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New to sexting. Anyone got any good examples or screenshots of some hot sexting convos so I can learn?

or what should I Google? I tried googling a bit and only found generic BuzzFeed type crap. I need to learn lol Submitted September 20, 2019 at 11:53PM or what should I Google? I tried googling a bit and only found generic BuzzFeed type crap. I need to learn lol

Best oral sex technique

So I want to be better at sucking dick lol what are your favorite techniques someone has done on you or the person you were performing oral on loved? Submitted September 21, 2019 at 12:08AM So I want to be better at sucking dick lol what are your favorite techniques someone has done on you or the person you were performing oral on loved?

10 True Love Quotes To Share With Lovers

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10 Beautiful Love Captions & Quotes

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Am I (20F) worrying too much about my SO (20M) drinking a lot while studying abroad?

TL;DR - My bf has had periods of heavy drinking in the past, and now he's studying abroad where it will be legal for him to drink and talks about drinking and going out a lot. Is it okay for me to be concerned about this? My (20F) boyfriend (20M) and I have been dating for almost a year, and we both go to the same college. He's studying abroad this semester and he has just gotten to the campus and has met his new housemates. The thing that concerns me a little is how much he'll be drinking while he's over there. We live in the US so neither of us can legally drink there yet, but it's not like it's hard to get alcohol at college. He has told me before that freshman year of college he drank and partied a lot, to the point of blacking out or throwing up a lot. He definitely doesn't drink as often and he has only gotten really drunk once in the time we've been dating. I don't have an issue with drinking, I've been drunk a few times too, but I drin...

I (28f) slept with my childhood friend (30m) and I feel confused.

Darren and I grew up together since childhood. We both eventually moved away but have always stayed in contact. I remember as young as 8 when I was in the third grade that I wanted to marry him. We’ve always had these subtle feelings for each other but once we grew to adulthood we were either both in relationships or one was and one wasn’t. Darren recently sent me a message asking to get together. I hadn’t hung out with him in 10 years. Turns out he’s recently single and I’ve been single for over a year. I invited him over to watch a movie. He unleashed a bunch of feelings he’s had for me for years like he was broken hearted when he found out I was pregnant with my first child. He said he’s always had feelings for me, so one thing led to another. He’s been messaging me A LOT since then and I think he wants a relationship. I don’t know that I’m ready or even willing to do that. First of all, I know he’s still in love with his ex girlfriend. Also, I’ve been really content being single a...

Should I (21M) do anything about my Girlfriends (19F) creepy coworker (24M)?

So my girlfriend and I work in the same facility, but we work for different companies in different parts. She added me on Facebook one night after seeing me on our employee shuttle. We started dating and have now been together for about 2 months. Early on I found out about a couple coworkers she has that were interested in her. The first guy we can call Alex, from what I know he is a nice guy, I have seen him around and spoken to him a couple times. He sent her a couple flirty text messages, and she found out he was into her through other coworkers, this was also before her and I met. Her and I talked about it, Im whatever about it, I trust her, if she wanted him she wouldnt have pursued me. ​ But there is another guy, we can call him Richard. Richard is kind of a creep in my opinion. He pursued her as soon as she started with the company (about 4 months ago), and hasnt let up. He asked her out, she said no, but he wont stop texting her calling her. If that was it, then Id be whatev...

I'm (M31) worried about my relationship with my partner (F30), as we are so compatible with life goals but I don't feel like I want to be with her anymore

TLDR - love my girlfriend and think our future goals are so similar, but I don't know if I want to be with her anymore So my girlfriend and I have been together for around 2 years, and I've never found someone who wants so much of the same things as I do in life, and we're so compatible. But I'm finding we've been arguing so much for the past year and no matter what we do it doesn't stop, even counselling hasn't helped. We're both stressed, but life is stressful and we should be able to get through stressful times without arguing non stop. I used to think she was the one, but more and more I'm having doubts due to the arguing. I feel like we should be happy and looking to move in together and start a life, but I am having doubts. In previous relationships I felt that it was clear when we weren't compatible, but now I feel like I should be over the moon I have someone so amazing and in tune with myself, but for some reason I feel like we should...

