dating her i started to feel like i was losing myself a bit, can't explain it, but just like things felt different within myself or a little off. Furthermore, i had trouble getting hard during intimacy twice, but this might've just been nerves. Also, the last time i met up with her, it felt so awkward f...