NOT chasing will make women want to chase YOU

To be clear... I'm not advising anyone to purposely play "games" here but, dating is vastly different between men and women and well, for men often times there actually are things you can do (probably should do) to get and/or keep a womans interest in you. What I am about to say will, and does work in almost all situations, and with most women. So take this with a grain of salt but keep it in mind...

Title isn't entirely correct but, generally speaking here... most women enjoy being chased, sought after, wanted, and like the attention they receive from men who want them. As do men. But, in real life if men want to date a woman... trying to be "chased" is not going to work out. More often than not it's the men chasing/pursuing a woman, not the other way around. As a mid 30 year old man, I can say without a doubt to NEVER chase a woman regardless of if you are 20 or 50.

Pursuing and chasing are not the same thing. Pursuing would be asking her out, showing interest in her, asking for subsequent dates, etc...

CHASING is when a woman gives you a "line of interest" but is purposely pulling that line further and further away from you while soaking up the attention you are giving her all while giving wishy washy signs of interest towards YOU. If you can't figure out if she likes you or not and is "up and down," just drop her and move on. Those women are never worth going after because, even if they DO like you, they want to get the absolute most attention possible from you before deciding if they "want" you or not. Chances are, they won't want you FYI. You are wasting your time chasing a woman. At any age. If you know what you want, you will know that women who want to be chased/play hard to get are not worth your time. at all.

Ok so on the flip side of this...

Showing a lot of interest early on to a woman and making your intentions clear and obvious while, you are unsure as to where she stands BUT have a gut feeling she has the same feelings towards you through things she has said, done, the regularity that you speak to each other, etc... and then pulling WAY TF back on all of that, has a very strange tendency to make her chase YOU. Want you MORE.

Submitted April 29, 2023 at 01:13AM

To be clear... I'm not advising anyone to purposely play "games" here but, dating is vastly different between men and women and well, for men often times there actually are things you can do (probably should do) to get and/or keep a womans interest in you. What I am about to say will, and does work in almost all situations, and with most women. So take this with a grain of salt but keep it in mind...Title isn't entirely correct but, generally speaking here... most women enjoy being chased, sought after, wanted, and like the attention they receive from men who want them. As do men. But, in real life if men want to date a woman... trying to be "chased" is not going to work out. More often than not it's the men chasing/pursuing a woman, not the other way around. As a mid 30 year old man, I can say without a doubt to NEVER chase a woman regardless of if you are 20 or 50. Pursuing and chasing are not the same thing. Pursuing would be asking her out, showing interest in her, asking for subsequent dates, etc...CHASING is when a woman gives you a "line of interest" but is purposely pulling that line further and further away from you while soaking up the attention you are giving her all while giving wishy washy signs of interest towards YOU. If you can't figure out if she likes you or not and is "up and down," just drop her and move on. Those women are never worth going after because, even if they DO like you, they want to get the absolute most attention possible from you before deciding if they "want" you or not. Chances are, they won't want you FYI. You are wasting your time chasing a woman. At any age. If you know what you want, you will know that women who want to be chased/play hard to get are not worth your time. at all.Ok so on the flip side of this... Showing a lot of interest early on to a woman and making your intentions clear and obvious while, you are unsure as to where she stands BUT have a gut feeling she has the same feelings towards you through things she has said, done, the regularity that you speak to each other, etc... and then pulling WAY TF back on all of that, has a very strange tendency to make her chase YOU. Want you MORE.