Here's a story... No idea if this girl actually likes me or not.

So here's what's up. A few years ago, me and this girl (let's name her Kat) got really close. I started to like her, but unfortunately she didn't feel the same way. I was completely head over heels for this girl, and it really destroyed me when she didn't like me. I decided that for the sake of my mental health, it would be best for me to block her out of my life for a while (she did some stupid stuff which made it a lot more reasonable).

Time passes, and we are on our separate paths. Even though we still were around each other, we didn't even bother to acknowledge each other's existence. Eventually (though it took a while), I got over her and was looking at other women. She was also looking at other guys, but she had a lot of problems with them. She finally ended up getting with this one dude (let's call him Roger). It didn't matter to me because I had my own stuff to worry about, thank god. We slowly started to be okay again. We basically dismissed everything as water under the bridge and were civil with each other.

Fast forward to around this time. She has been getting really close to me. And she has been putting a lot more effort in than me. The thing with the first attempt was that I was the one putting in all the effort. She is definitely not acting how she used to. She's the one who tends to text first. She's the one who tries to initiate conversations. Not me. I wanted to keep it acquaintance level simply because I didn't know what to really do.

She decided to hint to me that she would be breaking up with Roger soon because they weren't working out. It was just very random and uncalled for. She would want me to walk her to her car just because (if you guys are wondering why we saw each other so much, it's because we were in a certain activity together). It was just very bizarre to me.

Eventually, she did break up with Roger, and she told me immediately, and I was like ",,, okay...". It was just very uncalled for and unexpected. We weren't TOO close anymore. It seemed like she was pushing to get closer a lot more than I was.

After all that, however, me and her really started to get closer again. We have had text conversations that would last for maybe a full week (we would constantly talk throughout the day, every day, and would never dismiss the conversation). She always would seem to push to continue a conversation, when I would try the opposite. For example, I'd respond with something bland like "lol" and she'd respond with like some random emoji to intrigue me or something. We would flirt a lot, and we would talk very sexually too. She is overtly sexual (I mean I'm not complainin but it's just bizarre after everything). She is very physical with me when we talk, for example she would brush her hand on my shoulder or grab my arm while she would talk to me, or punch me in the arm when i said something funny or stupid... ALSO she laughs at literally every single thing I say. She always tries to do something bold and/or stupid to get my attention, just to see my reaction. Point is, we have been really close and she seems to be throwing a lot of signals, but I'm just not entirely sure. What do you guys think?

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(Sorry this was very long)

Submitted October 03, 2019 at 11:54PM

So here's what's up. A few years ago, me and this girl (let's name her Kat) got really close. I started to like her, but unfortunately she didn't feel the same way. I was completely head over heels for this girl, and it really destroyed me when she didn't like me. I decided that for the sake of my mental health, it would be best for me to block her out of my life for a while (she did some stupid stuff which made it a lot more reasonable).Time passes, and we are on our separate paths. Even though we still were around each other, we didn't even bother to acknowledge each other's existence. Eventually (though it took a while), I got over her and was looking at other women. She was also looking at other guys, but she had a lot of problems with them. She finally ended up getting with this one dude (let's call him Roger). It didn't matter to me because I had my own stuff to worry about, thank god. We slowly started to be okay again. We basically dismissed everything as water under the bridge and were civil with each other.Fast forward to around this time. She has been getting really close to me. And she has been putting a lot more effort in than me. The thing with the first attempt was that I was the one putting in all the effort. She is definitely not acting how she used to. She's the one who tends to text first. She's the one who tries to initiate conversations. Not me. I wanted to keep it acquaintance level simply because I didn't know what to really do.She decided to hint to me that she would be breaking up with Roger soon because they weren't working out. It was just very random and uncalled for. She would want me to walk her to her car just because (if you guys are wondering why we saw each other so much, it's because we were in a certain activity together). It was just very bizarre to me.Eventually, she did break up with Roger, and she told me immediately, and I was like ",,, okay...". It was just very uncalled for and unexpected. We weren't TOO close anymore. It seemed like she was pushing to get closer a lot more than I was.After all that, however, me and her really started to get closer again. We have had text conversations that would last for maybe a full week (we would constantly talk throughout the day, every day, and would never dismiss the conversation). She always would seem to push to continue a conversation, when I would try the opposite. For example, I'd respond with something bland like "lol" and she'd respond with like some random emoji to intrigue me or something. We would flirt a lot, and we would talk very sexually too. She is overtly sexual (I mean I'm not complainin but it's just bizarre after everything). She is very physical with me when we talk, for example she would brush her hand on my shoulder or grab my arm while she would talk to me, or punch me in the arm when i said something funny or stupid... ALSO she laughs at literally every single thing I say. She always tries to do something bold and/or stupid to get my attention, just to see my reaction. Point is, we have been really close and she seems to be throwing a lot of signals, but I'm just not entirely sure. What do you guys think?​(Sorry this was very long)