She [23F] still has not reply to my [24M] last chat message and its been more than 3 days already

Hello! So I have a crush on this girl and we are just acquiantance. Last week, we went on a huge conference event that lasted 2 days. We both already knew each other before the conference event. I knew she would come because I messaged her last time that I will go and she told me she would also go to that conference. We told each other that see you on the conference event.

We bumped each other during the course of breaks in that conference, said hi to each other. But we did not really talk much in person because she was with her friends and I was also busy by that time and I'm with my friends. After the conference event last Saturday, I messaged her on how was the conference. We chatted a bit and had a good conversation but she really took a long time to reply to my last chat messages.

On Monday, I found out that Kobe died and I was deeply affected. She saw my post in Instagram story that I was sad that Kobe died that I was a fan of him since I was a kid. Just a simple story post not really in the emotional side. She never really view Instagram story until yesterday. She is not a basketball fan.

So yep, after that Kobe incident, she did not reply back to my last chat message. Its been more than 72 hours and idk what happened. Idk if I am just overthinking this but I don't want to think ill thoughts about her ghosting me or something. Any opinions?

tldr: We are acquiantances and bumped each other in conference but did not talk much in person. Message her after the conference but after the last chat message, she did not reply back and at the same time on what happened to Kobe incident



Submitted January 29, 2020 at 11:58PM

Hello! So I have a crush on this girl and we are just acquiantance. Last week, we went on a huge conference event that lasted 2 days. We both already knew each other before the conference event. I knew she would come because I messaged her last time that I will go and she told me she would also go to that conference. We told each other that see you on the conference event.We bumped each other during the course of breaks in that conference, said hi to each other. But we did not really talk much in person because she was with her friends and I was also busy by that time and I'm with my friends. After the conference event last Saturday, I messaged her on how was the conference. We chatted a bit and had a good conversation but she really took a long time to reply to my last chat messages.On Monday, I found out that Kobe died and I was deeply affected. She saw my post in Instagram story that I was sad that Kobe died that I was a fan of him since I was a kid. Just a simple story post not really in the emotional side. She never really view Instagram story until yesterday. She is not a basketball fan.So yep, after that Kobe incident, she did not reply back to my last chat message. Its been more than 72 hours and idk what happened. Idk if I am just overthinking this but I don't want to think ill thoughts about her ghosting me or something. Any opinions?tldr: We are acquiantances and bumped each other in conference but did not talk much in person. Message her after the conference but after the last chat message, she did not reply back and at the same time on what happened to Kobe incident

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