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The pandemic has increased the ‘Nice guy’ traffic on Tinder. I have plenty more where that came from.

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did he just want to hookup or

Hi! Before I start, I would like to say I'm aware that none of us know what this guy's true intentions were unless I ask. I'm just wondering what other people think. Long story short, I [21F] met him [21M] my freshman year college and it was obvious that he wanted to get to know me from the very beginning. He eventually became my first kiss, later got mad at him because he showed up with hickies from another girl, he apologized, I initiated the talk about what he wanted and he said he didn't want a relationship at the time. We left off on good terms and remained good friends. Sophomore year, nothing really happened. He made the effort to hang out with me here and there, but we never actually hooked up or anything. Summer going into this school year was when things started to change. We began to talk a lot through Snap and he tagged me on stuff on Facebook. When classes began, he immediately asked me to chill the very first week. This became a consistent thing through...

Setraline 25 mg

Hi folks. Does anybody know well about this pills ? Why GP PRESCRIBE it ? Just found out that my Bf use them Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:48PM Hi folks. Does anybody know well about this pills ? Why GP PRESCRIBE it ? Just found out that my Bf use them

• self worth

The only one who gets to decide your worth, is you. It doesn’t come from your bank account or the number of friends that you have. It doesn’t come from what someone else says you are worth. It doesn’t come from a number on a scale or the number of nights you go out. It’s called self worth for a reason - your worth comes from you . It comes from being yourself and being proud of who you are. It comes from being someone that you can count on and being someone you love . Because when it comes down to it, the numbers will change. But what will never change is who you are deep inside. Beautiful, limitless, wonderful, creative, strong, capable - and that is where your worth comes from. Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:53PM The only one who gets to decide your worth, is you. It doesn’t come from your bank account or the number of friends that you have. It doesn’t come from what someone else says you are worth. It doesn’t come from a number on a scale or the number of nights you go out...

What are the key points in having a good dating app profile?

I would say I’m a conservative guy, but have a wild side for sure, soft spoken but very fit and healthy. I got blessed with very good looking genes as well. In the midst of all this I struggle with American (western) women, I’m not sure if it my profile or not enough words. I don’t know how to continue the conversations very far. I lived in Brazil and Thailand the last 10 years and was extremely successful but I did speak the languages somewhat, felt like a king in all sorts their. I didn’t have to do much in terms of getting a first date it was just that simple. Could someone lend me some advice on having a good profile? which type of picture? How much to write on my profile ? Do Americans tend to want to talk more before getting the first date or is it just me? Any advice would be appreciated thank you Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:54PM I would say I’m a conservative guy, but have a wild side for sure, soft spoken but very fit and healthy. I got blessed with very good look...

Bf also comes from an abusive toxic family background and I am picking up signs I should break it off before it gets serious due to a few red flags

TLDR at the end; I know the post long I just had a lot of relevant information to cover because I honestly don’t have a reason in particular to end this its just a multitude of red flags that result in me considering whether or not I should stay in this. Our backgrounds: We both are in college in our early twenties and have similar family dynamic issues. He opened up about much of this on the first date after a couple drinks. He has an alcoholic dad that has a bias towards him and his mom just divorced his dad and she sees like a smart successful woman and he cares about his mom. He had an incest type relationship with his abopted sister who pasted away. He tells me this story on the the third date after a few beers. This sister was also one of his dad’s favorites. Apparently, my bf honestly wanted to be with her too and they were in love, like they talked about a future together. I know this may sound far fetched but its almost sounds like he was in subconscious competition with ...

I’m in love with her but we split and I want her back.

25[M] So to get straight into it. This is the girl that has been through a lot with me. Anything and everything. She means the world to me and I want to do everything I can to be better so that if she comes back I’m lack of a better word better than what I was. My communication sucks I guess I honestly don’t know anymore. I may have messed up a bit. No I didn’t cheat. Let’s go ahead and get that out of the way. We broke up cause she felt like I was getting comfortable honestly I was i just work a lot and am trying to finish college 25M btw. Valentine’s Day did not go as planned so I feel like she thinks I don’t appreciate her. Also she says she never could make any choices. I don’t understand that to much but I guess there are somethings that I didn’t make more of a group decision. How do I get her back? How do I improve? Submitted March 24, 2020 at 12:01AM 25[M] So to get straight into it. This is the girl that has been through a lot with me. Anything and everything. She means ...

