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/u/Koolmees99 on Struggling with dating

Not so sure about the other replies you got.... a bit strange advice. Also not really answering your question. First things first, I think posting here is fine. You explained very well why you might be interested in this community. Yes, relationships between asexuals and allosexuals (people who do experience sexual attraction) occur, there are many stories on this subreddit about them. They require clear communication so the allosexual partner's needs are met within the limits of the asexual person's boundaries. Sometimes the needs are too incompatible, leading to the allo partner feeling undesired/unloved and the ace partner feeling guilty or pressured. I remember reading a post about a guy who loved giving sexual pleasure to his wife, but never piv and he didn't like receiving sexual pleasure from her either. So these are the kinds of compromises that ace/allo partners make. You just show love and desire in different ways Alright 😂 I'll help you along. The ac