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I know this is long, but bear with me cause I’m stuck and need HELP lol

I (24F) met this guy (23M) on tinder last year. We went on two dates and the third didn’t work out, then we stopped talking shortly after. Fast forward to mid August of this year, he reached out and we slowly started talking again. He apologized for his past behavior and the way he treated me (cuz he wasn’t the nicest towards me) and he was going through some stuff at the time. Back…during that year; we still had each other on social media and he’d comment on my stories and i was doing the same. According to him, i was his angel cause i was helping him without knowing and motivating him to keep going. And if he ever wanted to talk..anytime to vent, I’m here. So..basically, I’d check up on him during that time. Anyways; we couldn’t meet until September, cause he was out of the state with his family and then a hurricane hit. However; during that time, we were talking, texting and video calling…almost everyday. During that time, I helped him with his severe depression and things that t

Became Inebriated on First Date, Want to Apologize/Reconnect

We met on Bumble about a week ago and I felt like I connected with her quick. She has fantastic hobbies and is really positive and I think she's extremely cute. We met up at a bar around 7pm and I got there before her. I had a drink and then when she arrived I had another. Long story short, it hit my empty stomach hard and by 10pm, I recalled the date ending but I don't remember how it proceeded to end. I text her that same night saying I had a wonderful time. I never received a response back. Text her again yesterday asking if she wanted to meet up for coffee (since we both love it and work less than a mile from each other) and still no response. I'm so embarrassed since this never happens to me and all I can think of is how much I blew it. Is there anyway to salvage this? I've thought about texting her again later this week to see if she wants another date this weekend. I've also thought of just sending her an apology text describing everything I wrote here an

I have a dumb question

okay so, my gf of 2 and half years broke up with me a week ago. Been goin through it. Anyway, she was goth, played video games, liked metal, was sweet, had her fair share of issues, but I loved her. Is there any shred of chance I find that again? Idk if its just where I live but I stg I have seen no one else even close to fitting this bill. Submitted November 16, 2021 at 01:12AM okay so, my gf of 2 and half years broke up with me a week ago. Been goin through it. Anyway, she was goth, played video games, liked metal, was sweet, had her fair share of issues, but I loved her.Is there any shred of chance I find that again? Idk if its just where I live but I stg I have seen no one else even close to fitting this bill.

is she into me

This girl kept asking me to go to a rave with her, and when i finally went she was really nice and touchy,giving me some shoulder rubs,and a couple of hugs, but after the rave she went back to normal if that makes any sense. Should i have made a move, or am i reading into it a little too much. Submitted November 16, 2021 at 01:12AM This girl kept asking me to go to a rave with her, and when i finally went she was really nice and touchy,giving me some shoulder rubs,and a couple of hugs, but after the rave she went back to normal if that makes any sense. Should i have made a move, or am i reading into it a little too much.

So some guys can't orgasm more than once per session?

I recently learnt that some guys tend to lose the ability or desire to orgasm again after orgasming once? I'm a guy, in my 20's, and since I was a kid I've always been able to orgasm in succession. I'm interested to hear from people who can also do this, and also from people who can't? When did you realise some people were the opposite to you? What does it feel like to orgasm and then no longer be interested in sex? For me, this is the peak of my horniness and I want to continue at least a few more times, so I can't imagine anything different to that. How does it differ when masturbating? Submitted November 16, 2021 at 12:48AM I recently learnt that some guys tend to lose the ability or desire to orgasm again after orgasming once?I'm a guy, in my 20's, and since I was a kid I've always been able to orgasm in succession. I'm interested to hear from people who can also do this, and also from people who can't? When did you realise some

How to give better head?

He says I’m great, but will want me to go slow and suck super “tight”. To me, it’s like I can’t possibly go tighter with my mouth. At that point is like I can’t breathe because I’m sucking at the air inwards…. And then I’m also trying to put my tongue over my bottom teeth and curl my front lip over my front teeth to prevent any teeth grating lol. And then I’ll try to use my hand and then he gets into it and starts thrusting which messes with my rhythm. He says he gives me an A+ but he wants to cum from head and I feel bad that I haven’t 😢 Hes way more experienced in his mid thirties and I’m 22… I feel like maybe I’m bad at head but I love doing it😔 Submitted November 16, 2021 at 12:51AM He says I’m great, but will want me to go slow and suck super “tight”. To me, it’s like I can’t possibly go tighter with my mouth. At that point is like I can’t breathe because I’m sucking at the air inwards…. And then I’m also trying to put my tongue over my bottom teeth and curl my front li

How to approach the wife on letting her explore other options....

