So, I’ve recently just broke up with my bf and we were together for about 6 months. But, previously I have dated other guys and it’s always the same where we end up starting out and hitting it off but then break things off 3-6 months in. This has been happening for the last four years ever since I started dating. I’ve taken breaks in between from 3-9 months to reconstruct myself. But each time the guy just either always says they don’t have the same feelings anymore or that they are struggling with something and need to get in a better headspace. I’ve asked friends for advice but I always either get “he was playing games from the start” or “ don’t think about it too much”. But, I’m really just feeling like I’m lacking something that allows or makes it so easy for other girls to keep guys interested in them. I’m not very clingy at all I tend to like my space and see my SO when we both can and I understand that work and life happens so I don’t get upset when things come up or we have t...

Got this girls number from my co worker, never met her lol Just really weird because I never met her, I had to just txt her out of the blue. She is a church girl, and we talked about food, her career. And even asked her out to a small food festival, but said she worked on Sunday’s and didn’t even offer another day smh We exchanged ig, but i feel like she’s to good of a girl based of her pics, while im the guy that goes out etc based off my pics ( which are old pics from like 2015) Submitted October 26, 2022 at 12:18AM Got this girls number from my co worker, never met her lolJust really weird because I never met her, I had to just txt her out of the blue. She is a church girl, and we talked about food, her career. And even asked her out to a small food festival, but said she worked on Sunday’s and didn’t even offer another day smhWe exchanged ig, but i feel like she’s to good of a girl based of her pics, while im the guy that goes out etc based off my pics ( which are old pics...

I went on a few dates with a girl, and we hit it off well. She suddenly said she doesn’t think it will work without reason. I’m going to talk with her in the next day or two. I feel we really get along well and have a lot in common. I want to go out with her again. Thoughts on what I should say? Submitted October 26, 2022 at 12:22AM I went on a few dates with a girl, and we hit it off well. She suddenly said she doesn’t think it will work without reason. I’m going to talk with her in the next day or two. I feel we really get along well and have a lot in common. I want to go out with her again. Thoughts on what I should say?

So basically I joined a club at my university and this girl was assigned as my "buddy" for the semester. She's older than me and she is a grad student. We do weekly activities for the club and like, 2 weeks ago it was homecoming week and one of the activities was attending one of the events, we got a little drunk and things escalated a little but nothing happened. Last Friday, she was drinking at a party, and she asked me to come, I arrived and she was pretty drunk; I started drinking too and we kissed multiple times, spent the night together talking and kissing and shit, and she told me multiple times that she finds attractive and not only cause she was drunk, but she also said that its wrong cause shes my "buddy". (Also, she did say multiple times that she wanted to have sex but I didn't want to because she was too drunk) Then, Sunday, we talked about it and she told me that she didn't know how she felt about everything and then I told her that I a...

Talking to this woman over text. We made tentative plans for tomorrow night. This morning I texted her and asked her if we were still on. Waiting to hear back. I think if I don't hear from her by tomorrow about noon then I'm just going to assume it's canceled and she's not interested. She has told me twice now that she isn't "glued to her phone like most people". I'm not the kind of person to assume that someone is lying just because I don't like the answer so if you're going to tell me she's lying just fuck off. Submitted October 26, 2022 at 12:27AM Talking to this woman over text. We made tentative plans for tomorrow night. This morning I texted her and asked her if we were still on. Waiting to hear back. I think if I don't hear from her by tomorrow about noon then I'm just going to assume it's canceled and she's not interested.She has told me twice now that she isn't "glued to her phone like most people...

That's awesome! I googled and here's a quote from Tim's book: I knew what I wasn’t: I wasn’t interested in boys, and I really wasn’t interested in girls. For many years, I described myself as asexual, and I still think that’s closest to the truth. October 25, 2022 at 11:15PM

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Correct. Her video is what actually pushed me over the edge to identify as ace myself. October 25, 2022 at 11:09PM