No. Plenty of asexuals have sex and even love it. We just have little to no sexual attraction toward any gender. June 27, 2022 at 01:19AM

My ex (20M) and I (20M) broke up this past winter because he felt like he couldn’t provide what he needed in the relationship. Essentially it boiled down to him thinking I was better off without him; he had low self-esteem, and thought I was upset because he couldn’t hang out much due to his crazy school / work schedule. He also had pressure from his parents, whom he was closeted to. Anyways, it was really difficult for both of us. We were very in love, and for me, I didn’t really think it had to end, but of course it wasn’t my decision to make. We talked for a few weeks, then went quiet for a couple months. Up until about a month ago, we texted maybe once every few weeks, usually I initiated contact. But then a month ago he started talking to me again; asking how I am, what I’m up to, how the family is. He then kind of rambled on (in text) saying how he really missed me, and he’s “tortured” by the thought of me / missing “us”, and he feels so guilty for what happened. And he wishes...

I just don't get it. It's something I hardly think about. Just an activity I associate with another group. Generally it doesn't occur to me to think about Hanukka, or Kwanzaa, or Ramadan, or World Cup [something] unless I see a picture or article that diverts my attention to it. Then I'm no more than very mildly curious: " it's a big deal to some people" kind of way, and then go back to thinking about getting caught up with chores, or whatever. Ok, maybe a teeny exaggeration to make my point, which is that I almost never think about the sex act unbidden. I am however, intrigued about the psychological angle of different orientations. Even when I'm pondering this issue, I just don't imagine people " doing it". I'm not excited by it, nor am I repelled by it. It's just not in my head space. I can't even imagine going around with sexual thoughts swirling around in one's mind. How do people like that drive without getting i...

me tbh. just a straight dude who doesn't like sex. very much pro-lgbt+ though. June 27, 2022 at 12:26AM

for starters I am a 22 year old F, i recently just got out of a 2 year relationship and im so conflicted and stuck. so on one hand i feel guilty for leaving my ex they’re still so in love with me and it hurts to know that im making them feel this way but i don’t feel guilty enough to get back with them. on the next hand i have been going on dates and actually living my best life tbh but now i have this boy begging to be my boyfriend and i keep saying i’ll think about it but now im meeting all his family and he’s introducing me as his girlfriend but a part of me feels like i just got single after 2 years why do we have to rush into things?? whats should i do ?? Submitted June 27, 2022 at 12:08AM for starters I am a 22 year old F, i recently just got out of a 2 year relationship and im so conflicted and stuck. so on one hand i feel guilty for leaving my ex they’re still so in love with me and it hurts to know that im making them feel this way but i don’t feel guilty enough to get ...

Title. I’m a black man and it’s just really unfortunate being apart of the demographic of men that women by-in-large tend to be afraid of. Sometimes I wish I was white or at the very least appeared less black (sorry if that offends anyone lmao). Submitted June 27, 2022 at 12:12AM Title. I’m a black man and it’s just really unfortunate being apart of the demographic of men that women by-in-large tend to be afraid of.Sometimes I wish I was white or at the very least appeared less black (sorry if that offends anyone lmao).