My wife and I have been together since we were teenagers, we are in our 50's now. I was her 1st and only sex partner. We have had some rough relationship years in the past....like a decade worth. Basically because a perceived slight against me, I ignored and neglected her for 10-15 years. I really can't believe she didn't leave me or cheat on me. She recently made an off hand comment that while she would never cheat, she understood how it could happen. That really stung and I deserved it. Our life the last few years has been pretty awesome. We communicate a lot better, we've talked out a lot of our past issues and look forward to spending time together. The only thing that is off right now is our sex life. I am ready to go daily , but medical issues have hurt my performance. She still orgasms multiple times but its mostly from oral and minimal ic. Her sex drive is also slowing down as it does with a lot of women that hit her age that experience hot flashes and such. B

(15F) I love masturbating at school?

Idk what it is about it but I’m turned on way more by masturbating at school? Usually in the washrooms at lunch. Is this weird? Submitted November 16, 2021 at 12:57AM Idk what it is about it but I’m turned on way more by masturbating at school? Usually in the washrooms at lunch. Is this weird?

Why doesn’t he initiate?

Me and my husband have been married about a year and this are generally great. We have sex about once a week and while he’s much more vanilla than I am he’s very considerate in bed. But the problem is.. it feels like it’s just me that initiates. I ask almost every time and it just feels draining and unsexy. I want him to desire me like I want him. The other day before work I put on some lingerie and told him he could look forward to it when he got home. When he got home he forgot and went to game and relax. He doesn’t do a physically demanding or draining job, in fact he likes it. But it hurts that he seems to forget things like that, even when I had suggested making love a few hours before he got back. Any advice on how to make him want me more? It just makes me feel unsexy. Submitted November 16, 2021 at 12:59AM Me and my husband have been married about a year and this are generally great. We have sex about once a week and while he’s much more vanilla than I am he’s very consi

are these examples of Flirting?

-A girl said she liked my farmers tan, and then pointed her legs and hips where she has tanlines, was this flirting or innocent conversation? -She also was lightly tapping my shins with her shoes later when we were sitting down close to each other in a slight rocking motion in her chair? Could this be flirting too? Submitted November 16, 2021 at 12:03AM -A girl said she liked my farmers tan, and then pointed her legs and hips where she has tanlines, was this flirting or innocent conversation?-She also was lightly tapping my shins with her shoes later when we were sitting down close to each other in a slight rocking motion in her chair? Could this be flirting too?

Is not calling a red flag?

I(18f) have asked this guy(19m) twice to call and both times he has brushed it off in a weird way. I just want to call because I’ve heard no voice memos from him or snaps or ft or calls. And I met him a tinder. Is think it’s kinda weird considering we have been talking for about a month and are finally gonna meet in person. But I feel like before I do calling would make sense. I don’t really think he’s a catfish but it’s just a lil off putting. How do I ask or do I say it’s a safety think or what do I say so he actually does it? Submitted November 16, 2021 at 12:13AM I(18f) have asked this guy(19m) twice to call and both times he has brushed it off in a weird way. I just want to call because I’ve heard no voice memos from him or snaps or ft or calls. And I met him a tinder. Is think it’s kinda weird considering we have been talking for about a month and are finally gonna meet in person. But I feel like before I do calling would make sense. I don’t really think he’s a catfish but

I despise relationships/dating in general [26,M]

I’ve been getting weird remarks recently from friends and acquaintances about how it is awkward and worrisome that I, a 26 year old male, hate dating/relationships/sex. I’ve never dated before and I’ve never been in a relationship or had sex. I just find it stupid in general and I was wondering if this is a normal way of thinking or is this a cause for concern? Submitted November 16, 2021 at 12:14AM I’ve been getting weird remarks recently from friends and acquaintances about how it is awkward and worrisome that I, a 26 year old male, hate dating/relationships/sex. I’ve never dated before and I’ve never been in a relationship or had sex. I just find it stupid in general and I was wondering if this is a normal way of thinking or is this a cause for concern?

Why do they intentionally not view my stories?

