Posts

Showing posts from December 6, 2022

/u/SaveMySelfHarmWife on Is me being ace the reason I can’t fathom why people cheat?

ABSOLUTELY! But it is complicated. I'm reciprosexual (I can have sex, but only when my partner shows sexual attraction first) . While I could never cheat, I understand the urges people feel, since I temporarily stop being asexual just when my wife shows sexual attraction toward me. A huge factor that people don't address is that we don't separate "sexuality" from a "non-sexual intimate physical relationship". Apples and oranges, yet we group them together! In my case, being reciprosexual limits my sexuality, but I always feel a need for cuddling and such, the non-sexual parts of the physical relationship. Many people who cheat aren't looking for sex. They might have it, enjoying the "dopamine rush", but that wasn't the point. They're looking for the intimacy that has faded away (or never existed) in their relationship, or "validation". In many cases, sex doesn't even happen, but they are intimate in other ways (i...

/u/Narwhal_Songs on Learned how to crochet and had to make this

Amazing hat 🤍 December 07, 2022 at 12:15AM

/u/Narwhal_Songs on dungarees (or overalls...) with ace pride patch, purple scarf and longsleeve

Love these combined 💗 looks great and happy Pride December 07, 2022 at 12:14AM

Rarely talk, but have fun in person

Not sure where to go with this. I honestly feel like I’m just buying this girls time. What’s the point in getting to know someone and spend time with someone for one night every week or two weeks 😒 Submitted December 07, 2022 at 12:09AM Not sure where to go with this. I honestly feel like I’m just buying this girls time. What’s the point in getting to know someone and spend time with someone for one night every week or two weeks 😒

Falling asleep to phone calls

Me(26) and the girl(25) I'm seeing currently have now for the last three days fell asleep during phone calls. Once she was pissed off because I woke her up with something I said while dreaming. Kinda confused, tho, because we're casually dating and did not recently have made out or slept together. Bt we had two nights a few months ago. Does that shit mean anything? I've had quite a bit casual sex, but never did stuff like this in my previous relationship. Is she putting me in the friendzone? Submitted December 07, 2022 at 12:10AM Me(26) and the girl(25) I'm seeing currently have now for the last three days fell asleep during phone calls. Once she was pissed off because I woke her up with something I said while dreaming. Kinda confused, tho, because we're casually dating and did not recently have made out or slept together. Bt we had two nights a few months ago. Does that shit mean anything? I've had quite a bit casual sex, but never did stuff like this in...

How important is texting in your opinion?

How important is texting to you? Just looking for opinions. How important is texting to you? Especially in the early stages of a relationship / getting to know each other. Does it matter to you if the other person doesn’t text all day? Will be active on social media, but not text until late in the day or evening / night. Submitted December 07, 2022 at 12:17AM How important is texting to you?Just looking for opinions.How important is texting to you? Especially in the early stages of a relationship / getting to know each other.Does it matter to you if the other person doesn’t text all day? Will be active on social media, but not text until late in the day or evening / night.