Background: I’m a 23F, he’s a 28M. met online. We FaceTimed three times. both have a lot of commonalities and I thought he has a lot of potential. We got a long great! He messages me he has the first date planned out and it’s a surprise. Now that pisses me off and scares me. I also told him I had been sexually assaulted prior and to take it slow if we meet up. I explain my concerns to him and how I am a planner and I actually hate surprises and he goes “yeah me too.” 😶 and quickly follows up with “but this isn’t a surprise for me because I’m in the know.” I just find the whole thing inconsiderate and part of me wants to cancel the whole date in its entirety or I wonder if it’s my PTSD and trust. I haven’t dated anyone since highschool so I wonder if it’s fear also. Opinions? Submitted January 30, 2020 at 12:05AM Background: I’m a 23F, he’s a 28M. met online. We FaceTimed three times. both have a lot of commonalities and I thought he has a lot of potential. We got a long gre...

So I’ve(F22) been seeing this guy(M23) a little bit lately, its nothing official but I really like him and as far as I can tell he really likes me, we’ve known each other for a while and know each other pretty well. We’ve only recently pursued a relationship that’s more intimate than our friendship in the past and honestly, so far so good, however the other day he called me by his ex’s name and I just laughed it off cause sometime mistakes happen. No harm no foul. But then it happened again, same day. I’m not exactly a very jealous person so I’m not overly phased but I don’t know if he’s still hung up on this other girl and I should give him the space to get over her, or if it was honestly just a mistake Submitted January 30, 2020 at 12:07AM So I’ve(F22) been seeing this guy(M23) a little bit lately, its nothing official but I really like him and as far as I can tell he really likes me, we’ve known each other for a while and know each other pretty well. We’ve only recently purs...

I (F21) met a guy (M30) online a couple of months ago. Since we were talking during the school break, we didn’t meet in person until after the new year but had been consistently messaging until we finally met up. We had a lovely date (at least I thought so) and I thought we had good rapport. We never ran out of things to talk about. He’s a little cockier than the guys I normally go for, but I enjoyed his confidence and didn’t let that bother me. After the date, we kept texting over the next few days, but hadn’t set up a time to meet again. All of a sudden he’s started not answering in a timely fashion (within 24 hours). He’ll take two days to respond with no explanation now even though I can see he’s clearly online (and he used to apologize or tell me in advance he’s busy with work). I’m not the type to chase, but I really liked this guy and thought the feeling was mutual. But this feels like a drawn out ghosting. Do you think I should just cut my losses? Submitted January 30, 20...

We dated for a little bit but hit a few complications (none of which had anything to do with me) . We didn't speak for a few weeks, but yesterday I asked her out again in a creative way if I say so myself. She asked 'when was I thinking of' and I asked her when she was free but she hasn't got back to me. For a little while I was wondering if she lost interest or if she was playing hard to get. Honestly there's signs for both, I just decided to take a shot and am now of the opinion that she's playing hard to get. How do I handle the situation without seeming needy. I asked her yesterday and she is yet to reply or even read the message despite being active Submitted January 30, 2020 at 12:22AM We dated for a little bit but hit a few complications (none of which had anything to do with me) . We didn't speak for a few weeks, but yesterday I asked her out again in a creative way if I say so myself. She asked 'when was I thinking of' and I asked h...

Hello! So I have a crush on this girl and we are just acquiantance. Last week, we went on a huge conference event that lasted 2 days. We both already knew each other before the conference event. I knew she would come because I messaged her last time that I will go and she told me she would also go to that conference. We told each other that see you on the conference event. We bumped each other during the course of breaks in that conference, said hi to each other. But we did not really talk much in person because she was with her friends and I was also busy by that time and I'm with my friends. After the conference event last Saturday, I messaged her on how was the conference. We chatted a bit and had a good conversation but she really took a long time to reply to my last chat messages. On Monday, I found out that Kobe died and I was deeply affected. She saw my post in Instagram story that I was sad that Kobe died that I was a fan of him since I was a kid. Just a simple story pos...

Hi, I’ll start by outlining the latest situation I’ve been in. One of my girlfriend’s work colleagues (who is also a friend, and we all spent time together as well) is getting married later this year. She invited my gf, and then my gf told me about it and she was very happy about it but she did not say anything regarding whether I am invited or not. I found it strange but was somehow feeling bad to ask about it so I stayed quiet for a while. Recently, we had an argument about something, and during the argument she revealed that the coworker asked her about inviting me to the wedding, however at the time my gf was feeling upset about the relationship (can’t recall the reason), and was feeling like we may break up until then. She then told her friend how she felt about the relationship and decided it would be best to not invite me. I was quite shocked when I found out all of the above, not just because she was the one because of whom I did not get invited to the wedding (maybe I am a...

