I never used to believe in soulmates or true love, but here I am eleven months post breakup realizing the feelings I had, and to an extent still have, were just that. I find myself comparing other people to her, and missing how exactly she would make me feel. The feeling of being on the top of a rollercoaster, of feeling very aware of your life and your surroundings, and of just enjoying the time spent with each other planning our lives and the future. Coffee dates, late night drives, and time spent with other people just aren’t the same. The guilt can build up, so I’m here to warn you. I’m here to encourage you to find that person who makes you feel like you’re falling from the sky, who makes you feel loved and who can turn a bad day bright in seconds. If things get harder with long distance or you seek to find arguments over small things to feel like you’re right, don’t quit, don’t give in. Listen to them, understand them, and understand no one is perfect, but it’s the ability to tr...