I have read so many blogposts and reddit posts from people telling the readers to not search for our happiness in others. Though the concept itself is extremely clear to me, the execution of this principle seems to be rather lacking in my personal life. Especially considering I am still in the aftermath of an emotional breakup which ended because we relied too much on each other for happiness. Now that I am venturing back into the dating scene I am wondering: how to tell whether you are relying on someone else for happiness? Or whether you are intrinsically, completely happy because of you. Thank you, kind redditors ❤️ stay safe and inside Submitted April 19, 2020 at 11:43PM I have read so many blogposts and reddit posts from people telling the readers to not search for our happiness in others.Though the concept itself is extremely clear to me, the execution of this principle seems to be rather lacking in my personal life. Especially considering I am still in the aftermath of

Hi guys So I've been out of the dating game since 2018, haven't found anyone interesting enough anyways, we're on lockdown and I've decided to reply to dms So this guy messages me on ig and after a few hours it moved to WhatsApp, in total about 5 hours Then he starts saying shit like this Here's a snippet of our conversation lol I explained a location to him Him: Oh girls knows her roads definitely a keeper Him: Omg that was soo bad Me: 😂😂 you said it not me (I honestly wanted to say yikes that was embarassing) Him: Shush I'm trying here Him: 😆 what are you trying for Him: Nvm 😌🙈 Him: 5 points for trying though Me: Hmm maybe .5 😂😂 Him: I'll remind you of this when you catch feels for me 😂 Me:This is a bit presumptuous isn't it Him:Definitely 😂 Him:Gotta be optimistic tho Like wtf guys am I just being a total douche about the whole thing or am I right in finding this a tad bit creepy?? We've only spoken for 5 hours at this point Or is thi

Why do guys do the "you must not wanna talk text?" Stop that shit! Don't even give you time to respond now I dont even wanna talk to you Forreal.. Submitted April 19, 2020 at 11:49PM Why do guys do the "you must not wanna talk text?" Stop that shit! Don't even give you time to respond now I dont even wanna talk to you Forreal..

Sorry if this comes across super vain or anything - that’s not my intention. I don’t really see myself as being all that great, but according to others (especially girls or women at the store etc) I am “pretty.” I have some wonderful Male friends who have also said the same thing (they’re not flirting, they’re people who call me “sis” or have girlfriends and are paying a friend a genuine compliment) but it seems like guys don’t actually see me as an option. If anyone catches my eye who I’ve spoken to they don’t really seem to notice me in particular or pay much attention back. One or two people have mentioned that I must only be single because guys are too intimidated to approach me which was something I’d never really thought about before because I find myself so normal and feel like a totally average person lol... I’m open to getting to know just about anyone and not intimidating at all! How can I tell the difference between people maybe actually being intimidated and them simply n

Is it her fault if guys that pursue her are generally not her preference? She shouldn’t settle should she now. Submitted April 20, 2020 at 12:06AM Is it her fault if guys that pursue her are generally not her preference? She shouldn’t settle should she now.

When will you start to take interest in someone on a dating app? I don't want to start too early and build up something and run out of things to talk about. IE: If lockdown or quarantine ended in two months , how long before that would you recommend to start building something up with someone? Submitted April 20, 2020 at 12:08AM When will you start to take interest in someone on a dating app? I don't want to start too early and build up something and run out of things to talk about. IE: If lockdown or quarantine ended in two months , how long before that would you recommend to start building something up with someone?

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F(20) I squirt, a lot, and I’m a little insecure about it since I’ve heard that it has a little bit of pee in it. Submitted April 19, 2020 at 10:42PM F(20) I squirt, a lot, and I’m a little insecure about it since I’ve heard that it has a little bit of pee in it.

Okay so I’m just a little confused on why guys would lie about their size. Like this guy without me even asking, said he had a 9” wiener. First of all, we know that ain’t true. Secondly, I’d actually much rather have a 5-6” guy instead. So why do guys feel the need to lie about their size, when they know we’ll just be upset they lied about themselves. And just wanted to ask the guys, what size dick would constitute a guy saying he’s 9”? Submitted April 19, 2020 at 10:44PM Okay so I’m just a little confused on why guys would lie about their size. Like this guy without me even asking, said he had a 9” wiener. First of all, we know that ain’t true. Secondly, I’d actually much rather have a 5-6” guy instead. So why do guys feel the need to lie about their size, when they know we’ll just be upset they lied about themselves.And just wanted to ask the guys, what size dick would constitute a guy saying he’s 9”?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, and when we first got together we would have sex for hours without him cumming. Now when we have sex, he gets close to cumming in a matter of minutes. We have foreplay every time we have sex - but that just gets him even closer to cumming before even having PIV sex. It takes me 30+ minutes to cum every time we have sex because he has to keep slowing down/stopping completely. We have tried edging and that does nothing. Any suggestions? Submitted April 19, 2020 at 10:46PM My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, and when we first got together we would have sex for hours without him cumming. Now when we have sex, he gets close to cumming in a matter of minutes. We have foreplay every time we have sex - but that just gets him even closer to cumming before even having PIV sex. It takes me 30+ minutes to cum every time we have sex because he has to keep slowing down/stopping completely. We have tried edging and that does not

