Well, that is the exact pun of my tag right there. April 29, 2023 at 01:07AM

To be clear... I'm not advising anyone to purposely play "games" here but, dating is vastly different between men and women and well, for men often times there actually are things you can do (probably should do) to get and/or keep a womans interest in you. What I am about to say will, and does work in almost all situations, and with most women. So take this with a grain of salt but keep it in mind... Title isn't entirely correct but, generally speaking here... most women enjoy being chased, sought after, wanted, and like the attention they receive from men who want them. As do men. But, in real life if men want to date a woman... trying to be "chased" is not going to work out. More often than not it's the men chasing/pursuing a woman, not the other way around. As a mid 30 year old man, I can say without a doubt to NEVER chase a woman regardless of if you are 20 or 50. Pursuing and chasing are not the same thing. Pursuing would be asking her out, show

doing all i can to make a seba do a double take April 28, 2023 at 11:56PM

the only thing that’ll make you look bad is you sacrificing your ethics because of your past experiences. just because you were raped and one of your rapists didn’t get caught doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to catch this one. is a rapist really someone you want to have as a friend? April 28, 2023 at 11:56PM

My (21f) ex (28m) and I recently broke up over some trust issues which we talked over, but we are still currently broken up. This is our second time we split in an 8 month relationship. He wants to get married and wants a family,as he feels hes running out of time. I dont want to get married yet, but also i dont want to get married to him partly because of cultural differences and I dont want to have bio kids or maybe even have kids at all. And in his opinion I check off alot of his wife boxes and if I wanted the same future he wanted he would ask me in a heartbeat. We are both still extremely attached to each other and still extremely care for eachother. And cant seem to let go. Is it selfish of me to keep him around until im ready to let go? Is it stupid to get back together knowing what we know? I know its harmful to keep going in circles but our hearts are taking over our minds. He does keep saying that if we get back together I have to expect that he will leave me if he finds a

i’ve been seeing this guy for a while now, he has a extremely time consuming & demanding job. i’ve tried to be understanding and supportive of him & his career, but i feel like now our relationship has become one- sided. he’s been doing this job for about 6 months now, it’s just recently, he never has time for me anymore. the time he does have is like every other week at 1am, he comes over, i give him head, and he gives me an excuse so he can leave. doesn’t text me after, nothing. i really dont know if i’m just being to needy or “entitled “ to his time. i completely understand his situation he’s in, and i know him giving me more time & attention isn’t a option right now for him. Submitted April 29, 2023 at 12:16AM i’ve been seeing this guy for a while now, he has a extremely time consuming & demanding job. i’ve tried to be understanding and supportive of him & his career, but i feel like now our relationship has become one- sided.he’s been doing this job fo