I like head pats, nose boops, and headbutting anything I love. I think I learned how to love from my cat. June 06, 2023 at 01:14AM

Met a girl on hinge. Talked for a while. Got along well, texted for a week pretty much every day. Asked her on a date. Had a first date - drinks and dessert. Went great really vibed and ended up spending like 2.5 hours together (really expected maybe an hour or so long originally). She messaged me on hinge within minutes of the date ending (I was driving home) that she had a great time and sent her number. Amazing. Date #2: Got dinner and drinks. Ended up spending like 3.5-4 hours talking and hanging out. Really vibed. Closed down a restaurant together that night. Kissed her goodbye in the parking lot. Again went really well. We text pretty much every day. A few days after the date (Saturday night) she was texting telling me to come over and cook with her but I was away (out of state) at a wedding so I couldn't. It was awesome though basically sexting and I'm feeling great about how things are going and that she's really into me. The next day we dont talk much because ...

I've [F27] been speaking to a guy [M27] off a dating app for roughly three weeks now. We have great conversations, a lot in common but I've noticed : -He isn't asking me as much questions as I'm asking him. -Responds promptly, but doesn't initiate the conversation. - Said "so when are we going out? but hasn't made solid plans. Tf do I do? I feel like if it's not a hell yes it's a no, he's not that interested in this or harboring feelings for someone else and keeping me as back-up. Submitted June 06, 2023 at 12:13AM I've [F27] been speaking to a guy [M27] off a dating app for roughly three weeks now. We have great conversations, a lot in common but I've noticed :-He isn't asking me as much questions as I'm asking him.-Responds promptly, but doesn't initiate the conversation. - Said "so when are we going out? but hasn't made solid plans. Tf do I do? I feel like if it's not a hell yes it's a no, he's...

Oh 🥺ok June 05, 2023 at 11:10PM

Just starting to tell people your trauma can be pretty problematic, as another person here suggested. When it comes to topic like these a trigger warning or a check in is always the best, especially if u don't know people. This can be a wide reach, but I think honesty is the best: your writing style can be a red flag for some people, together with not being careful about boundaries it can create a problematic image. I can understand your excitement in finding someone ace for the first time, but immediately trying to talk about it can be a bit much. I am not saying you should maybe tone down your excitement, but think of the person u are talking with and be a bit more empathetic in how u present yourself and if certain topics can be very intimate. Best wishes! June 05, 2023 at 11:09PM