Just looking for some feed back on this topic that I wasn't able to find in the FAQ topics and looking for a female perspective here. Ladies after you and your partner have had PIV sex and he has loaded you up, do you wish he would go down on you and eat you out, or orally clean you? In reading a number of other articles it seems a mix bag to which some believe it to be an erotic thing and orgasm again after while their partner is having his after sex snack, while others are fine with swallowing his cum after a blow job but don't think that if he eats you out after he cums in you as too thrilling. To clarify, this isn't about a dom/sub relationship or cuckolding type, this is about wanting to stay on that post orgasm high a little longer. I'm wanting to eat my gal out after I cum in her but she doesn't think that is a very sexy thing and would rather just take a rinse. I want it to be a thing for both of us. So just looking for some female feed back for this to...

So I'm scared my sex drive has gotten out of hand I'm horny 24/7 and I'm scared that it will ruin my relationship with my girlfriend,I love her to death don't get me wrong but I get scared and worried that because my high sex drive she'll get scared and leave me,she tells me she understands and she doesn't hate me or anything for it but I'm scared to death,I try to get my mind off of anything sexual but since I spend lots of time with her the thoughts just come back,we never get alone time so my sexual cravings just add up and up and I become to get sexually frustrated at times when she initiates something but we never finish,at this point I don't know what to do,I hate myself because it feels like I can't even go a day without having to masturbate or whatever so please,experts of Reddit guide me what do I do I need help what do I do I'm lost and just worried for my relationship thank you. Submitted September 18, 2019 at 12:14AM So I'm...

Anyone experienced this? Submitted September 18, 2019 at 12:14AM Anyone experienced this?

Hey everyone, my girlfriend [22] and I [22] have been experimenting with group sex, but she is too self conscious about her body. She recently gained around 30 pounds and developed many stretch marks on her belly. This does not bother me whatsoever, but it makes her so miserable. We did have one threesome, but my girlfriend wasn't very attracted to the woman and we've put off doing it again for awhile since it wasn't a great experience. Now she's been talking about wanting to try it again and find a friend with benefits that we can hang out with multiple times. But whenever I find somebody, they're always either "too ugly" or "too pretty" even when I think she is prettier than any of them. I'm not trying to pressure her into any of this, since this is all her idea in the first place. But it makes me sad to see her so miserable about it and restricting herself sexually because of it. We've also been having significantly less sex between ...

Hi, my boyfriend and I already have a strapon, but it's pretty difficult to use and doesn't have much support. What's the best strapon to buy so that it maintains its shape, doesn't fall out, and is easy to use? Submitted September 18, 2019 at 12:15AM Hi, my boyfriend and I already have a strapon, but it's pretty difficult to use and doesn't have much support. What's the best strapon to buy so that it maintains its shape, doesn't fall out, and is easy to use?

Could you see yourself dating a person from a totally different part of the world and planning on having a family and kids with that person, if that person was, for now, willing to stay in your country? Why yes /no? Likely implications of that decision: - you will have to travel to their country by plane at least once a year, whether you like flying or not - you will never develop a very strong bond with your spouse's family and miss all their mayor life milestones - in case you ever move to your spouse's home country, the same thing will happen with your family - if you even have a family to speak of in your own country, and you won't be very alone with your spouse here and without his or her family - if you don't want to move to your spouse's home country at some point, they might resent you for it - when a divorce happens and your ex spouse decides to leave the country, shared custody will be impossible, plus one of you guys will have to live without the childr...

