So I'm very happily married... But we recently talked about "things we haven't done yet". I've been a little reluctant to bring I up bc I don't know what she would say. Im into anal play. I've done it a lot with toys before marriage. It doesn't even have to be pegging. I just think it feels GGGRREEAAATTTT when I climax with something in me. I haven't since marriage but I think she wants to spark something up with something new. I guess I'm asking how can I bring it up without freaking her out. I'm thinking to tell her I've played with myself back there. If she isn't into pegging, at least she can let me put something in while do our thing? She doesn't have to be involved, but just okay that I like I guess? (and if she wants to be more involved.... Then wowee) lol. Anyone active on this with their partner? How did you talk about it or go about it? Submitted October 03, 2019 at 11:37PM So I'm very happily married....

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I’m in the south, so people are more traditional than not... I guess I’m into more rough dom/sub stuff. Girls dont like to jump into that straight away in my experience. Haha i guess I’m spending too much time on the internet 😂, but the whole DDLG thing is quite a turn on (not the whole lifestyle, just sexually). Normal tinder dates are kinda boring i guess. It’s getting pretty exhausting going through the motions of pickup line —> small talk —> date—> sexual interaction if it happens. Are people more adventurous than I assume, and I just haven’t explored enough? I really don’t date that much, so it very likely could just be that I need to get out more lolol Submitted October 03, 2019 at 11:48PM I’m in the south, so people are more traditional than not...I guess I’m into more rough dom/sub stuff. Girls dont like to jump into that straight away in my experience. Haha i guess I’m spending too much time on the internet 😂, but the whole DDLG thing is quite a turn on (no...

I (f28) am wondering how much orgasms differ for people! We all know the type of orgasms porn depicts but we also know they aren’t always the realistic. How does your body respond? How do you vocally respond? Submitted October 03, 2019 at 11:48PM I (f28) am wondering how much orgasms differ for people! We all know the type of orgasms porn depicts but we also know they aren’t always the realistic.How does your body respond? How do you vocally respond?

If my experience is like a rollercoaster, I get to this point where I feel incredible (nearing the top or at the top) but then it disappears really fast (falling backward down the track instead of in front) & doesn’t get that high again. So in my experience it’s all I know as an orgasm as it’s the most intense pleasure I’ve ever felt but I also don’t have this extreme release after or rush (🎢)? Am I missing something or has it happened & this is just the way it is for me? I feel satisfied & good afterward but I just can’t tell as most women seem to have this speechless experience that I feel like I can’t tell if I’m having it or not. & I know they say you’ll know if you’re having it but you can’t say that because every body orgasms differently & im a late bloomer with this stuff so who knows. Submitted October 03, 2019 at 11:48PM If my experience is like a rollercoaster, I get to this point where I feel incredible (nearing the top or at the top) but then it ...

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Not a sex related query but more a thought on a show with sex in it. Around 2010-11, there was a lesbian drama on UK tv called lip service. It followed the lives of a group of lesbian friends and their relationship problems. It was meh and the sex scenes were so so. Two only really stick out in my mind, the strap on in the first series and a scene in the final episode with two of them on the living room floor. The show was cancelled with no clear reason but I see something there, why not remake the show with pornstars? Yes some of the acting might be corny but the sex scenes may have more realism to them. Imagine getting the likes of Asa Akira, Brandi Love, Riley Reid, April Flores, etc in the same room?! Give them a new location, tweak some characteristics and bam! Lip Service. Submitted October 03, 2019 at 11:52PM Not a sex related query but more a thought on a show with sex in it.Around 2010-11, there was a lesbian drama on UK tv called lip service. It followed the lives of...

My girlfried is pretty shy in bed, (which has also to do with medical problems with her vagina, but those are mostly sorted out in the meantime, but she's still afraid that it hurts) so she does not really want to try anything new. I mean, i'm sure she wants, but in the last moment she then refuses... Generally speaking, not much more than missionary and sometimes doggy.... So i came up with the idea to gift her an "special" advent calendar (for those who don't know this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Advent_calendar ") this year in December. I plan to have some kind of "challenge" every day for her, some of them only for her pleasure, some of them to get her slightly out of her comfort zone. I came up already with some ideas what to put behind the windows (blowjob without hands, some more positions to try, cumming on her, and one idea even involves an anal plug;-) but its really hard to fill 24 windows. So my question(especially to girls who can p...

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My (19f) twin sister and I have the same group of friends. My sister found her way in a little after I did (about 6 months). We all usually hangout together but they don’t text me anymore about plans or hanging out, only her. They never “invite” me, it’s always my sister saying “hey, you want to come out with us later?”. It’s starting to cut deep because I made the initial connection (I guess you could call it) with them, and then she met them and overtime we all became close. Half the time I’m not invited out and this is because I’m either always with my boyfriend or they think I will be with him. I wouldn’t make plans with him if I knew we would be hanging out but I’m never told. They have my phone number, social media, and never contact me anymore. They all have a group chat without me now. I met all of them through work (sister works at the same place I do) and at work everything is fine but the second we clock out I never hear from them. In a way I feel like my friends have rep...

Already tried r/teenrelationships but they weren't much help ​ So I (17M) like this girl (16/17F?) at my school, but the thing is we don't even know each. What I mean by that is that we don't even have any classes together, she doesn't know my name but I think I know hers. The only time I see her is in the hallways. I really want to talk to her but I'm a bit shy and don't know how to, especially since we've never even talked and she has no idea who I am. One thing I know is her instagram profile, should I try to talk to her through that? Thanks in advance guys ​ tl;dr I want to get to know a girl but we know nothing about each other. Submitted October 03, 2019 at 11:53PM Already tried r/teenrelationships but they weren't much help​So I (17M) like this girl (16/17F?) at my school, but the thing is we don't even know each. What I mean by that is that we don't even have any classes together, she doesn't know my name but I think I kno...

