So I've matched with this gal on an app a while back when I was on a visit in a different state. And we got along fine. But unfortunately we matched at the very last day i was there so we couldn't go out on a date or anything. But I will be moving there by February and so I let her know and she said it was all good and we can make sum plans when I arrive. Until now we've been talking and face timing non stop for the last week or so, like we both on our phones at work etc. And what's been happening is that I've unable to keep the conversations alive. Like we'll stop talking about something and I'll just go dead silent. Now I am a introvert with not alot of experience socializing and she understands and says I'll prob do fine when do meet up in person. But I feel like I'm not putting enough effort in and I just want to do more then what I'm doing rn cuz she's always the one who takes the lead. Bringing up topics, asking questions etc. What can...

This is a throwaway acc. Anyway. Its been 5 dates since I had been out with this guy and I dont feel anything, he is very sweet and kind but I just feel neutral. When I talk to him on the phone or hung out with him it's it's very chill and I do feel like I'm being myself however I don't get any so called butterfly feelings or anything..do I only see him as a friend and if so do I just friendzone him? Yes only I know my feelings but I never experienced this before it's very weird to me, I usually take a while to like someone too but its been quite a while so I'm not really sure. Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:01AM This is a throwaway acc. Anyway.Its been 5 dates since I had been out with this guy and I dont feel anything, he is very sweet and kind but I just feel neutral. When I talk to him on the phone or hung out with him it's it's very chill and I do feel like I'm being myself however I don't get any so called butterfly feelings or a...

I (28f) started seeing a guy (30m) over the holidays. We matched on Tinder, and ended up meeting a couple days after we exchanged numbers. So far we have been out about 4 times and things were going smoothly while we were both off from work. However, now that the holidays are done, and we are back to work, he barely seems to have any time to message me and he hasn't initiated any plans to see me. I understand he is self-employed and works pretty much every day (where as I am self employed and work 5 out of 7 days), but I can't help but feel he isn't very interested in me. Unless he is, but hes too occupied to show it. I asked him to hang out over the weekend, but he couldn't because he had to work and he didn't seem too interested in finding a time to reschedule. In terms of texting, sometime he will initiate and sometimes I will but the last few days it has been me. We don't text much though, maybe a few exchanges of messages. My question is, should I ask hi...

Do you experience sexual attraction? Only you can say if you are asexual. Enjoying porn/masturbation/sex/etc doesn't mean you are or aren't asexual, those are just things you do .If you do not experience sexual attraction, then you could be asexual~ January 15, 2020 at 12:17AM

I couldn't watch the whole thing. They kept showing the 'A' in the acronym as standing for 'ally'. It's a small detail but that really made me intensely anxious despite everything else being so supportive. I feel like the video is ruined for me. January 15, 2020 at 12:07AM

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I loved all the supportive comments on the video! January 15, 2020 at 12:05AM

Good for you! I hope you hear back from your friend soon. January 15, 2020 at 12:02AM

Where on Earth is that a common opinion? January 14, 2020 at 11:52PM

Haha you’re not alone in feeling that. I’ve heard of a lot of women like nope don’t want kids don’t need my uterus get it away from me. I’d want one, distant future, just gotta stay functional enough until then. Also sorry for half assuming you’re in the endo boat too, I’m surrounded by endo, watched my mom go through it, and am convinced my symptoms point to it too. January 14, 2020 at 11:49PM

TL;Dr my girlfriend wants me to be rougher with her and I'm a big guy so that's understandable but I don't know how to be rough any tips ? My girlfriend has told me before that she wants me to be rougher with her but I have no idea how to go about that. I don't want to hurt her but she insists I won't, I'm just afraid I will. I'm a good bit taller than she is a strong enough but I don't really know how to be more masculine and be macho in the bedroom, can you please help me cause she knows how to be rough but I don't and it'd be nice to make her feel as good as she makes me feel Submitted January 14, 2020 at 11:48PM TL;Dr my girlfriend wants me to be rougher with her and I'm a big guy so that's understandable but I don't know how to be rough any tips ?My girlfriend has told me before that she wants me to be rougher with her but I have no idea how to go about that. I don't want to hurt her but she insists I won't, I...

Oh great old ones, I call upon you for advice! I don't have a crush on anyone (actually, I don't think I've ever had one), but I feel like I'm missing out on something. All my friends keep talking about their crushes/relationships, and the social pressure combined with my extremely wacky hormones make me feel very lonely and I can't help but fantasize about relationships. Is it normal to just, not have a crush? How can I make these feelings go away? TL;DR (come on, it's not that long): I don't have a crush on anyone and I feel like I'm missing out. Submitted January 14, 2020 at 11:53PM Oh great old ones, I call upon you for advice!I don't have a crush on anyone (actually, I don't think I've ever had one), but I feel like I'm missing out on something. All my friends keep talking about their crushes/relationships, and the social pressure combined with my extremely wacky hormones make me feel very lonely and I can't help but fan...

Hello everybody. I am moving cities, and I'll be a student at first in my new city but I already have a job lined up after I finish my 6 month skills update course. Because of this and some other factors I had trouble finding accommodation and it appears after extensive search my by faaar the best option would be to have my parents cosign my rental or give a guarantee (i'll use cosign for short). The problem: my parents don't like any places I chose as they're either too small, or in a not-the-nicest neighborhoods. True, but this is what I can comfortably afford with my savings + salary for the first couple years of my job. (I really don't want roommates, but it wouldnt make a difference since my parents would be against roommates as well). My parents are very financially comfortable and they insist on helping me pay rent for this time instead of cosigning the lease for a place they don't like. Which I am already uncomfortable with as I am an adult, and I do...