Asking out a work partner

I am a weekend part time worker in a kitchen (M21). I want to ask a girl which works with me around my age. Is it a bad idea to ask a person you work with. My worry is if she says no, it going to be very awkward working in the future or it might not be. Any advice or experience would be very welcome. Thanks Submitted March 24, 2020 at 12:09AM I am a weekend part time worker in a kitchen (M21). I want to ask a girl which works with me around my age. Is it a bad idea to ask a person you work with. My worry is if she says no, it going to be very awkward working in the future or it might not be. Any advice or experience would be very welcome. Thanks

Everything is ok when I’m with you

When I’m with you everything feels ok again. My head goes quiet, all those horrible thoughts stop. When you hold me I feel safe, nothing else matters. I love it when you stroke my hair, it’s the best feeling ever. Every time you rest your head on my chest and snuggle up to me I feel so happy, I feel wanted for the first time in years. I miss you after one day apart and now I don’t know when I will see you again because of this virus. I’m crying as I type this because I need you. I just want to feel you close to me and run my fingers through your hair again. I know I only saw you Saturday but it’s hard when I don’t know what’s a head. I know you would probably find this soppy or maybe even cringey. That’s why I’m putting it here instead of sending it too you. You’re the best thing in my life. Home is with you, I love you so much ❤️. Submitted March 24, 2020 at 12:02AM When I’m with you everything feels ok again. My head goes quiet, all those horrible thoughts stop. When you hol...

False signs

Women are so hard to understand, wether it's their signs that they might be into you or to understand the meaning behind their chosen words. I am a man of pride, and there are times when I have to give up my ego to open up to a woman and what do I get in return ? another false sign that she might be attracted to me, falling into this kind of situations might push me to put an end to my feelings, because after all unshared feelings are better off without. Submitted March 24, 2020 at 12:07AM Women are so hard to understand, wether it's their signs that they might be into you or to understand the meaning behind their chosen words.I am a man of pride, and there are times when I have to give up my ego to open up to a woman and what do I get in return ? another false sign that she might be attracted to me, falling into this kind of situations might push me to put an end to my feelings, because after all unshared feelings are better off without.

Love isn’t perfect, but thought and caring truly make it love

I never used to believe in soulmates or true love, but here I am eleven months post breakup realizing the feelings I had, and to an extent still have, were just that. I find myself comparing other people to her, and missing how exactly she would make me feel. The feeling of being on the top of a rollercoaster, of feeling very aware of your life and your surroundings, and of just enjoying the time spent with each other planning our lives and the future. Coffee dates, late night drives, and time spent with other people just aren’t the same. The guilt can build up, so I’m here to warn you. I’m here to encourage you to find that person who makes you feel like you’re falling from the sky, who makes you feel loved and who can turn a bad day bright in seconds. If things get harder with long distance or you seek to find arguments over small things to feel like you’re right, don’t quit, don’t give in. Listen to them, understand them, and understand no one is perfect, but it’s the ability to tr...

/u/13LuckyNumber on Snow! And fingerless gloves with Ace vibes.

Fingerless gloves are superior to all other gloves. In fact, I’m wearing some right now. I’m inside, but still. March 24, 2020 at 12:25AM

/u/SigurElias on Hey Aces, what are your hobbies?

IF you want to learn try this tutorial: https://youtu.be/KGvQRaK1mvs And if you want to get better at the cube after learning it try this yt channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqTVfT9JQqhA6_Hi_h_h97Q March 24, 2020 at 12:20AM

/u/thatsunreasonable on My ace ring is a bit different, but I wear it proudly.

that's a really cute ring, which store is it from? I live within the eu :) March 24, 2020 at 12:17AM

Who knew that garbage bin could mean love?

I'm pregnant, still in the first trimester, but my morning sickness has been crazy bad. Normally we leave the rubbish bin in the carport where I park the car so its easier to get to it. My husband knows that the smell of the bin tends to set off my morning sickness, so without mentioning it he moved it away from the carport. This makes it harder for him to take the trash out, especially when raining. But he did it anyway. Such a small thing to change, but its the little things that remind me that even after almost 10 years together I love and adore him. Submitted March 24, 2020 at 12:07AM I'm pregnant, still in the first trimester, but my morning sickness has been crazy bad. Normally we leave the rubbish bin in the carport where I park the car so its easier to get to it. My husband knows that the smell of the bin tends to set off my morning sickness, so without mentioning it he moved it away from the carport. This makes it harder for him to take the trash out, especially...

Lockdown neighbours

Hey guys! I (31M) recently moved to a new apartment and the apartment is also new and mostly empty. There is this girl (33F) living next door. We came into each other 2-3 times, once I opened the main door for her because you have to push the door really hard. Yesterday, I had my courage to knock her door and gave her a packet of healthy snacks, like nuts, mulberried, dried black grapes etc. Saying that it helps for immune system and had a chat standing on her door like 20 mins. During the conversation she talked how she misses her coffee shop, which is closed during pandemic and I mentioned that I have the coffee machine and told her to come when she needs. She told me that she can come when she really feels desperate about coffee and when she buys milk i said ok. She also invited to balcony chats but my balcony is much smaller than her but still will go out from time to time. And today during the day she rang my bell and she brought croissant. I was in a call with headphones connect...

How to step out of the “friend zone” (for lack of a better term) over Snapchat?

“Caleb” (20m) and I (20f) started off as distant family friends and developed a friendship of our own about five years ago. We’re not super close friends, but we’re in the same friend group and we get along really well when we hang out. Oh, and I’ve been suppressing a crush on him for awhile. Not sure exactly how long. We live in an area that’s on shelter-in-place orders right now. I’m not a particularly avid Snapchat user compared to most people my age, but this morning I decided to check in with my friends via Snapchat to make sure everyone’s doing alright. This included Caleb. Out of all the people I contacted today, the best conversation I’ve had was with Caleb. We’ve been communicating consistently all day, and he’s saying things like “it’s so great to hear from you!” and “it’s nice talking to someone like you”. And he is not letting the conversation die. I might be mistaken, but I feel like maybe my little crush on him is actually reciprocated! I’d really like to try to move ...