My (24m) GF(22f) just dumped me over wow

Ok So I have been playing wow classic and my guild is getting ready to raid Molten Core. I am a few levels behind the main raid team and I want to make the team so I needed to level and gear up in time for the raid. My GF had been sick for the last few days and I guess she was like really sick because she asked me to take her to the doctors. I was in a dungeon and I asked her if she could wait until I was done becauuse I cant just pause it. She and I quote "Fine whatever just play WoW I'll call my dad" So she called her dad and he came to pick her up. Anyways I guess I lost track of time cause I realized it had been like 18 hours and I still hadnt heard from her and she wasnt back. So I shot her a text and she texted back she had been admitted to the hospital. I said I would head over to see her and she said and I quote "Its fine dads been with me you can just keep playing wow and I'll text you when I am discharged." So I went back to wow because I needed t...

Men, if you softly kiss a woman's feet (in a non foot fetish type of way) is this a sign of affection? Respect? Trust? Or what?

I am a 29F, been casually non-committal dating a 42M for about 6 months. I'm still not entirely sure where we stand, but I am falling in love with him. And I want to know if he feels the same. Recently when we have sex he seems to be more romantic and loving. Last time we did it, he softly kissed my feet- not in a fetish type of way, it seemed more loving. I feel like a man wouldn't do this with a girl he doesn't care about or respect. Am I right? Men, what type of feelings could be behind softly kissing a girl's feet? TL/DR: Men, in what cases would you romantically kiss a girl's feet, does this signify feelings? Submitted September 20, 2019 at 11:47PM I am a 29F, been casually non-committal dating a 42M for about 6 months. I'm still not entirely sure where we stand, but I am falling in love with him. And I want to know if he feels the same.Recently when we have sex he seems to be more romantic and loving. Last time we did it, he softly kissed my feet-...

Am I [21/F] wrong for not coming clean about my sexual history to my current partner [26/M] ?

This is going to be a weird one but need some advice on handling the situation before it gets out of control. I've been seeing my current boyfriend for the last few months. I've been honest, he's never judged me and I trust him. However, something came up that I'm not sure how to handle it; or if I can handle it at all. Prior to this relationship, I was in a relationship with a very sexually open person. Through the two years we dated, we've filmed a lot of explicit stuff together for fun. Me and him, me and other guys; there's a lot of footage. He was interested in filming and he got my full consent so he is by no stretch of the imagination at fault for this. A couple of days ago, my boyfriend sat me down and told me he's started receiving emails explaining the things I've done and that I've filmed. I saw the emails, I read all of them. While there's no footage, there are things written that are true to a T. I panicked and instead of coming ...

Bf (18) of two years cheated on me (F17)

I found out yesterday morning that my boyfriend of two years cheated on me with 5 other girls online, and hooked up with one. He's 18 now and I'm 17. He keeps saying he doesn't know why or how he could do it and that he'll never do it again because he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I never thought he could ever do anything like this. I've given him everything he's ever wanted and more than those girls ever could. I don't know what to do. I feel so hurt. I feel so unloved and betrayed. I don't know what to do. I just wish I never found out and we could go back to how happy we were, looking forward to our future together. Now I dread the coming days because he'll keep begging and I'll give in. I don't know a life without him. I've met his family, spent a lot of time with his granny and cousins and aunts and uncles and him. He's become like a son to my mother. I have so many photos and happy memories I never thought could ...

Is she (20 F) into me (20 M) ? Should i ask her out?

So, theres a girl I recently realized im starting to have feelings for. We used to be good friends as little kids in elementary school and we have reconnected this summer. Shes been giving me some signs and I think shes into me too. I see her around at least once a week or so We dont really Snap / text outside of just streaks and general stuff She always just gives off a flirty vibe around me Shes always laughing and joking around She always stands just a little too close or lightly brushes against me She looks my in the eye and holds eye contact when one of us is talking Playfully hitting me after a joke or something She asked me if I had a girlfriend back at school (i thought that was a big sign but idk for sure) She was telling me about how some other guy asked her out but she said no and we joked about it She told me shes single but shes looking to date someone right now I was talking to her and another friend (I forget what exactly about) and she said something like “y...

18(f) with 20(m) is the problem with me or is he just not attracted to girls?

