It’s hard to like it when you are in the middle of the spectrum and can’t fit the societal standard on sexual stuff. Yet, can’t fully relate to being ace either. So it’s a no but working on it being a yes :) January 19, 2022 at 11:38PM

I posted on here the other day about a girl I am seeing and asked if I should keep meeting her. So I met her the 2nd time yesterday and we had a really really good time and we had a lot to talk about. We kissed like 30 times and held each other’s hand. Pretty romantic you know. I know her friend and he’s like “She have never been so happy after a date” “She loves being with you she think you are attractive and kind” So like only positive stuff and she sends hearts etc. She asked me if I wanted to “Watch a movie at her place on Friday” Hahahhaha. The dilemma as I’ve mentioned here before is that she had been dating a guy much longer than me but she says she likes me 100 times more to her friends. She’s a bit weird there because she have said she hate him but like him in a way. So pretty unclear. I get that we have only met 2 times and I can’t just expect here to not talk to any guy. I just feel it’s double signals because she says she love being with me and ask me out, She also tol...

So to give a bit of context. Matched with a girl (23) on tinder, talked to her for 2 weeks, was gonna ask to meetup before but everything was in lockdown here, well its open now. So I asked her 2 days ago if she wanted to go do some bowling with me next week. She said she'd like to. Here comes the sitation where I'm like should I just move on. Yesterday she asks me if I'm cool with her brining her best friend with her. I wasn't sure how to reply to this, but eventually I told her I'm fine with it but suggested if I'd bring a friend to, make it a double date thing. (paraphrasing here) Her "oh didn't know it was date, thought a random meetup" Me: "Oh well yeah I meant as a date, if you still up for it text me I guess" Her: "Well I'm up for meeting but only as a normal meetup" Like how should I respond to this? My inital reaction is meeting will be a waste of time, lets just go bowling with my friend. Submitted Janu...

I (23F) started seeing a wonderful guy (25M) in November. We’ve spent a lot of time together, slept over each others places, met each other’s friends, and overall have a really good connection so far. We both recently got out of long term relationships a few months before meeting each other, so we’re taking things slow. I don’t see any reason to date around anymore. I’m not ready to label our relationship, but I’m ready to give exclusivity a shot while we continue to get to know each other. We talked about it today and he admitted that he was still looking to meet other people. He said he has no desire to be intimate or physical with anyone else, but that he needs time to figure things out. We decided that this was okay as long as we both kept each other updated about where we are at and how we are feeling. I trust him to communicate what he’s feeling. I still don’t want to see other people right now. Even if it doesn’t work out, I want to enjoy the time spent for what it is. It’s o...

For the past few years I sorta emotionally screwed myself. I maintained basically a very close emotional relationship with a poly friend, we never had sex but she was in my life 95% of the time where so much of my energy went and everyone thought she was my gf. During that time I dated, but it almost exclusively ended up being short term or just for sex. I’ve only been seriously dating, looking to cultivate a relationship for three months and have gone on three dates, only one which is now leading to a second date. We chatted for almost a month before meeting up. The holiday travel sorta messed with our schedules. To be honest she is just the the type of woman I know I’ll get on with. I’m trying not to go overboard with anything. I’m not the type of guy that likes to go directly to sex, I’m shy and sorta slow and usually wait for cues from the woman. But the opposite has sorta been the norm for so long. What are the rules anyways? She broke the physical barrier by hugging me a coup...

I was chatting with a guy for a few months we had been keeping in touch and hooked up, we live in different cities. Well we are both traveling abroad rn and I sent a text to him yday, he responded and asked a question and I sent him a pic of something and he responded and then asked him how hes doing! He read my message but did not reply, I’m the four months I’ve known him, he’s never done this, he legit will reply first thing in the morning if he reads my texts and will respond later with a more detailed text. Well yday was the day first time ever he’s left me on read….I feel kinda happy. The fact he couldn’t make it a priority to text me, or send anything, makes me feel so much less attracted to him. I feel like I can easily move on now. For the record he always did more reaching out to me than him I but I’m trying to be more myself and not play games and was trying to show interest but not come on too strong but I guess he likes the games….. Blessed to now move on to better thi...

I think he says that he was born as a girl and change sex to drawn less attention in the anime. January 19, 2022 at 11:36PM