I'm getting really fed up. I deal with my husband not being able to last long in sex. I have been dealing with my husband having an extremely low sex drive due to his medication and mental illness. Now I'm really getting annoyed that when we are having the sex he acts childish. It's difficult to explain, but he speaks in child talk. He will talk about what he wants to do later in the night, or whatever except what we're doing. The sex doesn't last long so I just want the few minutes I get to be hot. I want to feel sexy, hit, and wanted when I have sex. I don't feel like that at all. It's just a thing we do every couple of weeks. I know I could try to initiate speaking sexual and talking about how attractive he is... But knowing him, he won't take that seriously. In general he's just not sexual. I'll text him about wanting to give him head and he literally responds "wut?" Then any desire I have is gone. I've even sent him 1 photo of...

Anyone who truly loves you is going to love you no matter what. Your dad might be disappointed for a bit, but that’s his issue. If you lose a friend over being true to yourself, then perhaps they weren’t that good of a friend to begin with. My daughter came out to me in a store at the age of 12. My response, “Cool. Now what do you want for supper?” I already knew her and her sister’s orientation. I didn’t need them to tell me. I’m their mom nothing is going to change how close we are nor how much I love them. Much support and love to you! May 14, 2020 at 12:05AM

Me (20f) and my long distance SO (20m) had a conversation, he stated that I have a boring sex life. I mean I learned I give great head , but I can’t fuck for the life of me. And of course I felt confused and hurt because I felt like this came out of nowhere.We are both inexperienced and the past couple of times he’s never asked to do anything new and I never initiated to do anything new either. I was wondering if any of you kind strangers would have any advice or articles. Any help would be great , thank you . Submitted May 14, 2020 at 12:07AM Me (20f) and my long distance SO (20m) had a conversation, he stated that I have a boring sex life. I mean I learned I give great head , but I can’t fuck for the life of me. And of course I felt confused and hurt because I felt like this came out of nowhere.We are both inexperienced and the past couple of times he’s never asked to do anything new and I never initiated to do anything new either. I was wondering if any of you kind strangers ...

Same, glad I come here to learn otherwise! Why would people want to do that with Netflix running anyway. May 14, 2020 at 12:05AM

I've been having quite a lot of issues with pleasuring my boyfriend (M21) sexually. I know not every man is the same but jesus christ, this guy is quite picky. You would think he could at least cum with the thinnest condom on and let him have at it with my body but no, he just can't cum. I've tried blowing him many times, many times it has taken me 45 minutes, even more, to get him to cum, sometimes he just doesn't. The other day he couldn't cum because supposedly his balls were cold. Then he didn't want my arm to be resting on his leg. It's a lot to do to get him at least "close" but it just doesn't happen. Then he always has to piss and cant cum because of it, sometimes it the positions he is in. It's just so complicated sometimes, like how it's hard to make a girl cum because the vagina is so complicated, I know from experience but I thought a man would have it easier. He has mentioned that he hasn't missed a day of masturbating...

My ex-manager thought I was gay and tried to make me come out... I didn’t even know I was on the ace spectrum at the time. He just thought it was super weird I’m not interested in guys or dating. May 14, 2020 at 12:04AM

Oof I’m that person with the awkward misunderstanding. He started coming on strong and when I shut it down he got upset because I said to come “Netflix and chill.” I was like yeah, we’re watching Netflix and relaxing/ getting to know each other, what’s the deal?? 😂 May 14, 2020 at 12:03AM

I've noticed my orgasms just seem weaker as of late.. I'm a 23M. Sex with my fiancée [23F] is great, but it seems like the build up is good and the orgasm is okay, but its just not as great as I remember it back when I was a teen. I feel like it should be more intense. I have no issues getting aroused or cumming. What could be the problem? I am on Prozac 60mg. Submitted May 14, 2020 at 12:20AM I've noticed my orgasms just seem weaker as of late.. I'm a 23M. Sex with my fiancée [23F] is great, but it seems like the build up is good and the orgasm is okay, but its just not as great as I remember it back when I was a teen. I feel like it should be more intense. I have no issues getting aroused or cumming. What could be the problem?I am on Prozac 60mg.

