How-To: G-Spot orgasm from missionary

At long last! I finally figured out how to give my wife (F40) her first G-spot orgasm with my fingers a few weeks ago. She loved it and left a puddle on our mattress. Fantastic. :) (discovery there was me learning to use a lot more force than I thought). After many attempts, I gave her a missionary/PIV g-spot orgasm today. Some tips for anyone who hasn’t accomplished this yet...

  1. The “giving” partner should already be familiar with the g spot, where it’s located and what it feels like, and receiver needs to know what it feels like. It never seemed like something my wife was in to until she asked me to squeeze much harder a few weeks ago - and it’s like a light went off. So cover that first, get familiar. Learn to make a puddle with fingers first, it’s great! Now on to PIV...

  2. Woman on the bottom needs to get her butt as high off the bed as possible with knees toward her head (like doing a cannonball). Use pillows under butt to help. I bought a wedge pillow on Amazon and it’s perfect (~$20). This alone likely will not generate a G-spot orgasm (I tried, didn’t work).

  3. Guy needs to thrust correctly!! You DO NOT thrust all the way in/pelvis to pelvis deep. You need to do a short and very shallow upward stroke that focuses just inside the front (pelvis side) opening of the vagina. Pair that with the very tilted angle of the woman’s hips and you should successfully hit the G-spot.

  4. Guy needs to listen to the woman, and woman needs to communicate how it feels. Ladies, when he hits it, tell him. And guys, when she says you’ve found it, stay there. Do not adjust. Do it slow or fast, woman decides, guy listens.

  5. Important tip for guys: CARDIO! Once you do find the G-spot, it can take a while to get it fully stimulated so it will take some effort to get it done. Guys, do everything you can to stick it out, it will be worth it for her. If you absolutely have to stop, fingers can also get the job done.

Hoping this is helpful. I’m by no means an expert. This was just a wonderful experience that took a lot of study to figure out and hopefully I can help other couples get there too. Good luck and enjoy!



Submitted January 29, 2020 at 11:43PM

At long last! I finally figured out how to give my wife (F40) her first G-spot orgasm with my fingers a few weeks ago. She loved it and left a puddle on our mattress. Fantastic. :) (discovery there was me learning to use a lot more force than I thought). After many attempts, I gave her a missionary/PIV g-spot orgasm today. Some tips for anyone who hasn’t accomplished this yet...The “giving” partner should already be familiar with the g spot, where it’s located and what it feels like, and receiver needs to know what it feels like. It never seemed like something my wife was in to until she asked me to squeeze much harder a few weeks ago - and it’s like a light went off. So cover that first, get familiar. Learn to make a puddle with fingers first, it’s great! Now on to PIV...Woman on the bottom needs to get her butt as high off the bed as possible with knees toward her head (like doing a cannonball). Use pillows under butt to help. I bought a wedge pillow on Amazon and it’s perfect (~$20). This alone likely will not generate a G-spot orgasm (I tried, didn’t work).Guy needs to thrust correctly!! You DO NOT thrust all the way in/pelvis to pelvis deep. You need to do a short and very shallow upward stroke that focuses just inside the front (pelvis side) opening of the vagina. Pair that with the very tilted angle of the woman’s hips and you should successfully hit the G-spot.Guy needs to listen to the woman, and woman needs to communicate how it feels. Ladies, when he hits it, tell him. And guys, when she says you’ve found it, stay there. Do not adjust. Do it slow or fast, woman decides, guy listens.Important tip for guys: CARDIO! Once you do find the G-spot, it can take a while to get it fully stimulated so it will take some effort to get it done. Guys, do everything you can to stick it out, it will be worth it for her. If you absolutely have to stop, fingers can also get the job done.Hoping this is helpful. I’m by no means an expert. This was just a wonderful experience that took a lot of study to figure out and hopefully I can help other couples get there too. Good luck and enjoy!
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