Lockdown neighbours

Hey guys! I (31M) recently moved to a new apartment and the apartment is also new and mostly empty. There is this girl (33F) living next door. We came into each other 2-3 times, once I opened the main door for her because you have to push the door really hard. Yesterday, I had my courage to knock her door and gave her a packet of healthy snacks, like nuts, mulberried, dried black grapes etc. Saying that it helps for immune system and had a chat standing on her door like 20 mins. During the conversation she talked how she misses her coffee shop, which is closed during pandemic and I mentioned that I have the coffee machine and told her to come when she needs. She told me that she can come when she really feels desperate about coffee and when she buys milk i said ok. She also invited to balcony chats but my balcony is much smaller than her but still will go out from time to time. And today during the day she rang my bell and she brought croissant. I was in a call with headphones connected laptop etc and opened the door holding my laptop and smiled and thanked back and closed the door. Any tips on the next move? I am thinking to throw a note under her door saying that I have also milk, she is invited for a coffee at 12? Thanks for your help in advance. We are both in apartments most of the day because of the pandemic, I work from home and I guess her job is not available for working remote so she stays indoor mostly not working.



Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:18PM

Hey guys! I (31M) recently moved to a new apartment and the apartment is also new and mostly empty. There is this girl (33F) living next door. We came into each other 2-3 times, once I opened the main door for her because you have to push the door really hard. Yesterday, I had my courage to knock her door and gave her a packet of healthy snacks, like nuts, mulberried, dried black grapes etc. Saying that it helps for immune system and had a chat standing on her door like 20 mins. During the conversation she talked how she misses her coffee shop, which is closed during pandemic and I mentioned that I have the coffee machine and told her to come when she needs. She told me that she can come when she really feels desperate about coffee and when she buys milk i said ok. She also invited to balcony chats but my balcony is much smaller than her but still will go out from time to time. And today during the day she rang my bell and she brought croissant. I was in a call with headphones connected laptop etc and opened the door holding my laptop and smiled and thanked back and closed the door. Any tips on the next move? I am thinking to throw a note under her door saying that I have also milk, she is invited for a coffee at 12? Thanks for your help in advance. We are both in apartments most of the day because of the pandemic, I work from home and I guess her job is not available for working remote so she stays indoor mostly not working.

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