So I(F16) didn't have my first kiss yet and I am seeing someone atm. We give each other pecks on the lips but nothing more. He has kissed before but I haven't. I'm just freaking out a bit and I have already rejected him a few times before because I get super nervous. Any help? Advice? Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:03AM So I(F16) didn't have my first kiss yet and I am seeing someone atm. We give each other pecks on the lips but nothing more. He has kissed before but I haven't. I'm just freaking out a bit and I have already rejected him a few times before because I get super nervous. Any help? Advice?

I am an 18 year old highschool student who s had a crush on my hot colleague for some time now.4 days ago there was a big birthday party for another colleague and we were both invited. Prior to this party we texted for many days a lot, and she has shown a lot of interest sending me selfies and asking why I take too long to reply sometimes. Right before the party, she called me( i didn t give her my number, i dont know where she got it from) At the party there was some booze involved. At 2 am there some romantic music and I ve seen she and her bff talking and looking at me. We danced together for a while, she put her head on my shoulder and often grabbed to get closer to her. At the end of the dance I hugged her and kissed her forehead which she seemed to like. At 3 am I had to leave and she was looking sad and didn t want me to leave so early. One of my friends heard her talking with her bff about how I am dumb for leaving early and leaving her alone. 2 days passed and I decided to as...

I met this amazing woman who is smart beautiful and funny. I found out she was married in Ukraine but explained that it was a fake marriage ut of convenience. She calmly explained that married women have more rights in her city and she won't be harassed by police and intelligence services. She didn't want anything for her birthday and only wanted perfume for Christmas when I offered and she asked if I was sure. We have spoken on the phone and she is trying to get a visa to visit me in America. Advice please? I am 27 and she is 23. She gets upset when I have back pain and worried when I was in the hospital. I'm just not sure if I can trust her? Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:08AM I met this amazing woman who is smart beautiful and funny. I found out she was married in Ukraine but explained that it was a fake marriage ut of convenience. She calmly explained that married women have more rights in her city and she won't be harassed by police and intelligence servi...

I am in the middle of a conversation with a guy who I recently matched with on a dating app and I have no clue where to go with what he sent me. If someone could PM me I would seriously appreciate it :) Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:09AM I am in the middle of a conversation with a guy who I recently matched with on a dating app and I have no clue where to go with what he sent me. If someone could PM me I would seriously appreciate it :)

So I have been dating this girl for the last 2 months, and everything has been going amazing. But she has been living with her parents for the last year after she had a tough brake up. She’s finally moving out and I’m happy for her but she’s moving in with 2 other guys. Her best friends boyfriend used to live there but is moving in with her best friend, and they needed someone to take over his part of the lease. She decided she was going to take over his part of the lease. One of the guys that lives there is one of her friends I guess. I haven’t met this guy before and I assumed they have been friends for a long time. She mentioned him helping her move some of her stuff over to their apartment since I’m out of town on leave right now (I’m active duty). I asked her if she went to high school with this guy or something and she said she just met this guy this year but he’s friends with a lot of her friends. She also tells me they go to the bars a lot with him and her other friends. Am ...

So I met this guy back in August and I guess we are kind of dating. We have had sex many times. We always use protection and I'm on birth control but I remember taking a medication for a week which probably screwed up the birth control idk. Like a month ago I started feeling really sick; it got so bad that I went to the hospital a couple weeks ago with my mom and they took some tests and told me I'm pregnant. I had a prenatal appointment two weeks ago and they estimated I was about 8 weeks along. A few days ago I went to the guys house to just hangout. Of course, eventually we start fooling around. I kind of pushed him off of me and he asked me what was wrong. I told him I was sorry and he tried kissing me again but I once again pushed him off of me and told him I'm pregnant. He just got off of me slowly and looked shocked. He asked me if I was sure and I said yes. Then he asked if he baby was his and I got upset and screamed yes at him. I got upset and ran out the door....

Basically, on dating apps I come across people that leave social tags in their bio. Do you want to add them? Are they doing this just for more followers? Let’s say you do message them, do you message them with a sort of pickup line like you would on the app? Or just like a hey? You’re on X app? And also, should they need to match for you to add them on their socials or do you just add before you match? Thanks! Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:23AM Basically, on dating apps I come across people that leave social tags in their bio. Do you want to add them? Are they doing this just for more followers? Let’s say you do message them, do you message them with a sort of pickup line like you would on the app? Or just like a hey? You’re on X app? And also, should they need to match for you to add them on their socials or do you just add before you match?Thanks!

Why must I always want but can never be wanted? Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:31AM Why must I always want but can never be wanted?

I’ve been trying to get a date from tinder conversations for a while and it just about never happens. I was talking to someone on text and he ghosted me and now someone just unmatched me after I asked him how he likes his job.. when we were talking about work.. So many people just stop responding or they say things that just bring a conversation to a halt and idk how to respond. Why is this so hard? Why can’t we just go back to asking people out in person? Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:32AM I’ve been trying to get a date from tinder conversations for a while and it just about never happens.I was talking to someone on text and he ghosted me and now someone just unmatched me after I asked him how he likes his job.. when we were talking about work..So many people just stop responding or they say things that just bring a conversation to a halt and idk how to respond. Why is this so hard? Why can’t we just go back to asking people out in person?

