So Tinder's been rough on me. Like 15 matches in half a year of which only 3 replied to my messages. With 2 of these I didn't really hit it off, but 1 was really cool and I clicked with her. At some point she started replying much more slowly, until eventually she didnt reply for a week, after which she said that she'd met a guy with whom she wanted to see where it would go. She was very respectful about it, said I was a great guy and wished me well and I wished her the same. I realise I'm sounding pathetic, but I think it's on the one hand my lack of success with Tinder and on the other hand the idea that I have nothing to lose with her, but I've found it hard to completely forget about her. (Not like I constantly think about her, but more that there's a small voice in the back of my head whispering 'what if?' sometimes) Which brings me here. I'm aware the best thing would be to unmatch and forget about her, but I gotta get my hope in life f...

I just want to forget about her at This point. Usually i move on and meet other girls and get into a new thing but This one girl my mind just doesn’t want to forget and it’s driving me insaaane Submitted November 29, 2020 at 11:56PM I just want to forget about her at This point. Usually i move on and meet other girls and get into a new thing but This one girl my mind just doesn’t want to forget and it’s driving me insaaane

I don’t understand why on OLD people usually say something like “I’m not on here much do you have snap” or to message them on IG. I’m not comfortable with strangers on the internet knowing my IG and I don’t have snapchat. I’m also not about to make one. Then they unmatch. What’s the deal here? Submitted November 29, 2020 at 11:59PM I don’t understand why on OLD people usually say something like “I’m not on here much do you have snap” or to message them on IG.I’m not comfortable with strangers on the internet knowing my IG and I don’t have snapchat. I’m also not about to make one. Then they unmatch. What’s the deal here?

So a friend of mine M(23) is talking to a F(21) and is not looking for anything serious atm however they have sent explict messages but he wants to clarify that he wants a FWB.how does he go about saying that without losing her🤔 should he wait till after he sleeps with her or is there another way to go about this Submitted November 30, 2020 at 12:02AM So a friend of mine M(23) is talking to a F(21) and is not looking for anything serious atm however they have sent explict messages but he wants to clarify that he wants a FWB.how does he go about saying that without losing her🤔 should he wait till after he sleeps with her or is there another way to go about this

hey everyone, I would appreciate a review of my profile and see what people think. thanks! https://imgur.com/a/secHrAa Submitted November 30, 2020 at 12:04AM hey everyone, I would appreciate a review of my profile and see what people think. thanks!https://ift.tt/2JaYc8c

So I asked out my crush over text because I was self isolating, I’m gonna see her in school in 2 days but should I ask her to go on a date or is it too early Timeline for clarity Yesterday (Saturday) - asked out (she said yes) Today (Sunday) - isolating still Tomorrow (Monday) - end of isolation Tuesday - see her at school First girlfriend so I have no idea what to do any help would be appreciated. Submitted November 30, 2020 at 12:09AM So I asked out my crush over text because I was self isolating, I’m gonna see her in school in 2 days but should I ask her to go on a date or is it too earlyTimeline for clarityYesterday (Saturday) - asked out (she said yes)Today (Sunday) - isolating stillTomorrow (Monday) - end of isolationTuesday - see her at schoolFirst girlfriend so I have no idea what to do any help would be appreciated.

I (22/m) have a major crush on a beautiful woman (31/f) who doesn’t seem particularly interested in me. What can I do to get over her? Submitted November 30, 2020 at 12:10AM I (22/m) have a major crush on a beautiful woman (31/f) who doesn’t seem particularly interested in me. What can I do to get over her?

There's this woman who is interested in me, and we have been seeing each other for about 2 months. I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend as yet, because the last time I asked someone to be my girlfriend a month after meeting her, she broke things off with me after a week. I think my problem started with that first girl so allow me to start there, lets call her Girl A. I had known Girl A for a month and we connected really well with each other, she was a musician as I am really interested in people with creative pursuits, me being a Spray Paint artist myself. Anyway, during the week of us dating, I did my best to show her how important she was to me, I told her how beautiful she was, I got her flowers, listened to her when she needed a shoulder to cry on, I joked with her a lot, during that entire week I felt absolutely amazing with her. Then came the end of the week, where she told me she couldn't do this and broke up with me, telling me I was desperate and clingy (Whic...

I (23F) have a really difficult time knowing whether or not someone is flirting with me. I’m awful with social cues, even pre-covid. I have missed so many opportunities because I never flirt back. It’s gotten to the point where my friends will answer for me if we’re in groups (pre covid, at clubs, our in public, etc.). So what are things you look for to tell if someone is flirting with you? Submitted November 30, 2020 at 12:13AM I (23F) have a really difficult time knowing whether or not someone is flirting with me. I’m awful with social cues, even pre-covid. I have missed so many opportunities because I never flirt back. It’s gotten to the point where my friends will answer for me if we’re in groups (pre covid, at clubs, our in public, etc.). So what are things you look for to tell if someone is flirting with you?

How many of you do give out your IG on the app? Why or why not? Submitted November 30, 2020 at 12:14AM How many of you do give out your IG on the app? Why or why not?

I’ve slowly given up drinking because I noticed it’s bad for my mental health. And I was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder and am on meds that have bad interactions with alcohol. Thus, I don’t drink at all anymore. In the past, all my first dates have started with drinks. But now I’m not sure how to handle this suggestion. I can still agree to drinks and then just order something non-alcoholic when I get there (I still like going to bars) but I don’t want to seem like I tricked the guy or anything ya know? Not sure if I should mention it ahead of time. I just know that drinking is a big part of most peoples social lives and I don’t want to seem like a wet blanket or someone they can’t have fun with. I know there are alternatives like coffee, walks, etc but drinks just seems to be the go-to. Submitted November 30, 2020 at 12:17AM I’ve slowly given up drinking because I noticed it’s bad for my mental health. And I was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder and am on med...

If you are Allosexual it means you feel sexual attraction. So everyone except for asexuals November 29, 2020 at 11:55PM

Who asks for anime with lots of nudity? November 29, 2020 at 11:52PM

Same here. My anxiety always tells me I’m lying but I think one ace November 29, 2020 at 11:50PM

What does allo mean I know it’s a sexuality but what is it? November 29, 2020 at 11:48PM

lots of aces experience arousal, especially to certain stimulus, what we dont experience is sexual attraction. attraction and arousal are not the same thing November 29, 2020 at 11:41PM

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I've never had that said to me, but if I did I'd feel pretty uncomfortable. November 29, 2020 at 11:26PM

I think people are way too quick to jump to "aphobia!" November 29, 2020 at 11:24PM

In my case, especially in earlier stage I think about the person I like almost 24 hours.In my eyes, that person looks like the most gorgeous person in the world with the sweetest smile. I want to spend all of my time with him, I want to tell all of my secrets to him. I want to be there for him when he needs someone to support him. November 29, 2020 at 11:21PM

Pie is very good. November 29, 2020 at 11:14PM

I am! November 29, 2020 at 11:09PM