That depends, who's asking? September 18, 2019 at 12:16AM

This sounds so sweet and pure! THIS is the kind of thing I want from a relationship. September 18, 2019 at 12:15AM

Brain melting answer: "I'm looking for an appropriate married couple..." and leaving it hanging. So you can confuse the homophobe with issues of bisexuality, a three way relationship, or breaking up a marriage. They won't know that it is a lie and will be trying to work it out. Being as most homophobes I've encountered also claim Christianity that'll have them in a moral morass. September 18, 2019 at 12:14AM

Can I have this September 18, 2019 at 12:03AM

Thanks, I'll give it a try. Much love💜 September 18, 2019 at 12:00AM

Oh no I only have squishes September 17, 2019 at 11:52PM

That's terrible. I was part of my high school's LGBT+ club and they were very accepting. We even included asexuality with the posters. That teacher should definitely be reported. September 17, 2019 at 11:52PM

I’m looking for date ideas for fall that one may not necessarily think of right off the bat. I’ve already got apple-picking, haunted house, pumpkin patch, corn maze, etc. But what are some fall things y’all have really enjoyed that aren’t exactly conventional? Submitted September 17, 2019 at 11:53PM I’m looking for date ideas for fall that one may not necessarily think of right off the bat. I’ve already got apple-picking, haunted house, pumpkin patch, corn maze, etc. But what are some fall things y’all have really enjoyed that aren’t exactly conventional?

Girls ask out guys who already get it ... or are attractive, know how to set moods and insanely cool. aka bad boys. what most women will do is put themselves in position to be had by you... fortune favors the bold not the guy who takes the risk... "I'm scared shitless but I'm going to ask her out anyway- I gotta shot." cause that's what makes you a man. the girls will go "I wish I had a guy do that" and the jealous dudes will go "I wish I had the balls to do that" so do it... Submitted September 17, 2019 at 11:55PM Girls ask out guys who already get it ... or are attractive, know how to set moods and insanely cool. aka bad boys.what most women will do is put themselves in position to be had by you...fortune favors the bold not the guy who takes the risk..."I'm scared shitless but I'm going to ask her out anyway- I gotta shot." cause that's what makes you a man. the girls will go "I wish I had a guy do that...

Friday is my last day of Uni for the year until next year. A girl in my class who i like is moving Uni's next year so I won't see her around this uni anymore. Friday is my last chance how do I tell her I like her? I think she maybe into me but not sure. I suffer from anxiety which makes it difficult to get the nerve to ask her out. Thanks! Submitted September 17, 2019 at 11:56PM Friday is my last day of Uni for the year until next year. A girl in my class who i like is moving Uni's next year so I won't see her around this uni anymore. Friday is my last chance how do I tell her I like her? I think she maybe into me but not sure. I suffer from anxiety which makes it difficult to get the nerve to ask her out. Thanks!

I am 25F and seeing a 27M pansexual man. So far, I am enjoying the experience. It has made me wonder if I should seek out more non-heterosexual men or even non cis partners. Is it possible that these individuals will be kinder, more attentive, and forgiving lovers? Has anyone else felt more accepted by queer lovers tha by heterosexual lovers? Submitted September 18, 2019 at 12:05AM I am 25F and seeing a 27M pansexual man. So far, I am enjoying the experience. It has made me wonder if I should seek out more non-heterosexual men or even non cis partners. Is it possible that these individuals will be kinder, more attentive, and forgiving lovers? Has anyone else felt more accepted by queer lovers tha by heterosexual lovers?

So I was talking to this guy for about 3 months we were so alike and got along well he was everything I could ever ask for. We both liked each other a lot and knew that we were a good fit, but we lived 3 hours away and have only seen each other 4 long weekends but still FaceTimed everyday. He kinda knew that I didn’t know what I wanted and was just going with the flow, but I am also not very serious at times which we both weren’t we would constantly joke about blocking each other for dumb stuff. Anyways things were going good until we didn’t see each other for 3 weeks Bc I had quit my job and didn’t have money to go see him. Long story short I went to a festival and on the day after it was over he ended things with the only reason being that he didn’t see it going anywhere. Side note 1 day before the festival he asked me “if I asked you to be my girlfriend would you say yes?” To which I didn’t know what to answer since I thought he was kidding and didn’t want to seem clingy or eager s...

