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Places to meet women

Any places to meet attractive women besides bars and clubs? Submitted October 17, 2022 at 12:11AM Any places to meet attractive women besides bars and clubs?

/u/AWeirdGirl7 on DAE do things to make themselves be 'sexually unappealing' to limit how much people stare at you?

I tried to do it but it didn't work for me... October 16, 2022 at 11:23PM

/u/AWeirdGirl7 on Can I turn off my attractive-ness and stop making people try with me? It makes me feel guilty.

Please don't do anything with your appearance, it doesn't work. I tried it. October 16, 2022 at 11:22PM

/u/hhhnnnnnggggggg on i'd be lying if i said that ask reddit thread wasnt a bit disheartening

If you really want to be depressed go to /r/deadbedrooms . People there are willing to dump their SO and kids for sex, even other allos who just might have a lower sex drive at the time. So it isn't even about being asexual, some people are just absolute coomers. If they're just upfront about it - that they'd leave their family for sex - then there'd be no issue as they could find people with similar views in which sex is the most important thing in their life, but to me the default isn't to abandon your kids because you can't get your dick wet. October 16, 2022 at 11:19PM

/u/dandyaceinspace on PSA: ace who has fantasies or masturbates doesn't necessarily equal aegosexual

Let me start by saying that I understand the feeling the definition describes on a personal level. I am disconnected from my sexual arousal. I don't self insert. The reason I believe this is one face of comp het is from the experience of lesbians describe something similar when faced with the pressure to be het. While still discovering their sexuality or perhaps trying to deny it, lesbians will express sexual attraction to men that are usually unattainable (celebrities or fictional characters) but experience that same disconnect - they don't self insert. I should also probably mention that I am not downplaying or trying to invalidate aego. I just think that the disconnect they feel is one facet of the expectation to perform to a heteronormative standard. October 16, 2022 at 11:18PM

/u/MEsyas on My sister keeps calling me an incel

Exactly what I was gonna say. I'm a single lady by free will :) October 16, 2022 at 11:17PM

/u/femtransfan on do asexuals like Chicago pizza?

i'm not sure if it's a brand or not, but if it's deep dish, i'm gonna have to pass October 16, 2022 at 11:15PM

/u/Creative-Solution on do asexuals like Chicago pizza?

Never seen it October 16, 2022 at 11:15PM