I (20F) have panic attacks whenever my boyfriend (20M) and I start to have sex. I have a very limited sexual history. Just oral sex with an ex, but even then, I would get in my head and start to freak out. I would push my ex away and would jump when they tried to finger me. I loved them and WANTED to have sex. It was like I couldn’t. My boyfriend and I dated years ago, broke up and recently got back together after we graduated high school. We have lots of emotional history; we grew up together. I love him so much. I frustrate myself. When we tried to have sex the last time he was in town (he was out of the country for a year and a half) my hands would get numb, my body felt heavy and I started to shake. I was freaking out. I have no history of sexual trauma. I don’t know what’s wrong. Why can’t I just have sex? It’s like I stop myself. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t worried that it’s going to hurt. I just don’t think that’s why I’m stopping myself. Where do I start? How do I see...

So I have seen some similar posts on couples, of who have gone through this together, but not parents and granparents. I have know my boyfriend's grandfather (call him Dave) for over 5 years now, as my first time meeting his family was at Dave's 80th birthday party. Earlier this year Dave's wife died suddenly after a fall, and this has devastated the family. This was around the time I was about to take my final university exams so I feel a lot of guilt about being unable to be there for my boyfriend, who had been very close to his grandma and the rest of the family. Dave had been having some pain in his shoulder which he had put to a dislocated shoulder but then a few weeks ago he had a scan which showed he had a lump in his neck. Upon further investigation he was found to have metastasised cancerous lumps all across his body. He was hospitalised and now has come to live with bf's mother. His condition has only suddenly worsened and I know that it greatly pains my b...

Throw away account and sorry if the post gets a bit long. Going back 2 years I have met this girl, let's call her Eva, while on an overseas exchange. We had amazing moments for 6 months before I come back to my home country. In the start of our relationship, the only red flag I have noticed was her very explosive and passionate personality, which led to some fights and aggressiveness towards me and my family also. I have always listened that she was sorry and that she would change this behaviour and that it was too hard for her to control her anger. I came back to my home country and for 6 months we had a lot of quarrels. I have listened terrible and offensive things about me and my family, including a baby. And I have also supported many break-ups of minutes or hours, with me feeling awful and crawling back to her (after I stopped, and she would come back asking sorry). We have always discussed about those problems and the results were always let’s be sorry and change some things...

Thank you. You've helped answer the last remaining questions I had about myself. I really, really appreciate you answering. October 04, 2019 at 12:16AM

Okay, thank you a lot :) October 04, 2019 at 12:14AM

Honestly, no one knows as much as you do about your situation and no one can make this choice except you, but I'm in support. You can just mention something real quick and it may grow your friendship with her by making her feel supported in her LGBTQ life... or bomb in your face and she's an aphobic sack of potatoes. Either way, you can either be closer to her or know that she's not worth being close to October 04, 2019 at 12:13AM

Happy my meme opened that door for ya! Lmao October 04, 2019 at 12:06AM

Like I actually sometimes enjoy sexual thoughts and enjoy pornography but I have no desire to actually act on those thoughts and I don’t want to actually be in the scenarios being depicted in porn. But then the Demisexual part comes in to where if I develop a close connection with someone, it’s possible, but not guaranteed, that I could want to engage in sexual activity with that specific person. October 04, 2019 at 12:04AM

Oh my god. There’s a word for it. I’m not alone. Just... thank you. October 04, 2019 at 12:01AM

I like a guy and we've been having a lot of moments for the past month or so. We're not dating but I think we both know something's going on between the two of us. Yesterday I was studying at the faculty and he (he has a different schedule than me and he had class) came into the study room just to distract me. He was supposed to be in class but he said the teacher wasn't explaining so he was going to "distract" me while I tried to study. He is in fifth year so he explained to me a few things I didn't understand and then we just started talking about random stuff. He grabbed a chair and sat very very close to me and then proceeded to tell me he loved my accent (I'm Peruvian but I live in Argentina and he's from Argentina and our accents are VERY different), then started touching my bracelet and asked if it could be taken off (which is obvious because it has a little lock thingy) and THEN he asked me if I was wearing a new necklace because the day ...

So here's what's up. A few years ago, me and this girl (let's name her Kat) got really close. I started to like her, but unfortunately she didn't feel the same way. I was completely head over heels for this girl, and it really destroyed me when she didn't like me. I decided that for the sake of my mental health, it would be best for me to block her out of my life for a while (she did some stupid stuff which made it a lot more reasonable). Time passes, and we are on our separate paths. Even though we still were around each other, we didn't even bother to acknowledge each other's existence. Eventually (though it took a while), I got over her and was looking at other women. She was also looking at other guys, but she had a lot of problems with them. She finally ended up getting with this one dude (let's call him Roger). It didn't matter to me because I had my own stuff to worry about, thank god. We slowly started to be okay again. We basically dismiss...

I have been thinking over these past several days about myself and my quest for love. And I have found the strength to tell myself that I deserve to find love, that I am worthy of love, that I am not a hopeless loser and that I shall triumph over all the odds. I have had to remind myself what an amazing person I am. I am talented, intelligent, confident and ambitious. I am gentlemanly, polite, sophisticated, have an amazing taste in music and I am decent at baking. I am well-spoken and eloquent. I have very good hygiene and grooming, I am a hard worker. I am charismatic. I have a lot to offer to anyone who considers being with me. I deserve to have what I want. I know what I'm looking for and I won't settle for less. I deserve a love that is reciprocated, I deserve hugs and kisses, I deserve candle-lit romantic dinners, I deserve a companion to talk to about life...I deserve all that. But I will not lose my self-respect in my bid to find love. I will maintain my dignity. I ...