Can someone help me and give me advice So i have recently “fallen” for a girl that i used to go out with about a year ago, we dated for like a month and at the time i was really insecure about myself so the relationship ended, after that we had bad blood that lasted for like 5 months but after that we became “friends” since we were in the same friendship group Now recently i started loving myself more and i dont know somehow from that i started catching feelings for this girl again and i dont know if i should try talking to her again especially since it would make things akward between our friendshipgroup if she were to reject me and i havent talked to her 1 on 1 in a year So my question to you is should i take the jump and tell her how i feel or should i keep it in me and just let it go I like her romantically but i dont want to lose her as a friend so i dont think i should do it if the risk is big Do you have any tips on how i could maybe tell her without it ending up breaking our...

I'm gonna keep the finer details of this vague for privacy reasons. Basically I had the idea in September to do a climbing trip with a friend of mine and I suggested we just book a couple days off and take a cheap flight to a popular climbing destination and spend 4-5 days there camping and climbing every day. He was keen on the idea, but didn't like the destination much. He suggested a more exotic area, further away and harder to get to. I made the mistake to idly agree to it, thinking I'd get things figured out in the future. He was to go for 2 weeks with his gf, and my gf and I are to link up with them for a week during this time. The problem was that I already had a 2 week trip booked with my gf. I wasn't worried about getting the time off work - my boss is very flexible. It's more financial than anything, and I also don't like the idea of how much the flights are going to cost for only a week of travel. Very first world problem, I know. I'm struggling...

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I can’t seem to find any kind here and was wondering if anyone with mine or similar fetish could point me in the right direction. Submitted January 29, 2020 at 11:31PM I can’t seem to find any kind here and was wondering if anyone with mine or similar fetish could point me in the right direction.

Hi! Long time lurker, first time posting. I (F) an bit bummed about experience I just had with my bf. I don’t know if I’m being too self-conscious/ridiculous or if someone would feel the same way, so I would appreciate some other opinion. Long story short, we were about to have penetrative sex but I was dry. Very unusual for me, so I’m bit worried about that - but that’s another story (hopefully it was caused just by not drinking enough water...?). Well anyways, lucky for us, we remembered that we have some lube. I’m never dry like that, so we never used lube before (we got it as a present for a big purchase). So I ask my boyfriend to use the lube on me. And he was like... “no, you do it. You should put it on yourself.” Well, a bit strange, I mean I thought putting the lube on could be used as a bit of a foreplay for the penetration, but whatever, no harsh feelings even if I’m bummed since I asked for it first. So I (sorry if this is TMI but I figure this is the right sub for it) pu...

I’ve really never used condoms b4 and my first one was Trojan bareskin. It was so tight that it would start to slide of during sex. So I was wondering if there’s a perfect condom for someone of 6 inches Submitted January 29, 2020 at 11:33PM I’ve really never used condoms b4 and my first one was Trojan bareskin. It was so tight that it would start to slide of during sex. So I was wondering if there’s a perfect condom for someone of 6 inches

I'm 18f and want to be a slut. Any advices? Submitted January 29, 2020 at 11:35PM I'm 18f and want to be a slut. Any advices?

So don't want to make the story too long. But I went through a break up recently and got back out there and found an awesome girl on Tinder. And we stayed out from 12am to about 4:30am together on our first date I took her on. It went really well. I got to hold her and make out a bit at the end but that's really it. She seemed really into me and had the cutest smile after we were done kissing and I could tell she liked it. She's very open and made it very clear she is pretty into sex and even got into her kinks and stuff. I think had I said the right things or whatever we could've probably ended up having sex but I didn't and didn't really want to either on the first date. But what do I say to kind of initiate it? Also we're both 21 and live with our parents. And because we've only been on one date and aren't trying to make each other meet parents or anything where would we do it? Would I ask if we can go to her house? In the back of my car? This i...

Hi, I don’t know if this is the correct sub to ask for advice. I’m 18F, and know very well that I’m straight, I currently have a boyfriend. However, I was masturbating earlier, and I was fantasizing about a scenario, but it was with a dominant woman who kept referring to herself as “mommy”, and I ended up repeating the word over and over to myself as I orgasmed. My mother and I do not have the best relationship, so the idea of me being into this isn’t surprising, but I don’t know what to do with this. I don’t like girls, and have never cared to experiment, but this fantasy really “hit different” I guess. What do I do with this information? Do I just pretend it didn’t happen? Do I keep it to myself? Submitted January 29, 2020 at 11:43PM Hi, I don’t know if this is the correct sub to ask for advice. I’m 18F, and know very well that I’m straight, I currently have a boyfriend. However, I was masturbating earlier, and I was fantasizing about a scenario, but it was with a dominant wom...

