I recently started having sex and it’s been an adventure to say the least. However I can never orgasm. The thing is I can make myself orgasm when I touch myself or when he fingers me but when I’m having actual sex with my boyfriend I get a pressure that feels like I’m going to orgasm but then it feels like I’m going to pee and I freak out and push him off. I have tried peeing before sex but I still feel it and I don’t know what to do. The thought of me peeing is so embarrassing that I no longer want to have sex and it’s gotten to the point where I no longer enjoy it. Is this feeling normal or should I get it checked out? Submitted March 12, 2020 at 12:15AM I recently started having sex and it’s been an adventure to say the least. However I can never orgasm. The thing is I can make myself orgasm when I touch myself or when he fingers me but when I’m having actual sex with my boyfriend I get a pressure that feels like I’m going to orgasm but then it feels like I’m going to pee and

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I am active on tinder and one girl wants to meet up. I only had sex in relationships before. This might be a really stupid question, but how does it work in these situations? Do you talk about what she wants etc, or is that weird for someone you dont know that well? How about going for in for 'round 2' (as i often come quickly the first time), how do you ask them without sounding dumb? Submitted March 12, 2020 at 12:26AM I am active on tinder and one girl wants to meet up. I only had sex in relationships before. This might be a really stupid question, but how does it work in these situations? Do you talk about what she wants etc, or is that weird for someone you dont know that well? How about going for in for 'round 2' (as i often come quickly the first time), how do you ask them without sounding dumb?

I went travelling for three months and was away from my fiancé, who was then my bf. The day after I came back he had a hotel booked for us, we just tore each other’s clothes off when the door closed behind us and starting making out passionately, his full lips were insatiable to me and I couldn’t get enough, after 69 I jumped on his big cock (he’s 8inches) and slowly stretched myself on it, it was painful but he started moving his hips as I lowered myself and I could feel my pussy opening up and accepting his dick, I felt my pussy juices encompassing his cock and drenching it, after a few strokes I jumped off and look back at it and saw my cum glistening on his rock hard dick. I licked it off while I looked him in his eyes my tongue running up and down his shaft. I got up and stuck my tongue down his throat and told him to suck it and spit in my mouth. I saw the look of surprise on his face then it quickly changed to hunger as he flipped me over and grabbed the bed railing and thrus

So I'm in college and, this week, classes have been shut down. I want to go out with this girl on a second date but I'm wondering if maybe I should just stay put at home. At the same time, I'm worried she'll lose interest if we don't do anything (my texting skills are fine but I'd also be pretty bored with talking to someone just through text when I only went out with them once so I'd understand if she loses interest) My question is, what do y'all think? Do you think I should still try to go out? For added context, a live a city away and would have to use most likely crowded public transportation to get to where she is so, again, probably not the best idea with the virus and all Submitted March 11, 2020 at 11:33PM So I'm in college and, this week, classes have been shut down.I want to go out with this girl on a second date but I'm wondering if maybe I should just stay put at home.At the same time, I'm worried she'll lose interes

Hey everyone I (20m) am wondering how I can be a good friend without seeming like a third wheel I mean I have been rooting for my two friends to get together for sometime now and they finally did which I’m super excited about but as we were hanging out the constant kissing and PDA were a lot for me. They’ve been affectionate before getting together and that’s what prompted me to ship them together I knew their was love for one another after speaking to them separately. but now that it’s happened and seeing the love more openly I feel more like a third wheel and stuff but I still like them as my friends.it just feels weird I think I’m just being bitter seeing them together and it just reminds me that I’m still single. Anyone have any advice on how to deal with this Submitted March 11, 2020 at 11:36PM Hey everyone I (20m) am wondering how I can be a good friend without seeming like a third wheel I mean I have been rooting for my two friends to get together for sometime now and th

I like this guy a lot. I definitely want to date him. He says he likes me too, but he’s not ready for anything. Do I wait around? Continue liking him and just see where things go? Try to find someone who actually wants to be with me? Try to get over him? We kissed for the first time a few days ago, but now he’s being vague (“I’ll see you around sometime” instead of making plans). Submitted March 11, 2020 at 11:37PM I like this guy a lot. I definitely want to date him. He says he likes me too, but he’s not ready for anything. Do I wait around? Continue liking him and just see where things go? Try to find someone who actually wants to be with me? Try to get over him?We kissed for the first time a few days ago, but now he’s being vague (“I’ll see you around sometime” instead of making plans).