Seemingly ghosted? Do I wait or move on?

I’ve 23F been seeing 25M for almost two months. We met off a dating app and instantly hit it off - aka, 5 dates in the first week of seeing each other. I’ve spent many nights at his place, even three nights in a row. What I’m getting at is we got pretty close, and liked being around each other pretty quickly. Lots of dates but also being intimate. Anyway, he flew across the country to go be home during the whole pandemic. Three days goes by, and I hear nothing. I shoot him a text checking in, and 7 hours goes by, nothing. I shoot a follow up- nothing. Yet I see he’s active on social media (yes, I snooped BFD). Over 24 hours has passed now. Am I being ghosted or do I give him space for being home? We used to text every day, so this is unusual. Do I send yet another follow up expressing my disappointment? Idk, I’m feeling stung. Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:25PM I’ve 23F been seeing 25M for almost two months. We met off a dating app and instantly hit it off - aka, 5 dates in the...

Thick and nerdy/introverted

Starting to lose hope on dating apps and too introverted to meet men IRL. I get a lot of likes and interest on Facebook Dating and Bumble, I'm not a complete troll. After I like them back 9 times out of 10 they don't actually speak to me or respond. I'm only 31 so it's not like I'm too old to be of interest, right? I was in a terrible toxic relationship for 4 years and didn't date much before that. Are dating apps only for people in their 20's? I'm not looking for casual, is that the problem? Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:26PM Starting to lose hope on dating apps and too introverted to meet men IRL. I get a lot of likes and interest on Facebook Dating and Bumble, I'm not a complete troll. After I like them back 9 times out of 10 they don't actually speak to me or respond. I'm only 31 so it's not like I'm too old to be of interest, right? I was in a terrible toxic relationship for 4 years and didn't date much before that. A...

I (M20) have just secured a FWB (F18). But most of our interactions are going to be at my place. This means I’ll have to explain to my parents that the girl I’m bringing over when they’re gone isn’t my “girlfriend”. How do I even navigate that conversation?

We’re not planning to meet up for a while with everything going on right now. But eventually she’ll be coming over, probably before the rest of my family gets home at 4:30. I can’t really keep her a secret because my mom has put cameras all over the outside of our house, so I have to somehow explain to my parents in a nice way that the girl coming over is more than a friend, but not a girlfriend, and that within half a year, she’ll be off to another state and that’s the end. How does one have that kinda talk with their parents? Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:27PM We’re not planning to meet up for a while with everything going on right now. But eventually she’ll be coming over, probably before the rest of my family gets home at 4:30. I can’t really keep her a secret because my mom has put cameras all over the outside of our house, so I have to somehow explain to my parents in a nice way that the girl coming over is more than a friend, but not a girlfriend, and that within half a ...

So maybe I made a mistake...

So me (19m) and my ex (18f) were best friends before we started dating, it was a short relationship (four months) and we want to stay friends, but I’m not really sure how to not be single, my entire life was invested in the relationship and I’m having trouble adjusting. Maybe it’s just the social distancing getting to me but I feel incredibly lonely. Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:29PM So me (19m) and my ex (18f) were best friends before we started dating, it was a short relationship (four months) and we want to stay friends, but I’m not really sure how to not be single, my entire life was invested in the relationship and I’m having trouble adjusting. Maybe it’s just the social distancing getting to me but I feel incredibly lonely.

I’m just craving intimacy - and sex - so badly now.

It’s just frustrating as hell. I finally got a job in my field after 1.5 years of looking. I cannot imagine what the dating is like nowadays. Not to mention that I’m completely inexperienced when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex. Just talking to a cute boy makes me all flustered. Fuck this. Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:44PM It’s just frustrating as hell. I finally got a job in my field after 1.5 years of looking. I cannot imagine what the dating is like nowadays. Not to mention that I’m completely inexperienced when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex. Just talking to a cute boy makes me all flustered.Fuck this.

Why are some short women the meanest and rudest out there?

I'm a short guy and i'm 5'4. I get this really bad vibe from some short women that i'm not even good enough and they seem to think they are entitled to taller/tall men. Some of them reject short men still taller than them and say stupid shit about them. Idk what it is. I feel like girls that are taller are so much more chill and nicer like 5'7+. I've gotten a couple of matches from girls within this range. I've tried my luck with messaging girls shorter than me but i always got rejected. I haven't really had a girl shorter than me match with me. Just 2 days ago I matched with one 5'7 girl and I didn't think all these taller girls would like short guys. Seems its the opposite with short girls as some like to reject short men. Why is it that taller women give short men a better chance than short women do? I've seen a lot of short guys say they had the best luck with taller girls. Its just very weird, I do think they are the ones that say the r...