I feel guilty for getting to know more than one person at a time
This post may seem a bit silly to some but I’m just really in need of some advice. I am a 23 year old female and I haven’t been single for years. Now that I’m single I’ve decided to just do me and explore. However, every time I talk to a guy they end up falling in love or becoming attached one way or another. It is honestly frustrating because I’m not looking for anything serious. Yes, I bring this to their attention and they always say they are patient and they will wait. Now, I have started having sex with someone but I feel extremely guilty because of the guys that have serious feelings for me. Somehow I feel wrong even though I don’t owe them anything and I’m not responsible for their feelings. I am a pretty anxious individual and I overthink a lot so I’m not sure if that’s why I feel this way. I have been honest about my feelings from the beginning though. Has this happened to anyone else?
Submitted December 11, 2019 at 11:49PM
This post may seem a bit silly to some but I’m just really in need of some advice. I am a 23 year old female and I haven’t been single for years. Now that I’m single I’ve decided to just do me and explore. However, every time I talk to a guy they end up falling in love or becoming attached one way or another. It is honestly frustrating because I’m not looking for anything serious. Yes, I bring this to their attention and they always say they are patient and they will wait. Now, I have started having sex with someone but I feel extremely guilty because of the guys that have serious feelings for me. Somehow I feel wrong even though I don’t owe them anything and I’m not responsible for their feelings. I am a pretty anxious individual and I overthink a lot so I’m not sure if that’s why I feel this way. I have been honest about my feelings from the beginning though. Has this happened to anyone else?
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