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tired of apps but I don't know what else to do

I just finished my second year of college, and so far I've had pretty few dating prospects or opportunities. There have been a few dates that haven't really gone anywhere. One person I really really liked, but lives states away. So like 3-4 months ago I downloaded the three big dating apps (hinge, bumble, tinder). It was fun at first, but now I kind of feel desperate just scrolling hoping that someone will come along and it will finally be something. Across all those apps, I have had hundreds and hundreds of matches. I'm just starting to feel disheartened because if out of hundreds and hundreds of people I haven't been able to find one that I want to go on more than a few days with, or one that I really like that also will go on a date with me. It just kind of feels like I'm doing something wrong, or I'm not understanding something.... I think it's bad for my health, and I'm using these apps more for a game of who thinks I'm cute or just for swipi...

/u/CaughttheDarkness on am I the only one who doesn't like the 'sexuality is fluid' assurances?

Anxiety’s anxiety either way. OCD’s just another anxiety disorder. Although I am really happy to hear something’s helping. I hope it keeps helping. July 01, 2022 at 12:10AM

how to avoid as a guy getting jaded about dating?

so ive been having a period where im trying to basically do everything to improve myself. working out a lot, socializing with people way more than usual, going out, working on fashion etc but still feel like same things keep happening. ill meet someone and it goes well (at least I think), I get some texts back then a few days later they ghost. Or I'll meet someone in a class or etc Im taking and they are super nice and friendly (months long thing) and then I try to make plans and they just stop responding. basically I feel like im getting friend zoned so much or a girl has second thoughts the day after or two and is getting me VERY frustrated. I'm even starting to get real bitterness about the opposite gender which I never had before like this, and something I don't want but it's just frustrating the hell out of me. I don't know what to do just expressing my honest thoughts right now bc it just gets me really mad when I dont feel like im getting treated like a h...

dating Miami girls- red flag or exceptions?

I'll probably get crazy hate for this but I'm trying to settle down and a serious question. Exception being she's an immigrant and grew up religious. She came to the states during her teens. She's a very mature and sweet girl but simetimed while out she can't control herself around other guys while she's with me. Just constant eye f'ing, playing with her hair, and stretching so het chest extends out. But she says she in crazy love with me and I can definitely see the effort she puts in. Though I can also know she can be very sneaky if she wants to be. I've lived in Miami before for a few years and I know how the hook up life is down there. I know people will cheat anywhere if they want to but I've always heard Miami girls are just not loyal at all and I can sort of see that. I mean I'm being biased I guess and paranoid from being cheated on so much lol. We currently have a long distance relationship and we're thinking of taking it to the n...

/u/Fun-Worry-9712 on Who are some characters that you head canon as/believe to be coded as/think gives off ace vibes?

Batman! June 30, 2022 at 11:30PM