Seemingly ghosted? Do I wait or move on?

I’ve 23F been seeing 25M for almost two months. We met off a dating app and instantly hit it off - aka, 5 dates in the first week of seeing each other. I’ve spent many nights at his place, even three nights in a row. What I’m getting at is we got pretty close, and liked being around each other pretty quickly. Lots of dates but also being intimate. Anyway, he flew across the country to go be home during the whole pandemic. Three days goes by, and I hear nothing. I shoot him a text checking in, and 7 hours goes by, nothing. I shoot a follow up- nothing. Yet I see he’s active on social media (yes, I snooped BFD). Over 24 hours has passed now. Am I being ghosted or do I give him space for being home? We used to text every day, so this is unusual. Do I send yet another follow up expressing my disappointment? Idk, I’m feeling stung.



Submitted March 23, 2020 at 11:25PM

I’ve 23F been seeing 25M for almost two months. We met off a dating app and instantly hit it off - aka, 5 dates in the first week of seeing each other. I’ve spent many nights at his place, even three nights in a row. What I’m getting at is we got pretty close, and liked being around each other pretty quickly. Lots of dates but also being intimate. Anyway, he flew across the country to go be home during the whole pandemic. Three days goes by, and I hear nothing. I shoot him a text checking in, and 7 hours goes by, nothing. I shoot a follow up- nothing. Yet I see he’s active on social media (yes, I snooped BFD). Over 24 hours has passed now. Am I being ghosted or do I give him space for being home? We used to text every day, so this is unusual. Do I send yet another follow up expressing my disappointment? Idk, I’m feeling stung.

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