So I met this guy on Hinge and we hit it off. We texted and sexted...sent pictures and all of that. We met up in person and basically made out in his car but didn't really fool around or hook up. Nothing really took off after that, I kind of let things fade and I had lost interest. I started a new job recently at a nearby hospital and have been enjoying it for the last month or so. Out of the blue, this guy reaches out to me and tells me that he regretted not pursuing me more, was interested in no strings attached and we had chemistry. I'm trying to focus on myself so I turned him down nicely. Later that week, I saw him outside of the operating room. I've seen him like FOUR times now and it always throws me off. I'm attracted to him, but I don't know how compatible we would be. Should I just continue to ignore it or should I make a move? If something is going to happen I feel like it's on me because I had turned him do when he reached out. Thoughts? Submi...

Hey everyone 33 y/o male and 33 y/o female. I just went on a third date with woman I've been seeing about an hour ago. The whole relationship has been pretty text book. First date went for coffee, second date was dinner and a walk where we just kissed, and the third date was out for lunch and watched a movie at my place. I don't like to expect anything so I'm not disappointed but thought we might have taken it a bit further this afternoon. But it was only a few brief make outs. I didn't really get the drift she wanted to take it further so I did not. But how many dates do you usually go on before sleeping with someone? I've had one night stands and dated a ton. But it was more in my 20s not my 30s so not really sure what it's like thank you. Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:11AM Hey everyone 33 y/o male and 33 y/o female. I just went on a third date with woman I've been seeing about an hour ago. The whole relationship has been pretty text book. Fir...

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But i needed to finally respect myself and that resulted in the end of our relationship. I still hope we end up together in the long run but im no longer dwelling on that thought. My love for you has become healthy and permanent. To everyone feeling like they lost their soulmate just believe everything happens for a reason and if its meant to be it will be. I’ve only been able to picture my life with one person and i had to leave them but i have this strange feeling we will both grow and find our way back to each other. Could just be hope but i let the thought enter my mind and flow right back out Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:09AM But i needed to finally respect myself and that resulted in the end of our relationship. I still hope we end up together in the long run but im no longer dwelling on that thought. My love for you has become healthy and permanent.To everyone feeling like they lost their soulmate just believe everything happens for a reason and if its meant to be i...

Oh ok lol I just went on Amazon and yeah fantasy forge are the people who make the rings I'm getting the all black one with purple accents December 23, 2019 at 12:08AM

Only person who has questioned mine was my nonbinary pansexual sibling. If anyone outside the ace community notices, it's gonna be other LGBT people who are gonna be unlikely to be assholes about asexuality. December 22, 2019 at 11:59PM

I actually just got it on Amazon lol December 22, 2019 at 11:58PM

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I am curious what options exist for the lonely homesteader or individual living off grid and away from others? I'm not living off grid just yet, however by 2021 or sooner I will begin building a forever home on a coupke acres in the US,preferably California,Oregan or Alaska. This is actually a dream come true for me, I'm 34 now and have been planning this since I got tired of the rat race. Ive already traveled and have experience in life Im ready to live my dream and start a family. For the last year or so I have been researching, and recently started to make actual changes in my life to pull the needed trigger and get the ball rolling. Now, without revealing too much: I was in a long term relationship that ended after I moved to persue my life goals. My intentions back then are what they are now, and my girlfriend at the time had her own intentions and plans. Things were great however our goals were different and as such we parted ways mutually. I'm finding it very diff...

I (25,F) matched with a guy on Tinder who super liked me and who I thought was attractive. We start to talk and he became intent on meeting up immediately. When I finally responded to him, he set up a date immediately. Something told me to ask for his Instagram and when he gave it to me I was shocked. He is at least 50 pounds heavier in real life in current Instagram pictures and his whole look is much older and just different. His tinder pics are clearly from his early 20s. I immediately confronted him and told him his pictures are not updated and he got upset and said he had gained the weight because he was ill and finds it ridiculous that I brought it up. I explained to him that I'm not here to make him feel terrible, but that I firmly believe no matter where you are physically, your online pictures should just reflect that accurately. My online pictures are always current and reflective of how I look like on the day to day, and if anything changes, even as much as my hair styl...

Just had the most amazing First date in the middle of the week. I am 33f went out with a 33m and things went really well we went back to his place. I somehow really liked him after meeting him in one night and chatting for several days. He was such a gentleman the whole time and I was the one that elevated things to the next level of intimacy. Did I take it too far? We got along really well on what felt like a soul-connection (IMO) and he texted the next morning on what he insists we should do on our next date (watch a specific film we talked about) at his place, after stating that he had a really nice evening with me. Since then, the frequency of his messages has dropped off. I guess I’m new to dating apps and before we met, it was constant texting for consecutive days with good morning and good night greetings. Is it just me looking too far into this, or could I have done something to turn him off, or is this part of ‘the game’. My friend says this is what it’s like in nyc dating an...