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Guy [23M] I [24F] like says he really likes me but acts distant at the same time. Need advice on how to act.

I don’t want to bother my friends with this so I am resorting to reddit for relationship advice lol… anyway here goes: I met a guy from a dating app a month ago. We really hit it off. We’ve seen each other 4 times since then. Everytime we have gone on a date it was because I asked except for one time. We have always taken a while to respond to each other but our texts would be great full of questions and all that jazz. (Honestly I don’t care if someone takes a day to respond as long as what they respond with matches the energy my texts give.)But then after a couple weeks Well he would take an average 24hrs to respond (which is fine) but then the replies would be kind of dry. I asked him to hangout again and see what would happen, maybe things would end after this? But this last time we went on a date we ended up having a 9 hour long date and it was honestly an amazing time! We finally kissed too. Definitely worth losing sleep over. During the end of the date he admitted that he wa...

Should i be in a relationship?

I (f20) have literally never been single, i got my first “serious” bf in 4th grade and we dated until 7th. The longest i have ever been single was for the entirety of 8th grade. I got with my next bf the summer before high school and we were together for 2 years, he was very toxic and abusive but i was more scared of being alone than of him. When we broke up I immediately found someone new then we were together for a year and a half on and off. When that ended (bc he became heavily addicted to drugs) i, again, like immediately found someone new, we broke up in the beginning of the summer because he decided to go to a far away college and i am not about long distance. I was single for ONE W H O L E hot girl summer (the longest i have been single since 8th grade) and I discovered that i can pretty much have anyone i want, it was very liberating and awesome. Now here is the problem. At the very end of that summer i found the PERFECT guy, he is so much better than anyone i have ever dated...

Receiving mixed signals from a girl I have a crush on

I have class with this girl who I think is super cute and she'd sit right next to me if there were enough seats left. Occasionally I catch her stealing a glance at me (or so I think). We'd walk and talk after class as well. One day I approach her on campus to say hello and she offers to study together on an upcoming exam, I mentioned we should swap phone numbers and a few days later we study together just a few hours before the exam itself. She mentioned that she really appreciated the help and I said that we can make it a regular thing before every exam we would have and she agreed. I wanna ask if she wants to hangout but she only ever really texts me if its related to class and I'm not getting the vibe that she's interested. Should I ask her out> Should I wait until she makes a move? Submitted September 21, 2023 at 11:58PM I have class with this girl who I think is super cute and she'd sit right next to me if there were enough seats left. Occasionally ...

Is it best to focus on average and tall women as a short guy?

M18 5'5. I already know most women don't like short men, but it seems especially true for short women. I'm wanting to hear other short mens experiences with women of various heights? Do you think it would be best for my mental health to just avoid short women? And what can I do to improve my chances as a short guy? Submitted September 21, 2023 at 11:58PM M18 5'5. I already know most women don't like short men, but it seems especially true for short women. I'm wanting to hear other short mens experiences with women of various heights? Do you think it would be best for my mental health to just avoid short women? And what can I do to improve my chances as a short guy?

How should I [25M] respond to woman [27F] becoming distant when things were going well?

I started talking to this girl a little while ago and we have been talking everyday. Things have been going great. She has been showing high interest, asking to ft and asking when I would come see her. We ft’d last night and it seemed to go well, her energy was good as she was laughing a lot. All of a sudden today she has been leaving me on read. I doubled texted once but I dont wanna keep on doing that….I think Im just gonna move on. I dont think she is interested anymore after the ft call. Submitted September 22, 2023 at 12:07AM I started talking to this girl a little while ago and we have been talking everyday. Things have been going great. She has been showing high interest, asking to ft and asking when I would come see her. We ft’d last night and it seemed to go well, her energy was good as she was laughing a lot. All of a sudden today she has been leaving me on read. I doubled texted once but I dont wanna keep on doing that….I think Im just gonna move on. I dont think she ...

Opener advice

I matched with a friend of a friend whom I’ve never met, on Hinge; I have only seen her on my friend’s instagram posts and my friend is in some pictures of her hinge profile. How would you open a conversation with her, do I mention our mutual friend at first or just like talk to her normally and not mention my friend? Submitted September 22, 2023 at 12:12AM I matched with a friend of a friend whom I’ve never met, on Hinge; I have only seen her on my friend’s instagram posts and my friend is in some pictures of her hinge profile. How would you open a conversation with her, do I mention our mutual friend at first or just like talk to her normally and not mention my friend?