So, I'm (F25) just interested in casual sex, but I've found that in the context of a hook up, with sexting etc., The vast majority of men are hyper dominant. There's a whole lot of "I'm gonna push you on your knees and watch you choke on my cock" kind of talk, and I'm honestly not that comfortable being treated so submissively for a hook up. I don't know about other females, but to be roughly handled during sex, I'd much prefer to know and trust the person first. So, personally, I'd like to find a sexual partner where I can get what I want, the way that I want it. This doesn't mean humiliation or degradation or being rough with my partner. But the level of submission where I can comfortably say "eat me out" and it not be met with "call me daddy" or asking me to beg for it or being called a naughty little slut. So, my question is, how do I do this? How do I shut down overly dominant behaviour without putting a damper o...

Title pretty much says it. I can't stand the smell or taste of pussy. This has been consistent with multiple women, so it's not just a dirty/stinky pussy issue. I'd like, however, to still be able to pleasure my partner orally, especially if she is performing such for my benefit. Anyone have any suggestions/recommendations how I might still be able to do this? Submitted December 12, 2019 at 12:22AM Title pretty much says it. I can't stand the smell or taste of pussy. This has been consistent with multiple women, so it's not just a dirty/stinky pussy issue. I'd like, however, to still be able to pleasure my partner orally, especially if she is performing such for my benefit. Anyone have any suggestions/recommendations how I might still be able to do this?

I guess I’m a fool and a buffoon and didn’t get the batteries in right, it worked for a moment and died. I paid 25 dollars for it too so I’m just really hoping I can get it replaced since it has a year long warranty. Today has just not been a great day. Submitted December 12, 2019 at 12:23AM I guess I’m a fool and a buffoon and didn’t get the batteries in right, it worked for a moment and died. I paid 25 dollars for it too so I’m just really hoping I can get it replaced since it has a year long warranty. Today has just not been a great day.

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I’ve come across two girls at the gym recently that I thought were pretty cute. Both times I actually asked them if they were still using some equipment and they each smiled at me and said that they were done. Their smiles were warm, maybe suggesting they thought I was cute (or maybe they just smile with everybody). Regardless, I never have the courage to start a conversation. I even know what to say, I just am so timid. I’m a pretty good looking guy. I’m mildly awkward, but I think most girls find it cute. What do I do? I’ve only had one girlfriend for 3 months 4 years ago and it makes me depressed. Submitted December 11, 2019 at 11:32PM I’ve come across two girls at the gym recently that I thought were pretty cute. Both times I actually asked them if they were still using some equipment and they each smiled at me and said that they were done. Their smiles were warm, maybe suggesting they thought I was cute (or maybe they just smile with everybody). Regardless, I never have t...

https://imgur.com/gallery/r1IIGHf Yeah... is she angry at me? Why is she this upset at me? Submitted December 11, 2019 at 11:52PM https://ift.tt/34ij0PD... is she angry at me? Why is she this upset at me?

OK, I'm my 30s. Tinder date is younger (not illegally or creepily so). She seems cool, hot--said she finds me "incredibly attractive," which I think is odd over an app. Cause how can you know if you're not in person? She wanted to go to a nearby city and do some crazy (but safe stuff) on Sunday night, stay over in a hotel, and just sex + party. I'm fine with this and have had similarly crazy tinder experiences. I have made it extremely clear that even if we have an incredible time, sex is never an expectation in a situation like that. She didn't seem worried, but I wanted to be clear that I would never assume consent. She independently texted to double-check the dates on Sunday. Mentioned, she's excited to meet me, very flirty. Drunk texted me Wednesday, letting me know she was excited. Here's the thing. I've realized this sort of stuff stresses me out. She is not easy to get ahold of via text even though she does usually follow up within 12-24 ...

It's been nearly 2 years since he and I started talking, I was dating his friend but every part of me wanted him. It sounds so messed up but he soon became everything to me. Over time his friend left me... We've been together for 5 months and 6 days this time. We want to get married and start a family... You see, I never knew what love was when I was growing up, neither did he. Over time he's taught me so much. I love him more than I ever imagined. Sometimes it scares me. Hearing him laugh is the reason I keep breathing. The miles between us are so many but the love we have makes everything so worth the wait. I fell in love with his soul before I could ever see him or touch him. That's what real love is..loving someone for everything they are and everything they will be. I am so blessed to love him and have him love me in return.... Z, thank you for all you do for me...I love you so. Submitted December 12, 2019 at 12:13AM It's been nearly 2 years since he a...

This post may seem a bit silly to some but I’m just really in need of some advice. I am a 23 year old female and I haven’t been single for years. Now that I’m single I’ve decided to just do me and explore. However, every time I talk to a guy they end up falling in love or becoming attached one way or another. It is honestly frustrating because I’m not looking for anything serious. Yes, I bring this to their attention and they always say they are patient and they will wait. Now, I have started having sex with someone but I feel extremely guilty because of the guys that have serious feelings for me. Somehow I feel wrong even though I don’t owe them anything and I’m not responsible for their feelings. I am a pretty anxious individual and I overthink a lot so I’m not sure if that’s why I feel this way. I have been honest about my feelings from the beginning though. Has this happened to anyone else? Submitted December 11, 2019 at 11:49PM This post may seem a bit silly to some but I’m...

So this post is going to be kind of a musing/rambling/venting one. I am a recent college grad [22M], good job, living in a major metropolitan area. I had been seeing a girl for over a year but she moved across the country for work in May and we agreed we didn't want to do long distance. So now I'm single... One thing I've discovered is that I'm now basically one of the youngest people in the post-college, working world. Everyone even a little bit younger than I am is still kind of stuck in "school world." Many of my coworkers have spouses and families, and almost everyone I meet is significantly older than I am. As far as dating goes, anecdotal evidence suggests that women prefer men the same age up to significantly older than themselves. Because of this, my female friends have had a relatively easy time adjusting to the now-older dating scene. I, on the other hand have a hard time imagining that any of the women I meet or see when I'm out would be int...

