Should I go to his house and makeout with him?

So I met this guy back in August and I guess we are kind of dating. We have had sex many times. We always use protection and I'm on birth control but I remember taking a medication for a week which probably screwed up the birth control idk. Like a month ago I started feeling really sick; it got so bad that I went to the hospital a couple weeks ago with my mom and they took some tests and told me I'm pregnant. I had a prenatal appointment two weeks ago and they estimated I was about 8 weeks along.

A few days ago I went to the guys house to just hangout. Of course, eventually we start fooling around. I kind of pushed him off of me and he asked me what was wrong. I told him I was sorry and he tried kissing me again but I once again pushed him off of me and told him I'm pregnant.

He just got off of me slowly and looked shocked. He asked me if I was sure and I said yes. Then he asked if he baby was his and I got upset and screamed yes at him. I got upset and ran out the door. He was like "no wait. Come back." I ran out of the house and went home. Then he kept texting and calling me and I didn't reply for a couple days.

I finally did reply and he came over. I gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek; I tried kissing him on the lips but he kind of pulled away. We sat down and talked about the baby. I told him I want to keep the baby and have him be part of the baby's life. He said he wanted that.

I asked him about the relationship between him and me. I asked him if he wanted to be more than friends and he said he didn't know. Then he had the nerve to tell me that he doesn't like how I get upset easily and he doesn't like me complaining and nagging all the time. I get pissed off and yelled at and told him to leave.

A couple hours ago, he came over and brought me flowers for my birthday. I took the flowers and shoved them down the sink and turned the disposal on. He look angry and hurt and left.

I feel bad for what I did. How do I get him to come back and makeout with me?

I'm 25 and he's 28.

tl;dr - how do I go about this situation with this guy after he "dumped" me?



Submitted December 23, 2019 at 12:20AM

So I met this guy back in August and I guess we are kind of dating. We have had sex many times. We always use protection and I'm on birth control but I remember taking a medication for a week which probably screwed up the birth control idk. Like a month ago I started feeling really sick; it got so bad that I went to the hospital a couple weeks ago with my mom and they took some tests and told me I'm pregnant. I had a prenatal appointment two weeks ago and they estimated I was about 8 weeks along.A few days ago I went to the guys house to just hangout. Of course, eventually we start fooling around. I kind of pushed him off of me and he asked me what was wrong. I told him I was sorry and he tried kissing me again but I once again pushed him off of me and told him I'm pregnant.He just got off of me slowly and looked shocked. He asked me if I was sure and I said yes. Then he asked if he baby was his and I got upset and screamed yes at him. I got upset and ran out the door. He was like "no wait. Come back." I ran out of the house and went home. Then he kept texting and calling me and I didn't reply for a couple days.I finally did reply and he came over. I gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek; I tried kissing him on the lips but he kind of pulled away. We sat down and talked about the baby. I told him I want to keep the baby and have him be part of the baby's life. He said he wanted that.I asked him about the relationship between him and me. I asked him if he wanted to be more than friends and he said he didn't know. Then he had the nerve to tell me that he doesn't like how I get upset easily and he doesn't like me complaining and nagging all the time. I get pissed off and yelled at and told him to leave.A couple hours ago, he came over and brought me flowers for my birthday. I took the flowers and shoved them down the sink and turned the disposal on. He look angry and hurt and left.I feel bad for what I did. How do I get him to come back and makeout with me?I'm 25 and he's 28.tl;dr - how do I go about this situation with this guy after he "dumped" me?
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