I'm very excited and extremely nervous about this weekend. I've reconnect with a woman that I had a relationship with for 4 years, from 1991 to 1995. We've not seen or talked to each other since then. We've both gone through marriage and divorce. Through the years, I would occasionally think of her. She always held a special place in my heart. I've always thought of her as the one that got away. But, in 1995, we had just reached different points of growth in life, and our paths were different, so we broke things off. There was no anger or animosity. Now, here we are! 25 years later, and we're getting together this weekend. I'm so scared, yet so exited at the same time. Has anyone else ever experienced a similar situation? TL;DR! - reconnecting after 25 years Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:12AM I'm very excited and extremely nervous about this weekend. I've reconnect with a woman that I had a relationship with for 4 years, from 1991 to 1995....

I found my moms vibrator and used it over the pants once and feel disgusting and think there’s something wrong with me Submitted January 14, 2020 at 11:59PM I found my moms vibrator and used it over the pants once and feel disgusting and think there’s something wrong with me

I am starting zinc supplementation and I was not sure if I should post this in here or the adhd community I'm also a part of. I am mostly curious about zinc and if it helps libido, but also bringing up something that could possibly help those who are adhd. https://www.zrtlab.com/blog/archive/mineral-imbalance-adhd-zinc-copper/ Anyway, after reading these articles I couldn't help but think maybe there is possible substance to this? Also my curiosity stems from the idea that those with adhd might be more likely to suffer from low libido due to zinc deficiency. The last thing I am curious about is if anyone here with low libido has supplemented with zinc and had success whether male or female? Thanks Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:00AM I am starting zinc supplementation and I was not sure if I should post this in here or the adhd community I'm also a part of. I am mostly curious about zinc and if it helps libido, but also bringing up something that could possibly h...

I am a lot bigger than my girlfriend but I don't really know how to be rough. She has told me a few times she wants me to be rougher but I'm not quite sure how to be rougher please help me Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:01AM I am a lot bigger than my girlfriend but I don't really know how to be rough. She has told me a few times she wants me to be rougher but I'm not quite sure how to be rougher please help me

Not sure if wrong place, but could use some advice! Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:04AM Not sure if wrong place, but could use some advice!

The title pretty much explains it, I’ve hooked up uncountable times but always stopped before reaching sex for personal reasons. Personal reasons recently changed and I’m excited af for my first one but also very nervous. Here are my questions because this would be very awkward to ask in real life. 1) How tf do I not bust fast, its my biggest fear as the girl I’m doing it with is quite experienced and she thinks I’m the shit. I really don’t wanna disappoint and I want to last long. I know I shouldn’t be nervous but I cant help, any tips? 2) I know foreplay I’ve done oral, but when do I know to stop foreplay and do it? 3) Again pls I’m so scared to bust/nut quick, it would be very embarrassing. My friends told me to jerk off before going which I will do but are there any like secret tips? Pls help a brother out I don’t want my first sex to last shorter than a minute thanks. Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:05AM The title pretty much explains it, I’ve hooked up uncountable time...

I miss sex...I was thinking about it last night. I'm 31, a guy and painfully sexless. Not for a lack of trying, I go places, I'm fairly sociable. Couldn't help but think about how long it's been since since I was on top of a woman....or had a nice makeout. Bi the way, I've also had some male partners, but that's dropped off as well. Trying to look for women right now. I guess I just want sex right now, no strings, not looking for relationships. I have the apps, but those are not great. Can anyone relate? Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:05AM I miss sex...I was thinking about it last night. I'm 31, a guy and painfully sexless. Not for a lack of trying, I go places, I'm fairly sociable. Couldn't help but think about how long it's been since since I was on top of a woman....or had a nice makeout. Bi the way, I've also had some male partners, but that's dropped off as well. Trying to look for women right now. I guess I just want sex ri...

This guy I’m hooking up with absolutely won’t let me get on top. He lets me straddle him while we’re making out, but as soon as we’re ready to get down to it, he throws me off and takes me however he wants. Is there a reason why he wouldn’t want me to ride him?? Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:05AM This guy I’m hooking up with absolutely won’t let me get on top. He lets me straddle him while we’re making out, but as soon as we’re ready to get down to it, he throws me off and takes me however he wants. Is there a reason why he wouldn’t want me to ride him??

Holy shit!!! is all I can say. Is it wrong to think that it's even better than sex?! Does that even make sense? I mean the sensations, the tongue action, the warmth, the suction ... she was like perfect and I came in like 3 minutes flat ... it takes me way longer in bed She was so flattered, she offered another round if I was ready, but that took me some time. I offered to return the favor, (to be honest, would be my first time too) but she declined and told me to save it for later. Is it wrong to think I might be falling in love? She's amazing and holy shit, she made me lose my mind so many times last night. I gotta return the favor in a huge way! What do I do? Submitted January 15, 2020 at 12:08AM Holy shit!!! is all I can say.Is it wrong to think that it's even better than sex?! Does that even make sense? I mean the sensations, the tongue action, the warmth, the suction ... she was like perfect and I came in like 3 minutes flat ... it takes me way longer in be...