Of course this depends but would like to know what amount is kinda the normal thing for you. I'm talking on a weekly basis. For me 1-2 times a week is perfect when you start dating. What about you? Submitted December 11, 2019 at 11:59PM Of course this depends but would like to know what amount is kinda the normal thing for you. I'm talking on a weekly basis.For me 1-2 times a week is perfect when you start dating. What about you?

I'm extremely bad at social situations and It would seem like too much of a stretch for me to even think about talking to women. It just seems so scary and everytime I've tried doing it, I end up getting bullied and knocked and feeling worse off than before. I can't even bring myself to talk to women anymore due to this. Am I doing something wrong or am I the problem and should just give up? Submitted December 11, 2019 at 11:59PM I'm extremely bad at social situations and It would seem like too much of a stretch for me to even think about talking to women. It just seems so scary and everytime I've tried doing it, I end up getting bullied and knocked and feeling worse off than before. I can't even bring myself to talk to women anymore due to this.Am I doing something wrong or am I the problem and should just give up?

Shes lovely and bubbly in person but a nightmare to have a conversation with by text. Anyone else ever had to deal with this? How did you get around the barrier of only really connecting in person ad apposed to messaging? Submitted December 12, 2019 at 12:02AM Shes lovely and bubbly in person but a nightmare to have a conversation with by text.Anyone else ever had to deal with this? How did you get around the barrier of only really connecting in person ad apposed to messaging?

Earlier, I made a post saying that I have a crush who I want to have a relationship with. All of my friends have told me to start a conversation with her. So that’s what I am going to do. I just can’t gather the courage to go up and talk to her. How do I do that? Submitted December 12, 2019 at 12:02AM Earlier, I made a post saying that I have a crush who I want to have a relationship with. All of my friends have told me to start a conversation with her. So that’s what I am going to do. I just can’t gather the courage to go up and talk to her. How do I do that?

Throwaway for obvious reasons So, I'm a 22 y/o f, and I've been in a 6 year long relationship with a guy who's fantastic in most ways, and we're engaged, but the last year and a half or so, I've noticed something a little confusing and I need advice. Every time we have sex, I can't climax unless I think about a woman. I can only get off when I masturbate when thinking about a woman. I dream about them, and the dreams are sometimes so vivid and intense, I can smell and feel them and I wake up craving my dreams so much, it's all I think about for the day. I've had a couple of girlfriends in the past, but nothing ever super serious as the two I was with both moved within 6 months of the relationship. I'm really starting to become concerned. I enjoy having sex with my partner, but I just can't get off unless I think of a woman, and I find myself really wanting to get close with a good friend of mine who's also pansexual, but the only thing keep...

I use the "bro-code" expression because that's the one I know, but this also applies to women, ofc. Submitted December 12, 2019 at 12:06AM I use the "bro-code" expression because that's the one I know, but this also applies to women, ofc.

I’ve [24f] Been kind of on a hiatus from dating for the past year, or “nun” mode as some may say. While [I believe that] it was meant to be that I wasn’t juggling dating amongst dealing with some pretty stressful shit in my job and general life these past months, I feel like the waves have calmed down enough for me to at least to attempt to get back out there... I’ve only dated short term though, I’ve never had a serious relationship before...and I think that’s what is holding me back the most, because of my age and lack of names in my past- and I’m well aware of that. High school and College were duds for a opportunity to find someone; I just wasn’t interested in anyone that crossed paths with me, and now I’m out in the real world with job in Manhattan in Fashion that’s pretty much 90% women and 9% gay men. I never have the opportunity to meet guys organically within the last 2 years. So I always resorted to apps (sans Tinder), and I hated them. It was overwhelming and shallow - you...

Things recently ended with someone I’d been dating for a few months as for her she didn’t see a future long term with me. She said it wasn’t about no longer liking me and enjoyed my company but felt best we don’t invest more in dating. She even admitted that seeing her again would be difficult and cause confusion. Cutting to the chase, we haven’t spoken since Saturday and she unfollowed me on Instagram Sunday. This evening after I viewed a story of hers, I’ve been muted from seeing them. I know it seems stupid to care but I was under the impression we’d remain somewhat friends as we did have a lot in common. Neither of us would post things about new flames or selfies so I at least thought even if we didn’t communicate that Instagram would be one of those ways you indirectly stay in touch. Is there a tactful way to let her know I found it a bit hurtful without seeming whiney? Should I ask if she prefer I not follow her? Submitted December 12, 2019 at 12:08AM Things recently ...

Relationship issues! Please help Relationship issues? So, there’s this boy (18) I’ve been dating for a while now—I’m 18 and a girl and we’ve been together for almost 2 years to be exact and all my life people have been telling me that he’s slowing me down, and he doesn’t dress presentable, and he’s not sociable. I’m black and my boyfriend is Mexican. Obviously, we are very different but we do enjoy each other’s company and have a lot in company. We love anime, playing/watching video games, metal/punk rock and reggae. We even enjoy having our own bdsm sessions a lot. We’ve developed a big sense of friendship on a platonic and intimate level with each other. But my mom doesn’t want us to be together because of her racist views and wanting me to mingle with my own. She thinks very negative of him and says he doesn’t know how to respect his elders because he didn’t verbally say hi to her when they met. He had only waved. He’s extremely introverted and very shy. He’s very shy and awkwa...