I know this is about to be the typical single guy pity post but I seriously don't know what else to do or say at this point. Just some background about myself I'm 21, male, bisexual (if that matters), I'm in my senior year of college. I've been single for five years and not because I've wanted to be. It's just that starting to date again after a two year relationship proved to be way harder than I thought it would be, things snowballed/life happened, and now five years later I'm sitting here wondering where all that time went. In all that time I still haven't gotten past the second date. I've hooked up with some people then never talked to them again after because I was so embarrased about my performance lol. I'm shy and I always have a hard time holding a conversation with people I'm interested in and then my shyness just interferes with the whole encounter. It's like I'm trying to put myself out there and talk to people but I'm

I am a bit confused and don’t know what to make of this. We’ve been close for a year or so now and are really good friends. Then one night one thing just lead to another and we ended up having sex. That being said there has always been some sort of chemistry between us. She is gay and has had girlfriends in the past. It hasn’t been awkward or anything since and we’ve just sort of gone on as usual but I don’t know if I’m starting to like her now after what happened. I can see myself with her as we both get a long very well. Has this sort of thing ever happened to anyone else? Submitted March 11, 2020 at 11:42PM I am a bit confused and don’t know what to make of this. We’ve been close for a year or so now and are really good friends. Then one night one thing just lead to another and we ended up having sex.That being said there has always been some sort of chemistry between us.She is gay and has had girlfriends in the past.It hasn’t been awkward or anything since and we’ve just

Ok so class (im a 15 yr old female) is the only time I talk to him and we hang out with the same people I kinda like him but I don't want to get carried away and have him not like me back so I would like to know how to tell if a guy likes you Ps he is a really quiet person(I'm going to give his age because one I dont know it (can make an educated guess though) Submitted March 11, 2020 at 11:43PM Ok so class (im a 15 yr old female) is the only time I talk to him and we hang out with the same people I kinda like him but I don't want to get carried away and have him not like me back so I would like to know how to tell if a guy likes you Ps he is a really quiet person(I'm going to give his age because one I dont know it (can make an educated guess though)

Hi all, First time posting and I really just need to talk/advice. I'm in my late 20's and I met this guy online about 6 months ago. He is amazing and one of the sweetest guy's that I have ever met. Anyways, I'm working a full time job, masters program, and a few internships. I also recently found out I have some health issues and also take medication for my anxiety. We had a date few weeks back and I told him about my health condition I found about it. I prefaced it by saying if he didn't want to date me anymore I understand. My schedule is so tight and I barely have time for my friends, let alone seeing him. I feel so bad, I want to make time for him and he's always so flexible when I can do something last minute. I've been feeling guilty because I know he wants a relationship but I can't offer the time to help it grow. I let him know that it's not fair to him and if he wants to see other people he can but to just let me know if he does. It hurt

I don't understand how people do it. To me it seems like putting a facade for the sake of entertaining a crying baby, only this time, it's a woman and you're hoping to get laid out of it. It's like: Him: "Hey, you know I'm lying about who I really am right now, so here's this slick persona I made up, just play along" Her: "Alright, humor me, I'll try to give you some openings and let you run things smoothly, if we can both tango this out, things may work between us and we'll have some fun". Him: "I'll just act a bit overly excited of what you said, when in reality I would just nod and forget about it a couple seconds later". Like, I'm straight, but even if we assume I wasn't, if a guy went up to me and started flirting with how I've seen people flirt, I'd just go "what the fuck are you doing, please talk normally" or if they started being touchy I'd go "get to the fucking point&qu

I (33f) Started seeing this guy (34m) back in December. We met on hinge and really hit it off. We’ve been on multiple dates and outings with friends ever since. We’ve talked every day since December 1 when we matched. We’ve had more than two hour phone conversations, the good morning/good night texts, and talks about eventually moving in together. I went away on vacation about two weeks ago, and he was the best. Gave me space but still we couldn’t help it and talked everyday. When I came back he was fighting off a cold, so I gave him his space. When he called me on the phone I could tell he was really sick. He didn’t reach out as much as he was sick and obviously I was okay with it since he wasn’t feeling good at all. However when he started getting better, sounding better, he still was kinda lacking in the effort part. I was sensing something was off ..... Okay, now I told myself not to let my insecurities get the best of me. I’ve been hurt, abused, and ghosted before so when a guy

I've gotten into multiple serious relationships, but all of them don't like that I want to adopt despite being fertile. I have pretty awful genes, and wouldn't wish my experiences on anyone, let alone a child. I've gotten a quite serious boyfriend right now, but he keeps saying that he needs a legacy with his children...a legacy with biological children. All he wants is kids....and I can't help but feel like despite him being a good guy, I can't stand him doing that. What should I say to him? I don't want to break up, but I also don't want to keep being pushed around. Submitted March 11, 2020 at 11:52PM I've gotten into multiple serious relationships, but all of them don't like that I want to adopt despite being fertile. I have pretty awful genes, and wouldn't wish my experiences on anyone, let alone a child.I've gotten a quite serious boyfriend right now, but he keeps saying that he needs a legacy with his children...a legacy wi

I met a girl in one of my classes and we started talking after class pretty regularly, and I was working up the nerve to ask her out. Now it’s looking like class will be canceled for the rest of the semester because of the coronavirus and I may not see her again. I found her email in the campus directory though. Would it be weird if I emailed her? Submitted March 11, 2020 at 11:56PM I met a girl in one of my classes and we started talking after class pretty regularly, and I was working up the nerve to ask her out. Now it’s looking like class will be canceled for the rest of the semester because of the coronavirus and I may not see her again. I found her email in the campus directory though. Would it be weird if I emailed her?