Throwaway for obvious reasons. I'll try to make it short and simple Today my elder brother called me and said he is breaking up with his wife because he's "found a soulmate". He packed his things and moved to his loved, with whom he's been together since June. I was so shocked because their marriage seemed perfect. Like absolutely perfect. No scandals, no big issues, nothing. They've been married for 15 years. They have a daughter who's 6 now, they wanted her very much. His wife is like a sister to me. So I couldn't believe it and thought it's all a bad timed April Fool's joke. I called her immediately afterward to support her. She confided in me and told me everything he said today. So, apparently, he was unhappy for these whole 15 years. And (I cannot believe he means it) he never wanted his daughter. He said that their daughter was a mistake and was his wife's whim. He said he was absolutely sure his wife stopped loving him like a co...

Me and my girlfriend started dating around 5 months ago. We used to talk almost everyday till august where she became pretty busy with her part-time. We still talked then just not as much. We then started to talk less just about a week before school started. And as school started, we barely even talk at all. It's hard to approach her because shes usually surrounded by her friends, whenever I try to talk to her she says a couple things and immediately goes to another friend, and if I ever text her the conversation ends quickly. I don't know if shes going through something right now because she never speaks to me. I feel like shes avoiding me and it really hurts. It's like we don't even know each other anymore. I really want to resolve this somehow but I really don't what to do. Any help? TL;DR : Me and girlfriend are drifting apart. She seems to be avoiding me. Submitted September 17, 2019 at 11:58PM Me and my girlfriend started dating around 5 months ago. W...

The title says it. I’m falling for a guy who is emotionally unavailable for a relationship. We’ve been “dating” for nearly 4 months now. We’re not exclusive and we’ve had the talk about it not turning into anything serious right now and that he isn’t ready for a relationship, that he was emotionally unavailable and I said it was ok because I wasn’t wanting anything serious but now I’m catching some pretty real feelings for him. I don’t know what to do. He acts all relationshipy in when we are together (which is basically every night) and he says he loves spending time with me. We act like a couple without being a couple. But last night after I saw something that upset me, I let my feelings spill a bit. I’ve been trying SO hard not let that happen. While he was letting me read something on his phone, a tinder notification popped up. I pretended I didn’t see it and I slid it up on the screen to dismiss it. I returned his phone to him and tried to fight back the tears because seeing tha...

this a throwaway account btw For context, there is a girl who has been crushing on me for literally 4 years. Multiple times she has told me this and has asked me out and each time I said no. A few weeks ago during summer time, our friend group decided to all go to Six Flags together since we never had really done anything really big together. Since this would possibly be one of the last days we see each other again before school starts, someone had a great idea of everyone confessing to their crush if they had one. Apparently a few weeks before we went to Six Flags, I was being extra flirty and such while texting this girl. Apparently this caused her and anyone involved with the confessing plan to believe that I started to develop feelings for her but just didn't want to admit it first and was waiting for her (even though I rejected her multiple times in the span of 4 years). What made all of this even worse is the fact that we decided we wanted to go to the water park in Six F...

Throwaway because my dad has a reddit, lol. My little brother has all of the family members blocked from his Instagram but he forgot to block me. He tends to post a lot of degrading things about sex and women. I didn’t want to tell my mom because I don’t want to cross a boundary of trust between he and I, but I’m wondering if I should even bring it up to him? He reposts memes about “fucking someone’s daughter” and inappropriate videos of people portraying sexual acts but, with clothes on. I don’t want to embarrass him, but I’m also worried about him having such a skewed perception of sex and intimacy at such a young age. TLDR; wondering if I need to address the sexual content my little brother posts on Instagram or if I should let him navigate this part of life on his own. Submitted September 18, 2019 at 12:01AM Throwaway because my dad has a reddit, lol.My little brother has all of the family members blocked from his Instagram but he forgot to block me. He tends to post a l...