tired of apps but I don't know what else to do
I just finished my second year of college, and so far I've had pretty few dating prospects or opportunities. There have been a few dates that haven't really gone anywhere. One person I really really liked, but lives states away. So like 3-4 months ago I downloaded the three big dating apps (hinge, bumble, tinder). It was fun at first, but now I kind of feel desperate just scrolling hoping that someone will come along and it will finally be something. Across all those apps, I have had hundreds and hundreds of matches. I'm just starting to feel disheartened because if out of hundreds and hundreds of people I haven't been able to find one that I want to go on more than a few days with, or one that I really like that also will go on a date with me. It just kind of feels like I'm doing something wrong, or I'm not understanding something.... I think it's bad for my health, and I'm using these apps more for a game of who thinks I'm cute or just for swipi...