I know three ace friends who wear hoodies a lot and I'm one of them May 14, 2020 at 12:01AM

I want this now :( May 14, 2020 at 12:01AM

At age 4 an Orc threw a large, metal, and sharp tool on my hand. Luckily the village healer sewed the finger back on. It doesn't move, but I like to pretend it's a hook and say "Yar!" at people. May 13, 2020 at 11:56PM

Yeah, I mean I wouldn't mind so much and ignored it If it wasn't for the fact that it felt like she was forcing herself into me. It felt nauseating and was just I don't know how to explain it like I just needed to shower even though she didn't actually physically touch me it still made feel disgusting like I needed to scrub it away, you know? I don't know if I'm describing it well. May 13, 2020 at 11:52PM

* Please do not send me any creepy dms * I have a history of sexual assault and that was my first sexual experience. I used to suffer from nightmares and the first few times I had consensual sex I cried/had panic attacks. My boyfriend of two years and I broke up around a month ago and he is the only person I have ever had consensual sex with. I’m interested in starting to slowly get back into dating but this is my biggest fear/insecurity. How do I have sex with someone else? Has anyone else been through this? What made you more comfortable? Honestly at this point I want to just hookup with someone on tinder to get it over with so I’m not stressing so much. Submitted May 13, 2020 at 11:56PM *Please do not send me any creepy dms*I have a history of sexual assault and that was my first sexual experience. I used to suffer from nightmares and the first few times I had consensual sex I cried/had panic attacks.My boyfriend of two years and I broke up around a month ago and he is the...

Well the title pretty much says it all... There's this girl who works at a grocery story I visit a lot. Mostly when i'm walking around in the grocery store I noticed her looking at me, but in a sneaky way. Mostly after I paid for like some food or other small groceries I'll just sit down outside and relax and enjoy the nice weather, there's this spot in front of the building and I noticed she keeps looking at me while she's working when i'm just sitting there (sometimes i'm with a friend but she never looks at him.) Obviously there's some distance since she's inside and i'm outside and there's glass between us. Anyway, she always stares/looks at me when I go there but when she's done working she walks past me with earphones in and doesn't look at me (she kinda looks awkward while walking past me). I do know her name since she's the younger sister of a girl I kind of know (her sis works there as well) The thing is, i'm a shy g...

I've been talking to this girl online for the past two months and over the past two months we've gotten really close with each other. We started talking during quarantine and so we haven't been able to hang often. During the quarantine I've only seen her twice and for the two times that I saw her we both had a really great time just going for a walk and talking. She always tells me how much she wants to hang out with me and she even said that she was more comfortable hanging with me 1 on 1 instead of bringing our friends. Even though we've mostly communicated through texts, she has told me a lot of personal stuff about her past and constantly vented to me. She even told me that I was her go to person whenever something good or bad happens to her. Another thing was that earlier in our conversation she asked me who I liked and what I like in girls. This gave me a thought that she maybe interested in being in a relationship with me. There were even a few times where ...

Long story short, met this girl in Feb at university. Became comfortable with one another and hung out one on one alot. Since lockdown we’ve been talking every day on messenger and calling/video calling every so often while also snap chatting alot. Back in March I asked her out on a date for after lockdown finished to which she replied only if it was McDonalds. I thought it was odd. But since then we’ve been talking alot each day with her often initiating with good morning texts. Recently shes let me know shes going to be going back home next week due to personal stuff with her family that she has told me about and this has occurred unexpectedly. Though I’m glad shes told me I feel like I’ve been played because it’s made me think back to when I asked her out with her saying Maccies like did this mean she saw me as a friend only? I mean since then I feel like we have definitely been flirting one on one like I’m 100% certain she knew I liked her. Snapchats between us were often of the c...

A friend of mine recently got out of a month and a half situationship and was once more upset that men don't seem to want to make her a girlfriend. This was her second experience like this, so another friend shared an analogy with her that I think is really useful when we think about what we want out of dating: "I think of hanging out with a guy, flirting, going on dates without calling it dating or anything formal--all of that is ice cream. Being someone's girlfriend, or dating exclusively, or having a formal tag is a burrito. Eating ice cream does not ever magically turn into a burrito. Eating ice cream is eating ice cream, and if you aren't sure if you want ice cream or a burrito, turn down both until you know what you want. Unless, of course, you are genuinely happy to get a random mix of both that will statistically likely be 99% ice cream). If you realize you want ice cream, and then realize you want a burrito, say so. But don't except Ben and Jerry's...