Society tells us that we need another human being to complete us. This pressure is mostly felt by women. People constantly tell us that we’re running out of time,that we won’t find anyone after turning 30, and that we won’t be able to have kids because we’ll be too old. We rush into relationships, marriage, and having kids even though deep down our gut tells us that this isn’t the right thing to do. We compare ourselves to other people and to their timeline which doesn’t have to be ours. Relationship is hard work but society and media tells us it’s all nice and easy. I’m 22F and since I was a teenager, I’ve always wanted a boyfriend. I had one and even after a break up I wanted to be in another relationship. I’ve always wanted a guy because I thought he would complete me. Then, I dated this guy who was way more into me than I was into him and it hit me. I love my independence and being able to do whatever I want to do, whenever I want to. I realized that I will be in a relationship un

I’m a 20f. I’m a christian, and I’m saving myself for marriage. I’ve been in about 4 long term relationships 4 short term. It seems like I have bad luck when it comes to dating sometimes, and maybe that’s attributed to the guys I date, but I feel like there’s more. In general I try to date guys with similar values as me (I.e. Christians) but that doesn’t mean I’m opposed to dating secular guys. However, it seems that no matter the guy, whether he is Christian or not, they expect me to put out after about a month of dating. I am very upfront with everyone I date about wanting to wait until marriage, and most the guys I’ve dated act like they are ok with that, but it seems that sometime within a month or two of dating the guy either gets frustrated with me, and breaks up with me cause I won’t put out, or he starts cheating on me cause I won’t put out. I feel like I’m going crazy! Is sex the only way to maintain a relationship? Am I just dating awful guys? I don’t really know what the

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There's advantage of being a white male in America. Most women just prefer white men compare to indian man like myself. I been around many states, been on many times and the results are the same. I just don't know if I"m the problem or if it's legit harder for indian males to attract white women in america. Ppl online have been saying that the problem is me. That height, looks and race, wealth don't matter. That the only thing that matters is the confidence and personality. My confidence is so low right now, I'm starting to believe it. Maybe the problem is me? Submitted March 12, 2020 at 12:00AM There's advantage of being a white male in America. Most women just prefer white men compare to indian man like myself. I been around many states, been on many times and the results are the same. I just don't know if I"m the problem or if it's legit harder for indian males to attract white women in america.Ppl online have been saying that the pr

We’ve considered places like Top Golf and Dave & Busters but those are across the way for us in the other big city. We have some bars in our downtown that are “recreational” but not sure I wanna do a bar Submitted March 12, 2020 at 12:08AM We’ve considered places like Top Golf and Dave & Busters but those are across the way for us in the other big city. We have some bars in our downtown that are “recreational” but not sure I wanna do a bar

Basically I, 17M, met this girl, 17F, and since the first day we met, we been talking non stop, only problem is that on snap/text her reply times are really long and incredibly blunt; although when I took her out, i thought it was a date and she simply said “idm” we got along really well and we had a great time. She prompted to say after the first time i took her out that she’d want to do it again I made sure this time to say “Can I take you out on a date” and she agreed; but when I ask her when she is free, she responds “idk”😂 I just wanna know if I’m getting subtly let down or she is just really bad at texts and is a really busy person Submitted March 12, 2020 at 12:10AM Basically I, 17M, met this girl, 17F, and since the first day we met, we been talking non stop, only problem is that on snap/text her reply times are really long and incredibly blunt; although when I took her out, i thought it was a date and she simply said “idm” we got along really well and we had a great

I don't know if this is the right sub, but it feels like it. So, backstory: I texted this girl back in October. She doesn't make herself sound very approachable, as in, "I don't like guys trying to flirt with me." I respect that. We quickly learned about our mutual interests, so we bonded a little. We texted a lot, just making jokes and saying really creative, stupid things. I figured she's not too outgoing really early on. She works a full time job during the day and studies at night, and she's really focused (doesn't stay up late), but she always has lots of time for me. We don't ever have any meaningful conversation aside from a few debates we had before, it's usually just goofing around. We also used to say "good morning my [insert strange, creative compliment here]" all the time. It almost sounded like flirting to me. There was also one time I told her my height (I'm tall) and she said something about women preferring ta

Hello everyone! Newbie here. And I’ll just jump right into my question or crying help! So, yesterday, in the office while the whole office was so quiet, I blasted porn through my phone for a few good seconds. I’m mostly quiet, hard working (as they say) and respectful. Now I’m so embarrassed I just wanna disappear. I feel like quitting my job. What should I do and how do I keep on form this??? Please help and I’d appreciate some comforts! Thanks! Mg San. Submitted March 12, 2020 at 12:17AM Hello everyone! Newbie here. And I’ll just jump right into my question or crying help! So, yesterday, in the office while the whole office was so quiet, I blasted porn through my phone for a few good seconds. I’m mostly quiet, hard working (as they say) and respectful. Now I’m so embarrassed I just wanna disappear. I feel like quitting my job. What should I do and how do I keep on form this??? Please help and I’d appreciate some comforts! Thanks! Mg San.