At long last! I finally figured out how to give my wife (F40) her first G-spot orgasm with my fingers a few weeks ago. She loved it and left a puddle on our mattress. Fantastic. :) (discovery there was me learning to use a lot more force than I thought). After many attempts, I gave her a missionary/PIV g-spot orgasm today. Some tips for anyone who hasn’t accomplished this yet... The “giving” partner should already be familiar with the g spot, where it’s located and what it feels like, and receiver needs to know what it feels like. It never seemed like something my wife was in to until she asked me to squeeze much harder a few weeks ago - and it’s like a light went off. So cover that first, get familiar. Learn to make a puddle with fingers first, it’s great! Now on to PIV... Woman on the bottom needs to get her butt as high off the bed as possible with knees toward her head (like doing a cannonball). Use pillows under butt to help. I bought a wedge pillow on Amazon and it’s perfe...

Hi, so my boyfriend (m18) and I (f19) started dating in early September. We live about 10 ish minutes away when Im home but Im at university eight months if the year. My parents don’t like him because he takes up too much time out of my studies. So, he comes to see me a couple times a semester, and so far its been great. We lost our virginities to each other back in December. It felt really good and being my first time, I wasn’t sure how fo feel, but I was happy and enjoyed the experience. Later he asked me if I’d orgasmed and I kind if danced around the subject so he assumed yes. We did it again yesterday, he said to let him know when I came. Now my boyfriend is hot, don’t get me wrong and I love him like no other, but after a lot of him going down and taking breaks and fingering and all that, I just told him I came when he did. He was inside of me so its not like he would’ve known anyway. It feels good, and so really theres no difference for me but I know he’d be disappointed. I’ve ...

I've been with my partner for 5 years now. He's a good partner and focused on always getting an orgasm, so it never really crossed my mind that he might be selfish in bed. We've communicated a lot, but it's pretty much always me who has to initiate or change things. I have more kinks, but I'm the only one whose ever bought toys, put on porn, etc. He never really wants to thinks to use any aids and relies on me to bring them in. He's only really thought about positions that would feel better to him from what I can tell. Foreplay to him consists mostly of some kisses into oral on me and that's kind of the ritual we got stuck in. When I asked why he doesn't fondle my breasts or anything during piv, he says he just wants to focus on feels and visuals. Maybe it's a mismatch: he is super vanilla and the only porn he admits is a little left ball is just "unusual opportunities" (like very short women). Nothing special I try ever really turns him...

I recently matched with someone on Hinge and we've been going out for about a week now. I haven't met her in real life yet, hopefully this weekend. No sexual stuff is planned for that day. We've been getting very sexual when we communicate lately. It's been making me super horny. In the past 3 or 4 days, it's been really hard for me to achieve orgasm. The last 3 orgasms I had were all prostate orgasms, I know this because they felt ultra intense and I ejaculated a lot of what seemed like prostatic fluid. I don't touch my prostate at all. Also, when I masturbate, I keep getting erections in and out and even when I'm flaccid, I can still kinda feel my prostate being stimulated. It's quite hard for me to reach orgasm now. I really want to get rid of this. Prostate orgasms are lovely, but I hate having blue balls all the time and getting random erections during class. I really hope I don't have ED or testicular torsion or something. What should I do...

So, I am engaged and we have been having a lot of fights lately over how little we have sex. She does not feel as connected to me as before because we are not having as much sex, and that she does not want to initiate it herself all the time, and that she wants me to go down more often. There is a reason I have not been initiating or going down and it is a reason that I don't know how to talk to her about because it is her biggest insecurity. Since we have been together, she has gained a lot of weight, and doesn't try to do anything about it or anything to combat it. When she comes home she just sits around on her phone and does not want to do ANYTHING physically exerting with me, when I try to invite her and encourage her to go with me when I work out or go walking or ride my bike etc., she just wants to "relax" because she is exhausted from working a desk job. I understand this can be mentally exhausting, but its a very sedentary job. Anyways, I have trouble wit...

My girlfriend (20f) and I have what I presume are high sex drives? We’ve been getting more and more comfortable so we’re trying new things, like light scratching and biting. Well this morning we were just laying there, touching each other like we do. We started with light scratching that turned into clawing my leg; enough so that it’s painful. I loved every second of it. Submitted January 30, 2020 at 12:11AM My girlfriend (20f) and I have what I presume are high sex drives? We’ve been getting more and more comfortable so we’re trying new things, like light scratching and biting. Well this morning we were just laying there, touching each other like we do. We started with light scratching that turned into clawing my leg; enough so that it’s painful. I loved every second of it.