A guy I’ve been talking to on the regular started leaving me on read. He was SO interested & then out of the blue cut me off. I tried subtly asking but he curved it. He basically breadcrumbs me now. However, he used to watch my snapchat & instagram stories all the time. He definitely doesn’t like my posts anymore. But, why is he intentionally not viewing my story? I feel like it takes more effort to purposely not view than to view it. If nothing happened between us I don’t get it. He follows less than 200 people so I know it’s not that mine is lost in the mix. Even if it is the case, snapchat stories are pretty hard to miss. He will even post stories on instagram & snapchat while I have one going as well. I’ll view his, but he doesn’t dare view mine. I don’t get it at ALL. He even has me on his private story on snapchat, yet he won’t view mine. Like, why put in effort to not view mine? Why doesn’t he just unadd me or unfollow me instead?? Submitted November 16, 2021 at

Does she realise it's a date?

Hey so I'm a guy 22 who's interested in a girl 20. We've spoken a few times in person these past 2-3 weeks, usually at uni socials. She makes a lot of eye contact and laughs at everything I say, but will never initiate. She seems very nervous, often stands alone, and seems happy to talk whenever I approach. Anyway, I texted asking if she wanted to come with me to a pub quiz. She said it sounds great and that she'd love to, but she won't be back until the 22nd. So I replied saying to let me know if she wants to do anything when she's back. She responded saying sure, let me know if you find any other fun events. This left me wondering whether she actually realised I asked her on a date. I have my suspicions that she might be gay too. Am I overthinking this? Or do I need to explicitly say "date" next time I ask? I can't tell whether she realises I'm interested or whether she's just assuming I'm friendly. Submitted November 16, 2021

Loudly masturbating while high

I am extremely high, and I think I got too into it to where my roommates could hear. I heard them slamming things and I realized too late that that’s them politely signaling to stop. I don’t know how to show my face again, please help Submitted November 15, 2021 at 11:54PM I am extremely high, and I think I got too into it to where my roommates could hear. I heard them slamming things and I realized too late that that’s them politely signaling to stop.I don’t know how to show my face again, please help

Friends with Benefits

I have this friend who I really like and she is having a hard time financially, as a joke I offered to help her, I said I would give her $500, if she would come and have sex with me, which she did the very next day. We're still friends but she is having trouble with the idea because she associates money and sex as ( I don't know I guess prostitution ). I don't think of it like that, we're both adults, were getting what we, sexual, and I'm helping her financially, it seems like a win win. But the other day we were talking about her once thinking about becoming a dancer, and I told her I remember her saying that and I was too scared to tell her I'd give her $500 for a dance. So now she wants to stop having sex and have me give her 500 for a ( lap ) dance. I don't think I can deal with the lap dance, face to face. The lap dance to me seem more degrading than sex. But obviously the sex must weight more on her mind. What are your thoughts? Submitted November

Why do I never feel sexually satisfied/done even after I orgasm?

I am F24 and I am confused why I never feel like I am 'finished' or fully satisfied. Whether with a partner or alone, I can reach up to maybe 7/8 orgasms in a row with no break and I still don't feel like I've had enough, but I'm too physically exhausted to do any more after a certain point. It basically leads to constant sexual frustration and I never stop thinking about it because I never feel like I can get it out of my system, even though I must have around 12-16 orgasms a day on average. I've been this way as long as I remember (started masturbating when I was 7) and I'm just wondering if there is anyone else here who experiences this?? Submitted November 15, 2021 at 11:56PM I am F24 and I am confused why I never feel like I am 'finished' or fully satisfied. Whether with a partner or alone, I can reach up to maybe 7/8 orgasms in a row with no break and I still don't feel like I've had enough, but I'm too physically exhausted t

Time of the month question

For the females, do you find it wrong for the man to ask for a blwjob when its the time of the month? Submitted November 15, 2021 at 11:58PM For the females, do you find it wrong for the man to ask for a blwjob when its the time of the month?

Is eating a girl out feminine

I've always loved eating pussy. I'll do it for a long time eat the ass fingers rotate I'll go all out. I do it because I enjoy it. Really turns me on. I like feeling like I'm giving powerful orgasms. I had a ex that deffintly enjoyed it but asked if I do it because I worshiped her. I guess I don't really know what she meant. Probably took it the wrong way Submitted November 15, 2021 at 11:58PM I've always loved eating pussy. I'll do it for a long time eat the ass fingers rotate I'll go all out. I do it because I enjoy it. Really turns me on. I like feeling like I'm giving powerful orgasms. I had a ex that deffintly enjoyed it but asked if I do it because I worshiped her. I guess I don't really know what she meant. Probably took it the wrong way