I have a crush on a guy who comes across as kind of emotional and sensitive. He's very shy, and whenever I spend time with him he won't look me in the eye at all. I mean, I can be talking to him for a couple of hours but he will not make eyecontact whatsoever. The last time I spent time with him he seemed to be more reserved than normal, I kept trying to make conversation but he kept giving me short answers, and after about half an hour of talking he just got up and left. I felt hurt and upset, and like he didn't want to be friends anymore. It's easy to talk to him over the internet, but hanging out is a lot harder because he's really hard to open up. I watch him around his guy friends and he seems so much more happier and livelier. The reason I suspect he's gay is that he told me he's been close to one of his friend's and been talking about personal stuff with them. He seems to want close friendships with other guys because he doesn't have many fri...

am i (19F) a bad person for being upset that my bf (20M) broke up with me to focus on education?

is it bad that i feel mad/upset that my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me to focus on school and himself more? we have been dating for 3 years on a off kinda i fully understand that his education and himself are very important, so i respect his decision but honestly i don’t understand why we can’t date still or get back together once he feels it’s time. or am i a bad person for feeling this way, i want to message him asking if we can get back together once he is feeling fine and if it’s the right time, since the reason we broke up wasn’t an actual relationship issue. or idk in the back of my head i think that he actually broke up with me for someone else or it’s because we are now almost an hour away from each other. so should i message him? and am i a bad person? thanks. if there is any other info you want to know to try to help just ask me. TL;DR am i a bad person for being mad/upset over my bf leaving me to focus on his education and school? i respect his decision but it ...

Girlfriend (25F) cheated on me(27M) with her ex in the beginning of our relationship

I'll try to keep it short. Both me and my girlfriend were with our own partners when we met. We met, fell in love, wanted to be together, decided to leave our previous partners and start a relationship together. During this period, we were seeing each other and had sex once. We both didn't meet our own partners, as they were both in different cities at the time. In a few weeks, I talked to my ex on the phone, and ended my previous relationship. She said she would meet hers in person to do the talk. I had no bad thoughts and had trusted her, so I said ok. That day in the afternoon, she called me and said she did the talk, it wasn't easy, he cried and insisted on not to leave etc., and they had sex two times. I didn't think about much on how to react, maybe I was a bit shocked, but I really loved her and said it was ok. But when she said she may have to meet him again to end it, I asked her not to meet and end it on the phone just like I did. She did that, and we started...

/u/tweedliee on What was the most mundane thing you've done that other people thought was flirting?

Expressing my political views. Got invited over for casual sex because apparently if we both like Bernie Sanders we should def bone. Proceeded to skip that activity for the next 2 weeks because it was so awkward. September 21, 2019 at 12:13AM

/u/ooluula on Ace (and more!) representation at Spencer's!

first letter dude lol September 21, 2019 at 12:06AM

/u/canyonprincess on I think this should be our motto

Growing up, I was always baffled when another girl ended up pregnant. That was before I realized that I wasn't morally superior, just asexual. 🤣 September 21, 2019 at 12:04AM

/u/photocopiedshrimp on Ace (and more!) representation at Spencer's!

I own this one! I wear it with my Jughead hat. September 21, 2019 at 12:03AM

/u/TheFrictionlessPully on Aromantics, how often do people who don't know you're aromantic assume you're gay?

I am a transgender guy, and at one of my old jobs, I was not out to any of my co-workers. One of my co-workers went on and on about her kids, and when I said that I was uninterested in having children, she started talking about how she used to be in a "phase" where she did not want children and how she used to be "selfish" for not wanting them. When she said that, I explained to her that I was not attracted to men or women and have no interest in a relationship, much less children. But she seemed to only latch onto the first part of that statement and for some reason automatically assumed that I was a lesbian, even though I specifically stated that I was attracted to neither. Not that I even could be a lesbian in the first place, but that is a different story. September 21, 2019 at 12:01AM

/u/WesternQuestions on Coming out to people

I feel you. Imo it's no one's business, and I don't like labels, because everyone has their own interpretation of what asexual means. So saying that leads to more miscommunication. And invasive questions. I try to avoid it as much as possible but it's going to have to happen with new friends eventually :/ That's so cool you have two ace friends though! September 21, 2019 at 12:00AM

/u/Skyblue3221 on Was anyone going to tell me the aroace flag looks so awesome or was I supposed to just google it myself?

A E S T H ET I C September 20, 2019 at 11:59PM