Hey so I like a specific type of movie genre, bdsm, dominant, sex, romance, movies. If anybody has any good movie suggestion you would be a life saver Ex. Fifty shades trilogy The secretary 365 days Submitted April 19, 2020 at 11:44PM Hey so I like a specific type of movie genre, bdsm, dominant, sex, romance, movies. If anybody has any good movie suggestion you would be a life saver Ex. Fifty shades trilogy The secretary 365 days

My gf (20F) and I (20M) don't have much sex and she said that it is because I mention and talking about sex too much. In my mind, I'm trying to tell her that it's important for me, but I think it just pressures her into having it. If I understood the reason why mentioning or talking about it is a turn off it would be much easier for me not to talk about it. Can someone explain this to me. Thank you. Submitted April 19, 2020 at 11:48PM My gf (20F) and I (20M) don't have much sex and she said that it is because I mention and talking about sex too much. In my mind, I'm trying to tell her that it's important for me, but I think it just pressures her into having it. If I understood the reason why mentioning or talking about it is a turn off it would be much easier for me not to talk about it. Can someone explain this to me. Thank you.

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First off, I [f,19] know its not the point of fwb to have a deep emotional connection! I don't want something like that, I'm just having fun. However, I need at least basic conversation & some emotional/mental stimulation to not feel like a cumsock. My fwb doesn't ever ask me about my life, and we barely have any casual conversation. I just find it weird compared to other situations I've been in? I don't know how to have a "talk" with him because we're so casual. And I don't want to find a new fwb because his dick game IS great. Or am I just playing with fire wanting this connection? Submitted April 19, 2020 at 11:54PM First off, I [f,19] know its not the point of fwb to have a deep emotional connection! I don't want something like that, I'm just having fun. However, I need at least basic conversation & some emotional/mental stimulation to not feel like a cumsock. My fwb doesn't ever ask me about my life, and we barely ha

Recently I was thinking about my sexual life with my ex. While we were hooking up, I would leave my panties on and he would thrust over top of them - simulating sex. I was okay with it because he wasn’t penetrating me. However, there were times when it felt like he was inside me, but I thought it couldn’t be because my underwear is still there. Well it turns out he was inside me even though I told him I didn’t want that. Submitted April 20, 2020 at 12:01AM Recently I was thinking about my sexual life with my ex. While we were hooking up, I would leave my panties on and he would thrust over top of them - simulating sex. I was okay with it because he wasn’t penetrating me.However, there were times when it felt like he was inside me, but I thought it couldn’t be because my underwear is still there. Well it turns out he was inside me even though I told him I didn’t want that.

Me and my ex broke up but on good terms, we're still in contact and hang out but nothing more. Is it possible to go to a fwb relationship? Submitted April 20, 2020 at 12:12AM Me and my ex broke up but on good terms, we're still in contact and hang out but nothing more. Is it possible to go to a fwb relationship?

Fellow redditors, I’m scared about putting a IUD on my uterus... Is it worth it? I just want to put it so I don’t get pregnant in the near future and I would love to have sex with my partner without a condom (as a woman, sex also feels a lot better without it). But as I started to search more, I’m getting quite scared to go through with it. Should I get it on or nah? Please explain Submitted April 20, 2020 at 12:12AM Fellow redditors, I’m scared about putting a IUD on my uterus... Is it worth it? I just want to put it so I don’t get pregnant in the near future and I would love to have sex with my partner without a condom (as a woman, sex also feels a lot better without it). But as I started to search more, I’m getting quite scared to go through with it. Should I get it on or nah? Please explain

Me and my virgin girlfriend want to have sex unprotected, since she's on birth control (We do have condoms). Would a little bit of precum get her pregnant? (I plan on pulling out either way) Submitted April 20, 2020 at 12:13AM Me and my virgin girlfriend want to have sex unprotected, since she's on birth control (We do have condoms).Would a little bit of precum get her pregnant? (I plan on pulling out either way)

Me and my husband make a video every Christmas and on his birthday every year. (which is in 2 weeks) It's for our personal collection and we don't sell anything. We've made at least 20 of them and we're looking for new legitimate ideas. If you could make your own, what would be your scenario? Outfits? Ideas? Almost anything is on the table. (nothing degrading) Submitted April 20, 2020 at 12:19AM Me and my husband make a video every Christmas and on his birthday every year. (which is in 2 weeks) It's for our personal collection and we don't sell anything. We've made at least 20 of them and we're looking for new legitimate ideas. If you could make your own, what would be your scenario? Outfits? Ideas? Almost anything is on the table. (nothing degrading)

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So my husband and I are young (both 23, about to be 24) and have been married a little over a year. We get along well for the most part. Our more frequent fights have to do with finances and responsibilities in the home... I graduated college in 2018 and my husband is still in school, this semester was his first year at university and he will graduate in the next 2 years (he did his undergrad at a community college). My husband worked at small restaurant in town (before quarantine) but I pushed him to start looking for a job that would be more suitable to his criminal justice degree. He ended up quitting his job without finding a new one, then told me it was essentially my fault he was without work because I suggested he look for a new job though I never actually told him to quit. I am a full time teacher and have been working completely online. During quarantine, he has increasingly been spending time hanging out with friends, playing video games, and encouraging people to spend the