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How do I talk to a girl I like at work

Okay so I work at starbucks and this girl just started working in the store that my starbucks is inside of and she really caught my eye but I haven’t seriously talked to a girl since my last relationship ended badly two years ago either way she smiled me the first day she started and and I know that doesn’t mean she likes me but I just really fell in love with her smile and Everyday before work i’m like okay imma talk to her and then i get there and she comes to get a drink at my starbucks like she does every day and it’s just a hi how are you what are you getting if even that so i just wanna know how to like really talk to her bc for some reason i’m so scared edit: if it helps i’m 18m and the same age or a year or two older Submitted January 20, 2023 at 12:53AM Okay so I work at starbucks and this girl just started working in the store that my starbucks is inside of and she really caught my eye but I haven’t seriously talked to a girl since my last relationship ended badly two...

Non-physical Social Activities to Meet New People?

Hi all, For my new years resolution, I made it my goal to go out more and put myself in situations where I could meet new people. A lot of activities my friends and other redditors mentioned seems to be physical activity related like dance classes, rock climbing, and other fitness classes which so far have all been solid recommendations. My issue now is that physically some days I feel physically exhausted but mentally I'm still solid for meeting new people. Does anyone have any recommendations for other non-physical activities I could try? Submitted January 20, 2023 at 01:05AM Hi all,For my new years resolution, I made it my goal to go out more and put myself in situations where I could meet new people. A lot of activities my friends and other redditors mentioned seems to be physical activity related like dance classes, rock climbing, and other fitness classes which so far have all been solid recommendations.My issue now is that physically some days I feel physically exha...

Is it weird to ask if she is seeing other people? [26F][24M]

We are by no means exclusive or do we have any labels at this point. Been talking for about two months. Is it weird to ask if she's talking to other people or seeing other people? I haven't and wouldn't mind if she was i just sort of want to know how serious she is and if there's others in the picture I wouldn't be surprised but just sort of want to know. Is this a normal question to ask at this point? Submitted January 20, 2023 at 01:09AM We are by no means exclusive or do we have any labels at this point. Been talking for about two months. Is it weird to ask if she's talking to other people or seeing other people? I haven't and wouldn't mind if she was i just sort of want to know how serious she is and if there's others in the picture I wouldn't be surprised but just sort of want to know. Is this a normal question to ask at this point?

What’s a good dating app cuz tinder ain’t it?

Other the tinder what’s a dating app you would recommend that’s not creepy and user friendly Submitted January 20, 2023 at 01:11AM Other the tinder what’s a dating app you would recommend that’s not creepy and user friendly

Why have the times changed so much in regards to dating now vs. many years ago?

22F here. I’m just wondering why dating has changed so much from back then to now. For example, my parents knew each other as teens, and then got into a relationship, and married each other when they were 21 and 23. (This was in the early 90’s). I have many aunts and uncles and it was like this for most of them as well. They married their spouses during their 20’s and are still married to them to this day. However nowadays, I keep seeing so many Reddit posts talking about men that are well into their 30’s that say they’re still “not ready” for a relationship, or are already approaching 30 years old and still not looking for anything serious. They’re still looking for only fwb and hook ups. I keep seeing posts from females talking about guys in their 30’s and still having the same issues as people in their early 20’s. It’s like guys don’t mature nowadays. By 32 years old, my dad already was married and had two kids (my older brother and I) and this is true for most of my uncles as wel...

/u/xpoisonvalkyrie on Aint no way

get a new therapist immediately, and report that one. invalidating your sexuality is bad enough, but defending a bully who SA-ed you?? that’s vile. January 20, 2023 at 12:21AM

Really been hurting recently. Can someone share just daily stories of something their bf/gf does for them that's cute? Just wanna live vicariously through people at this point.

So reason I ask is I am some kind of mentally underdeveloped freak. I have been through undergrad and now finishing up pharmacy school and was social but also had anxiety. I never learned game, now I am 25 M and a virgin who has never been on a date. The dating apps literally never had a match. I have some handicaps like being overweight and brown and 5'8.5, I am working out and looking good for me all but its kinda over. Just gonna focus on graduating and then pursuing med school. Anyways I used to be this hopeless rom com romantic. I even made a book of fun dates I could take a girl on and will send that to someone if they want. Anyways, can I just hear cute stories of what you do for your bf/gf, it is nice to hear?Not all us guys are that lucky. Submitted January 20, 2023 at 12:13AM So reason I ask is I am some kind of mentally underdeveloped freak. I have been through undergrad and now finishing up pharmacy school and was social but also had anxiety. I never learned ga...