I(23F) was always someone who was really serious and needed things to be really concrete about expectations etc. but now I could care less. Nobody seems to want to talk to one person at a time and I don't really want to either- I just don't know how to play the game! Any advice on how to keep a person you're not in a relationship with yet (or not) interested? I know the whole "just be yourself", "be honest about how you feel" is a cute thought to have but not during the early talking phase..especially during this whole quarantine situation. Besides that, a lot of guys would approach me or flirt with me in general and would quickly lose interest when they realize they I don't really provide a feeling of "the chase". I'm more of a chill person- I'll answer right away if my phone is in my hand, and if they don't seem interested anymore I won't chase them. Things die out when I'm being genuine right off the bat because I d...

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Babe, you're seriously the love of my life and I know I always sound like a broken record but you are. You have been the love of my life for 11 months and 3 days, that's a lot and seriously my longest relationship yet and I'm glad it's with you. For the past 2 weeks I've been having dreams about you non-stop because you're always on my mind 24/7, if dreams are the only way I get to see you and touch you and feel you during this quarantine then so be it baby at least I get to experience you again. I am lucky to be in love with my bestfriend I often think about the first time we met and how shy I was to even look at you, hell even talk to you but you decided to make conversation and I swear when I looked up at you I felt an instant connection. It sounds odd but it's the truth and it's a connection I have never felt with anyone in my whole entire life, not even with my closest friends even from way back in middle school. You are the only person I have fel...

Maybe this is something we’ll tell our grandchildren about, pining for each other through an era of uncertainty and fear. It’s the longest time we’ll be apart, and we thought it would only last for a few months. Here we are, a scary span of time ahead of us, and no one could fill the hole in my life that you leave. I need the ocean to fill and the world to stop spinning so I can start the long walk into your arms. If I could I’d swim to you, I’d quarantine for years with you, I’d be locked into a room with only you and be as content as a woman can be. What I wouldn’t give to be beside you right now, your fingers through my hair, your breath on my ear, whispering that you love me. I miss you. Submitted May 13, 2020 at 11:43PM Maybe this is something we’ll tell our grandchildren about, pining for each other through an era of uncertainty and fear. It’s the longest time we’ll be apart, and we thought it would only last for a few months. Here we are, a scary span of time ahead of us,...

I matched with this girl on Tinder a week ago, asked her out the same day, she agreed, but we'll have to wait due to corona, our own respective finals etc. We kept talking, she gave me her number without me asking, asked me out to do something together and I accepted that. When we texts she sometimes replies fast, sometimes it takes hours, but that's ok, I know why as stated before (I usually reply in a few minutes tho, can't be bothered to seem "cool"), but she often texts me late at night, and there is always a follow up text/question, even when I say something mundane like "Got an early lecture tommorow, gotta hit the bed", tommorow morning she'll say something like "so how was that lecture". Also, many long texts about details from her day. Sign? Submitted May 13, 2020 at 11:52PM I matched with this girl on Tinder a week ago, asked her out the same day, she agreed, but we'll have to wait due to corona, our own respective fina...

so I started talking to this girl and didn't realize she is currently in the phillipines. the site she messaged me on was an English one. she then said to make an account for this site "truly Asian" I had a look at the reviews of the site online and it all looked legit. her account was photo verified and she also wanted to facetime but the timing was inconvinient so as far as trust goes at the moment I trust her. but this is where I realized she lives in the Philippines. at this point I feel stuck. I really want to speak with her live but now I know that we are living in different countries (im in the uk) I really don't know what to do. Submitted May 14, 2020 at 12:05AM so I started talking to this girl and didn't realize she is currently in the phillipines. the site she messaged me on was an English one. she then said to make an account for this site "truly Asian" I had a look at the reviews of the site online and it all looked legit. her account...