I feel like what I'm about to write might come of as racist and just cringeworthy, but here me out? Do you as a Black woman care if you're partner is Asian/Black/White. Do race matter for? Or you just are attracted to men and doesn't care if he's White, Black, Hispanic, Asian etc.? I'm asking Black women, because I've been wanting to date one. I'm a 20 year old white man, if you want know. Don't kill me for this... 🙏 Submitted August 26, 2020 at 12:12AM I feel like what I'm about to write might come of as racist and just cringeworthy, but here me out?Do you as a Black woman care if you're partner is Asian/Black/White. Do race matter for? Or you just are attracted to men and doesn't care if he's White, Black, Hispanic, Asian etc.?I'm asking Black women, because I've been wanting to date one.I'm a 20 year old white man, if you want know.Don't kill me for this... 🙏

hi this might be kind of long but i’ll try and summarise as best as i can. i (17f) have been friends with this boy (18m) since we were 13. we’ve always had a friendship that has had the potential to move into a relationship but there has always been things in the way etc. at one point of our friendship he treated me really badly and would say horrible things to me in order to impress other people. he did apologise but i just thought it was relevant. we go through phases of becoming more close in the “friendship”, talking everyday, seeing eachother more and things like that. in november of 2018 we became extremely close and i actually told him that i liked him. he had just come out of a toxic relationship and didn’t want another relationship but insisted that he liked me and that if he did want to be with someone it would be me. at the same time he was going round another girls house and hooking up with her. i went round his house once while his parents were out and i gave him a blowj...

Cringest solution to mental health problems... EVER. Don't take that answer as valid. Hope you can get some professional help in terms of therapy sessions and medication. Believe me, it helps a lot. August 25, 2020 at 11:53PM

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You are totally on the right track, imo. I’m 41, and I totally get the whole ‘you’re too young’ line. I’ve lived it from both sides - from being 19 and trying to explain myself to people, but not having the right words to explain myself, to making another attempt to come out around 25 and being told ‘you don’t understand yourself’, to coming out yet again at 40 to a few thoughtful, understanding friends in a country that’s not my home, and finally hearing ‘we love you, just be yourself’. For me, sexuality, like life, is a journey. Try to enjoy the ride as best you can. Don’t worry about the things you can’t change, and surround yourself with people who only have joy in their souls August 25, 2020 at 11:51PM

I wrote the altered pattern in the comments, if you can knit, know someone who can knit or are willing to learn how to knit, just make your own August 25, 2020 at 11:50PM

Coming out is important. It makes you feel better, right? So sad she took that position. But hey, not all people understand what is not searching for sex. They have it so internalised that's impossible for them to understand. Maybe she don't understand it. Hope you can talk with her again and explain better what the situation is. Good job in coming out! August 25, 2020 at 11:50PM

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This would have been my exact response. "Come out, you might meet someone!" - no thanks "You should have come, so many snacks!" - WHAT SNACKS?! August 25, 2020 at 11:48PM

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So me (31F) and my now ex (32M) broke it off mutually a few days ago, our values were way to different and there was no getting around it unfortunately (he changed drastically within the last month, current world events brought out these issues). We agreed to stay friends which is what I’ve done in my past relationships as well. Its only been 3 days since then and I’m trying to get over what could have been, everything I built up in my head, but he keeps texting me and its upsetting me. I’ve responded once since then but he keeps texting multiple times. We used to text quite a bit each day (at least 6-7 times back and forth) so I get he’s probably used to that. I’m fine with remaining friends with him, but I can’t be as close to him as I was, it will be to much, what’s the nicest way to say that to him? I tend to be quite blunt when I don’t know what to say and its hard to read that over text as anything but annoyed/pissed off. Should I just keep being silent or tell him to back off...

I met a guy with online dating, he’s not perfect...but we’ve been texting, face timing, and talking during covid and he does seem pretty awesome....and he is very different than others I’ve spoken with in dating apps. However, it turns out by accident in a picture he took, he had his birth year printed in small text on his shirt, and I’m not sure if he thought about it. Like I said he seems great, but his dating profile seemed like three years older than me, but it turns out he’s ten years older than me. I would not have a problem with this if he was forthcoming about the information, I would have been interested in him regardless of his age because of who he is... but I’m not too keen on the idea that he lied about his age in the first place. It caused me to look back at his pictures, and some of his pictures do seem like they’re from younger times, and don’t get me wrong, I do think he is handsome and we connect regardless of his age...but it makes me wonder if he was caught in...